Keep in contact with previous WL
 

Does anyone still keep in contact with any of the WLs after they are back to their countries. I was recently in Bangkok, and a former Thai WL messaged me to ask if I wanted to meet during Loi Krathong. What do you all thinking of her intention ?

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Well.... i guess she has a liking on you thats why she dont mind meeting you.... but of course you have also behave in a way previously which attract her to want me you again....

Loi krathong passed a month ago, did you go? If she has kids that is the way she ask you to meet her children. Because loy krathong more peaceful unlike songkran, and if she good mother, she like to be with her kids if can.


This is more common than you think. Just that half of group keep it quiet to themselves, another group is wishing for it.

But the point of WL keep contact with customers after going back is very common. But from my experience watching them directly , the amount isn’t many.

Say she got 15 johns she just reply when feel like it. 5 maybe with
More intense communication. Finally the last 2 or 1 they talk with everyday with chance of meeting up.

All are define by how well your journey while she is here. You may feel had given a lot for her and being intense, but what most important is your lasting impression that stays in her mind.

Mind you these are woman, seeing hundred men and dicks in a month, thousands in years. Handsome good look and good sex alone, wouldn’t make them wanting to connect with you long after they return.

Secondly, we can’t be naive thinking they only work 2 years in SG, never do sex work before and will not after. 99% of their issue is money problem with some outlier attachment issues or narcissistic. But money is always been the issues

Some able to save hundreds of thousands SGD after 2 years here. Now the
Question is does it solve their money problem?
Obviously no, for 2 reasons, because they don’t know how to reinvest the money and the big ones, “greed” if you used to make sgd 12,000 a month, why not continue to any country that allows them to operate to help them continue earning that kind of money be it RMB, KRW TWD HKD even AED.

These new country will bring new connections to them, so you can see how far you being push down the scale with more new connections she has now.

It boils down to your question what are the intent. It’s very easy and only 2 possibilities.

1. She wants your money while waiting for her new gig. To identify this is very easy if you not hinting the $$$ compensation amount she will
Just keep delaying say got something on etc.

2. She really keen to know you more sincerely. You only know this after meeting her outside Singapore for few times. Like any love be it with normal woman with WL only the time will be a true test.
But even here, she would appreciate some kind of monetary support too, no one likes the free loader.

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Well said. If you are able to fathom her contacts and present activities with customers to maintain her business for a start, you are close to nirvana. Thats the hardest part most people find it hard to swallow. Human are born emotional and selfish, meaning once am able to do raw and love blossoms, you-are-mine attitude. Step 2 kicks in...financial support consistency, close to closing the chapter. If you are able to provide not only for her but her family back home concerns, relationship will be more solid. The sad truth nowadays is that relationship is meausred by material gains rather than true love from a start. Live with it. Its no more our parents or grandparents era. Environment change, thus a person's mindset.

Some very small percentage had progressed more than that...started family, and living happily everafter at least. Situation enables them to leave and be with their new small family. That is bliss. But to maintain it till death do both apart, that will be another chapter of maneuver. So in conclusion, nothing is impossible, all up to oneself if you decide to progress this direction. You must have a very strong stomach and will power to do so. Not all are bad, some sincere exists if timing is right. If not, just follow some tikors motto...'pay up fuck n forget' or 'whores are for fucking....'.

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I still briefly keep in contact with one of the PRC ex WLs.

but i also follow the law of diminishing returns for friendship.

After the last physical meet up in China, i taper off the interactions over wechat, cos after a while nothing much to talk about (two different world theory).

Dw end up in the situation where talking for the sake of talking, end up very tiring on both sides

but I will still send her well wishes come her birthday and New Year day. Maybe if got time, go find her again in China in 2026 hahaha :D:D

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back to your point, don overthink so much. It could just be a courtesy meetup. But it is still your choice to reject all form of interactions, don feel bad about it, you retain the agency of who to meet and what to do. Life will always go on as per normal.

sorry for being long winded :):)

Bro Why you think so deep. Treat it like friend with benefit.

In SG i also have non-WL friend whom i meet to Fvck . I dont have any emotional attachment to them.

Treat it as such, why u headache? Haha

As @walao described it further, going down this path, is literally millions more sacrifices on the man’s side.

This is fact no way around it. So going down this path you have to be 1,000,000 % she goes all in with you, and you are not failsafe 2nd or 3rd option.

Remember the Man in this situation is the biggest loser, monetary and heart wise. What WL can lose? Just heart they can easily find again elsewhere. So please … please make sure the lady is in to you at least match your intensity for her, better if more.

But here is the kicker and true irony, The WL you really go for rarely is the one that into you as much. And there is another WL willing to make you the only one, but your heart insist to be somewhere else

This is so true.

I tried asking a WL if okay to go out during off days? She shared that other girls in same house got found out going out with customer and got sent home immediately. While another WL from a different house will auto message me when she on code red and asked me to bring her out. My preference is the first WL.

They can and will go out with their "big bro" All the time . The WL who say cannot is just rejecting your advance in a nice way.

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Totally agreed. From my little experience, if they are comfortable with you and like you. They will go definitely go out with you.

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Boss Sam advice:rolleyes:

Whores are for Fucking not Loving :)

meet her:cool:

cream her;)

pay her:D

bye bye :p


PS.remember dont bring her go shopping else sure see god :eek:

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Shopping can be fine if she tells you what she's looking for first... One time I buy her lipsticks and she fucked me 3 times that day.

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You are very lucky:p

Me always kena knife sharp sharp one :D

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True story! From what I gathered, most have a "big bro"/"boyfriend".

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No, I didn’t. She was in Chiang Mai and I was having reservist in Thailand during that time. Hence, I was unable to go.