Should I just divorce?
 

So guys, I found out my husband cheated on me with ML/FL and also some KTV hostesses. Multiple betrayals. You guys think he can change or should I just pack his bag and kick him out?

Re: Should I just divorce?
 

Only you can answer this question - not to just throw the question back at you, but there are some career fields (e.g. construction, sales, shipping) where going to KTV is practically part of the job description.

Anyway, SG has no-fault divorces now, you no longer need any reason to divorce. Whether you manage to prove his misbehaviors or not, has no impact at all on the asset division.

Realistic opinions…
Protect yourself from stds and make him go for tests
Ask yourself if you want to find someone else and how much trouble is it to stay on and to end the relationship
What is your definition of cheating?
Why do you think he cheated?
Usually if the relationship goes astray, both parties share the responsibility
For your own long term happiness, whether with him or not, you might want to know what went wrong and then decide

Add you my humble point.
Agree that only TS can answer
Also to add if got kids lagi worse

Re: Should I just divorce?
 

Aiya divorce lah,i also divorcee,no big deal

Re: Should I just divorce?
 

If you lurk around various telegram channels and this forum, u will quickly realise a lot, a lot of people are married with kids and they are out to play perhaps even more so than the unmarried or just in RS or single. I personally see a lot more of older gen in such places over my past years of playing. Like KTV, hangflower joints, way more older customers presumably married with kids.

You need to make this decision yourself especially when kids are involved. There are people who choose to act blur live with it, or discuss with the guy and allow some of it with restrictions, or can't accept it - and divorce. Your situation is common sadly. Just try to make sure that you are not the losing party monetary wise at least.

Re: Should I just divorce?
 

very true. we cant find happiness and joy with our wives, so we pay for it. even if temporary, it still makes us happy.

comminication with the wives is impossible about these kind of matters, the man always loses sadly.

good thing we men have SBF.

Just curious, TS is the female side, why is she even on SBF asking?

Re: Should I just divorce?
 

Divorce? You should reward him instead for being a real man lol. As long as he manage his finances well and don't get into trouble, let him be as he is just doing what a man should do to be truly happy. If he don't cheong such places and always stick to you and family then you should worry, LOL. :D

https://i.imgur.com/TXll9yJ.jpg

Re: Should I just divorce?
 

yes, make sure you take all his money too. you deserve better

Re: Should I just divorce?
 

Why does he want to visit ML or FL?

Re: Should I just divorce?
 

Root Cause Analysis...

I like...

But it is a valid question for TS

Re: Should I just divorce?
 

Sometimes diagnosing the problem is painful and expensive. But easier to ignore the problem and blame only the other party! I believe it takes 2 hands to clap though....

Re: Should I just divorce?
 

My wife allowed me to visit FL but i haven't done so. I'll only go if she arranged it for me. You have to find out what it means to cheat for you. Men and women have different definition.

I'd say cheating involves paid service is 'not cheating'. Cheating for 'free of charge' like bonking co-worker or online is cheating.