Would you forgive your spouse/partner for cheating on you?
 

This is a burning question that I've been wanting to ask. We men (well, at least majority of us) have always been "cheating" on our spouses/partners - hence all the FRs here.....

I wonder what if the opposite happened? Meaning, our spouses/partners "cheated" on us & contributed their own FRs. If we were to find out, will we, or can we forgive them?

As for me, I don't think I can do it......

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Forgiveness is not difficult. I would be able to forgive. What is difficult is forgetting.

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To be honest, no man or woman can forgive. Usually woman forgive (or I would say close an eye) because of family (children), financial dependant or felt it difficult to find another spouse (especially older ladies)...but it doesn't mean they can/would forgive. Is even harder for us men to forgive especially if we are the income earner of the family.

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actually i would give my blessings .... :)

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Good for you, I would just look at the same way and add to it by asking her if she would to start swinging together, both could still see othere while at the same time we could also play together with others.

Done it before and loved it.

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that why god say, humans are selfish creatures. we GUYS wanna eat extra outside, but we can never accept our gal eat EXTRA outside, or get EAT extra outside, even how much we love the gal. thats life bros

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Mother nature has created the world to be a place of balance.
I.E

Yin vs Yang
Man vs women
Cold vs Hot
etc etc...there are so many everyday examples!

So when people try to upset these balances and go against mother nature, they will feel uncomfortable and start to be worried that there might be a repercussion from the other side of the balance.

My point is,

If you do not want to feel afraid or feel insecure, then dun even do it in the first place (infidelity).

However, if you have done it, it's only nature's law that one day you might be treated in the same way. So accept it!

There is no such thing as I always want 51% and others must be contented with 49%. No matter how hard you try, one day, things will revert back to 50% vs 50% whether u like it or not.

Summary: Forgive and Forget! Life is too short to be spent grumbling over past issues. I would!!

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If you cannot forget, then what is the point in forgiving?

Either divorce/split or wipe the slate clean.

As Master Yoda once said, 'Do or do not, there is not try". Fear the dark side, little padawan!

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like someone mentioned i think it is easier for girls to forgive guys..

but if i caught my spouse cheating on me, i think 99% i cannot forgive... cos i cannot forget... the trust wont be there anymore...

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It would seem the Force is strong with this one, and the wisdom is good also.

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I have come to the point of.. yes, I can forgive her and will still love her provided she admits her mistakes and willing to repent.

No point being unforgiving towards her. She would be happier and maybe regretful.

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Yes dudes. Cheat and be cheated....Dun complain when the tables are turned....;)

Re: Would you forgive your spouse/partner for cheating on you?
 

yup..do not do onto others what you don't want others to do onto you.

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I guess if the forgiving is going to continue 2-ways indefinitely, might as well engage in swinging lifestyle lo.

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well it all depends...
women are likely to forgive men but never forget. To them,she loves him and pray hard that he will realise home is where he should belongs in the end.
But men,once he started to change,the love for it change. If the partner cheats,men normally will wanna call for a break up.
Thats how i see. Sharing.
Thanks Guys!