What is going through their minds ?
 

I have a gf who is curious to be a watcher - watching me do with a FL or another female (this has not happened yet)

in normal circumstance, a gf would not like you to be shared with other females, and my personal opinion of a man not wanting to share their FBs with other males (we are quite possession of our partners in the realm of intimacy)

I have reservations about doing this live-show, as I am afraid that she will not want to be intimate with me

what is really going on in her mind / their minds for wanting to watch us (any bros have similar experience to share ?)

is it to "see" what we are doing with "them". Since they are in the action, they are unable to visualise / see, so they want to see the "live" action, where we are the actors, and their "stunt-double" is a FL ?

Re: What is going through their minds ?
 

well i propose u bring her to a hotel with big mirrors like keong saik 81
while u bonking her, she can see herself in the mirror :D

Re: What is going through their minds ?
 

send her to my place & let me inspect her for you, surely something wrong with her now ! :eek:

Re: What is going through their minds ?
 

im in similar situation as TS, in a way. my gf wants to watch me doing it with another girl too, and she don minn joining in the fun lol. and she also said she don mind me looking for flings, but not fb. I think she don mind me having fun with flings, but don wan me to have a long term fb as there might be emotional attachments. she never mention fl but I don think she'll allow, as she regards them as pros. so far I haven't found any flings yet though. donno where and how to find lol.

so what I think is, some girls like my gf and ts gf, understands guys' needs. they don mind their bf doing it for physical pleasure as long as they won't have feelings for the girls. that's how my gf thinks anyway.

Re: What is going through their minds ?
 

Smells like a trap.....thread carefully! And good luck if you find a gf who wants an open relationship - hope you dun mind sharing her when she brings up that subject!

Re: What is going through their minds ?
 

HI TS, i too smell a rat.... when a girl give you something, she is expecting it back 100 times!!! Just imagine, she want to watch you doing it live with a fling, she in return is asking for your consent to allow her sleep with 100 mens.....

Re: What is going through their minds ?
 

Bro sorry to be blunt...but a girl who truly loves you will never share you with others...Impossible...

It is in their genes to be possessive when they love you..

Maybe it is a hint of something going behind your back...pls be prepared bro...

Re: What is going through their minds ?
 

Smells fishy.... Maybe she is planning something even " bigger" than u...:rolleyes:

Re: What is going through their minds ?
 

Please don't be so naive and get conned ...

So what if you think she allows you to do another girl in front of her ?

The consequences are tremendously tough to stomach.

Only one good scenario and 1001 bad ones can happen:

Only good possibility:

She is a very open-minded girl and a horny one as well.


Bad possibilities:

a) She is testing and you failed the test.

b) She might get jealous and make your life hell.

c) She is promiscuous and having sex with other guys.

d) Next time in the future, if you have arguments, she might bring this up to humiliate you.

e) Worse, you two got married and this is used as a divorce excuse costing you half of whatever you have.

f) etc etc .... so many more worse possible cases that can happen.

So think carefully with the big head and not the small one coz women only have one big head. When it comes to the heads, size does matter.

The larger head always win when it comes to scheming and revenge.

Re: What is going through their minds ?
 

It is good that your GF opens her mind and let you know abt her fantasy..
do bare in mind that, if you are really going to do it live, she might be jealous..as you know.. woman gets jealous... unless.. it is a very mature and stable relationship... cheers happy bonking

Re: What is going through their minds ?
 

I can only deduce that if she is so liberal about sharing you with another woman then like wise she could be equally liberal about sharing herself to another man....:eek::eek: