Dont you guys find mongering time consuming?

[Andreme]

I dont know if this is something that all men go through but im increasingly starting to feel that mongering is getting to be extremely time consuming and tiring. I need a minimum of 2 hours every encounter and i also need that time cause i always do 2 shots if not i feel unsatisfied.

But between work and home affairs i increasingly find it difficult to find the time needed to drive my ass to the location , spend the 2 hours and then drive off to my next errand. Its honestly beginning to put me off mongering as its so difficult to squeeze in that 2 - 3 hours just to get myself off even once a week.

Im thinking of just getting a vasectomy so my libido dies down and i dont need to think about it anymore. Maybe my hormones are getting lower? im confused wheter this is a good or bad thing for me.

any opinions?

[ghostcow]

Did not know vasectomy can decrease libido. Seems like high libido is a curse? Or just find an equally high libido wife so you can bonk at home

[macrick]

I dont know if this is something that all men go through but im increasingly starting to feel that mongering is getting to be extremely time consuming and tiring. I need a minimum of 2 hours every encounter and i also need that time cause i always do 2 shots if not i feel unsatisfied.

But between work and home affairs i increasingly find it difficult to find the time needed to drive my ass to the location , spend the 2 hours and then drive off to my next errand. Its honestly beginning to put me off mongering as its so difficult to squeeze in that 2 - 3 hours just to get myself off even once a week.

Im thinking of just getting a vasectomy so my libido dies down and i dont need to think about it anymore. Maybe my hormones are getting lower? im confused whether this is a good or bad thing for me.

any opinions?


Falsehood. Vasectomy does not decrease libido. Age is the only sure thing that does decrease libido. The only thing is how fast it decreases with age. Factors such as smoking, drinking and other medical conditions do hasten the decrease in testosterone/libido.

If you experience ED after vasectomy, consult your doc immediately. If you drink alcohol, smoke tobacco everyday. I recommend you quit. If you want to stop whore mongering, just go home and DIY

https://www.nichd.nih.gov/health/topics/vasectomy/conditioninfo/sex-life#:~:text=It%20does%20not%20decrease%20your,amo unt%20of%20semen%20you%20ejaculate.

https://ugatl.com/services/vasectomy/does-vasectomy-affect-sex-drive/

[dman19]

I dont know if this is something that all men go through but im increasingly starting to feel that mongering is getting to be extremely time consuming and tiring. I need a minimum of 2 hours every encounter and i also need that time cause i always do 2 shots if not i feel unsatisfied.

But between work and home affairs i increasingly find it difficult to find the time needed to drive my ass to the location , spend the 2 hours and then drive off to my next errand. Its honestly beginning to put me off mongering as its so difficult to squeeze in that 2 - 3 hours just to get myself off even once a week.

Im thinking of just getting a vasectomy so my libido dies down and i dont need to think about it anymore. Maybe my hormones are getting lower? im confused wheter this is a good or bad thing for me.

any opinions?

Its a good thing that you have a high sex drive even with a hectic work and home schedule. If anything, its something you need so you can release. Better management is a natural thing to need if you are a person who prioritises home work and personal needs altogether. I think to add on to this, just try to eat healthy and take care of yourself. It is our culture that sg men are all rounders and have to jaga all these aspects, also sg women are doing the same simply because its too competitive in this fast paced society

Personally, I want to slow down a bit but my wife cannot. So what to do…. Join her in the rat race lo haha

[Andreme]

i personally have a rule of never to DIY to maintain my brother's health , so to me its getting to a point where i would not be able to sleep well after a while as i keep getting dreams of fucking and i get distracted by women walking past me on the street.

Its getting to be quite annoying since i will forget what i wanted to do or think about after getting distracted and after a few more days as long as they are female i will automatically look at their butts or legs or boobs instead of their face which is not good conduct.

[Ecuader]

Personally, I want to slow down a bit but my wife cannot. So what to do…. Join her in the rat race lo haha

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[chubbybastard]

i personally have a rule of never to DIY to maintain my brother's health , so to me its getting to a point where i would not be able to sleep well after a while as i keep getting dreams of fucking and i get distracted by women walking past me on the street.

Its getting to be quite annoying since i will forget what i wanted to do or think about after getting distracted and after a few more days as long as they are female i will automatically look at their butts or legs or boobs instead of their face which is not good conduct.

Then i think you better start breaking that rule coz its clearly affecting you. Last thing you need is to end up un an accident because you were distracted

[dman19]

Then i think you better start breaking that rule coz its clearly affecting you. Last thing you need is to end up un an accident because you were distracted

Lol true that. DIY is useful especially when you need to focus on something else.

[orez]

Im thinking of just getting a vasectomy so my libido dies down and i dont need to think about it anymore.


Genuine question here: "does vasectomy reduces libido?"

I'm asking because I'm considering vasectomy to avoid the need to use condoms.

[Andreme]

technically the urge to engage in sexual acts comes from hormones being riled up which increases greatly when your body produces sperm cells , so by not allowing your sperm cells to exit the body you eliminate the need to produce more sperm which should lead to a decrease of hormones activated. At least thats my theory , cause i always notice i get extremely horny again about 6-7 days after my ejaculation

[MyFriendIsBiden]

Genuine question here: "does vasectomy reduces libido?"

I'm asking because I'm considering vasectomy to avoid the need to use condoms.

After vasectomy, a guy can still make semen and ejaculate.
Only sperms get reabsorbed into the body.

If you want unprotected sex with ladies other than your spouse, there are other things to consider, such as STD.
And MLs/FLs will not believe that you had done surgery because you can still ejaculate.

[Dignified69]

i personally have a rule of never to DIY to maintain my brother's health , so to me its getting to a point where i would not be able to sleep well after a while as i keep getting dreams of fucking and i get distracted by women walking past me on the street.

Its getting to be quite annoying since i will forget what i wanted to do or think about after getting distracted and after a few more days as long as they are female i will automatically look at their butts or legs or boobs instead of their face which is not good conduct.

I would not be surprised if your KKJ sued you for failing to consummate the relationship with your self. Obviously neber self love then going to go bat crazy on seeing anything with boobs.

My problem is opposite. Today have very good sex. WL is my sweetheart. French like no tomorrow, BBJ, DATY, long pounding and then release. Spend $200.

But 1 hr later see hot tik Tok and then get horny again. See pretty woman go crazy.

So it seems after my refractory period I horny again. Its like a never ending void of sexual need.

[Andreme]

I would not be surprised if your KKJ sued you for failing to consummate the relationship with your self. Obviously neber self love then going to go bat crazy on seeing anything with boobs.

My problem is opposite. Today have very good sex. WL is my sweetheart. French like no tomorrow, BBJ, DATY, long pounding and then release. Spend $200.

But 1 hr later see hot tik Tok and then get horny again. See pretty woman go crazy.

So it seems after my refractory period I horny again. Its like a never ending void of sexual need.
thats what im saying , when i do it regularly i become more horny and pay more attention to women but when i refrain it becomes super easy to ignore them and focus on my own things like my work and exercise.

honestly i indulged in a 2 week bender with a particular WL and thats when i started noticing my inability to focus on things. Not proud to say but in the interest of honesty i spent almost 4K in that house in that 2 weeks.

Now when i talk to people i meet i find my vision instinctively pulled towards observing their T&A rather than their face.

[Dignified69]

thats what im saying , when i do it regularly i become more horny and pay more attention to women but when i refrain it becomes super easy to ignore them and focus on my own things like my work and exercise.

honestly i indulged in a 2 week bender with a particular WL and thats when i started noticing my inability to focus on things. Not proud to say but in the interest of honesty i spent almost 4K in that house in that 2 weeks.

Now when i talk to people i meet i find my vision instinctively pulled towards observing their T&A rather than their face.

You may be on to something bro. But very difficult not to do it. At my client site full of tall hot Chio bu. Drives me crazy. That said there was one period of 8 months or so I went without sex with a human being.

[Andreme]

Wish there was something that man can eat to tamp their libido , also stops men from getting into relationships with crazy women just cause they are hot.

That said if men have no libido 30% of all industries in the world will go bankrupt.

[Penguin23]

Wish there was something that man can eat to tamp their libido , also stops men from getting into relationships with crazy women just cause they are hot.

That said if men have no libido 30% of all industries in the world will go bankrupt.

There are meds that lower testosterone levels - they are called anti-androgens. These cannot be bought over the counter and you need to see a doctor to access them. These meds are usually prescribed to men who are transitioning to womanhood

All anti-androgens can have severe side effects so I do not recommend that you take them. There are other ways to manage a high sex drive

[Andreme]

All anti-androgens can have severe side effects so I do not recommend that you take them. There are other ways to manage a high sex drive

thats a good bit of info to know thanks man , but i dont wanna grow boobs. I like to see the boobs on others and not on myself lol

[Penguin23]

thats a good bit of info to know thanks man , but i dont wanna grow boobs. I like to see the boobs on others and not on myself lol

Interestingly, man boobs are actually a side effect of excessive testosterone injections, not anti androgen injections.

So yeah, injections and meds are actually a bad idea to resolve your issue