How to handle a FB???
 

Not sure is this the correct definition of a fb but I am having a fling and she knows I have a family. (She is single)

My past experiences with a few previous others left a bad taste as my flings always ended up getting clingy (SMSin/ calling at nights, wanting more of my time ...etc) and often gets me into trouble. (managed to evade with some crappy excuses but had to dump the relationships asap to prevent ireparable damage to my marriage)

So am asking for advice from anybody experienced here.... what or how do you lay out the terms between u and yr fb so that it will remain status quo (without overstepping the borders but yet she will maintain the fb relationship)? Any dos or donts? So far, my style has been making clear of my family commitments and telling her of my 'curfews' for calls and smses......but it seems they are not enough (but over do it I scared losing the partner...)

Any experiences for sharing would be helpful too...thanks in advance..

Re: How to handle a FB???
 

If you're married, why don't you simply remain faithful to your wife??:rolleyes: Why on earth do you need a fuck buddy in the first place?

What if your wife decides to have a fuck buddy too? You're fine with that?:confused:

Re: How to handle a FB???
 

Thats the ideal. But how many of us can do that? The hormones run amok the moment we see a pretty thing. Then we start to imagine what we want to do and the next thing is we desire to conquer. After the successful conquest we want to retain possession. All these are natural processes that all able male homo sapien will go thru.

Re: How to handle a FB???
 

Read this first ....

The Electric New Paper, Singapore - The Electric New Paper News

Re: How to handle a FB???
 

zzz... thanks neveronsunday for sharing the link.. hope this brings the light to TS.

TS pls weigh the consequences before u continue the r/s. ur FB might tell u she's ok without status now but when she is more emotionally attached, who knows what might happen.

most importantly, if u ever have sex outside ur marriage, pls use a CD n precautions so that u dont pass god knows what disease to ur family..

Re: How to handle a FB???
 

If you can't handle her , mind passing her to me ? In the first place why are you having a FB ?

Re: How to handle a FB???
 

Ya... TS... The best way is stil get out of your FB life... Be faithful to your wife... You both have fate that brings you together... SO cherish it...

Re: How to handle a FB???
 

i used to have a FB but in other way is she is married and i am single , one day her husband come and find me. and trying means to sabo me.

i advise you not to have any FB be it you are married or single and goes the same to your FB. cos its very very troublesome

Re: How to handle a FB???
 

Hi bro, if you have a hormonal problem, its simple. Just lob off your balls and be an eunuch... that should solve it. But if you have a problem with self-control, that's something else altogether.

Re: How to handle a FB???
 

As time goes by the bonding will get more and more intense.
By the time you wanted out .....
Scratch your balls also no use.
Good to have but not necessary to have.

Re: How to handle a FB???
 

it seems some of us are quite lucky to have a fb.... while others such as myself got to settle for geylang... btw, anyone noes how to get a fb coz i want one if possible?

Re: How to handle a FB???
 

Pass the number to me, let me handle for you. ;)

Re: How to handle a FB???
 

Hmmm, agree that's the ideal. Even woman also have flings/fb(s) too that men doesn't know. I guess this world is still about doing it in the smart way not hurting the other party.

At times also must be due to that the wife does refuse to or does not want to perform certain sexual actions like bbbj etc to the husband which is the reason why fb(s) exist. Many other reasons to like high sex drive can lead to unsatisfied sessions and thus the appetite for more outside.

Have rewarded u back daggerboy. Cheers.

Re: How to handle a FB???
 

Bro,u fast hand fast leg than me,hehe. Bro ts,if u dont mind,let us settle for you.:D

Re: How to handle a FB???
 

Initial FB ...slowly want to own you