Lusty Mind with lazy body
 

Serious problem! And hope bros & sis can help here...

I am 29 this year and encountering a really worrying problem - I want sex and CANNOT have sex because it is very difficult to keep my D**K and/or mind aroused long enough to do the deed fully. Either I do it within 5 minutes or it (the interest and thus erection) will just die off after a while.

See my age? I don think i have any physical problem, more likely a psychological issue. So i think viagra and similar performance enhancement pills are not necessary. But maybe something that make me horny and wana have sex you know? Something like those pills or what not that we see in movies that gangsters always use to make their gfs horny kind... where can get such stuffs?

Sigh. Or perhaps it is just a lao period that my body is telling me not to have sex for a while... Wth?! :(

Re: Lusty Mind with lazy body
 

Take sometime away from your work. A 2 weeks break would be good. Go to some nice beautiful island which isn't too secluded and not too crowded. Have a good time and re-charged that inner energy. I have a similar problem and I go away once every 2 months and it works wonder.

Re: Lusty Mind with lazy body
 

Might you have ADD??

Re: Lusty Mind with lazy body
 

Erm... what is ADD?

Re: Lusty Mind with lazy body
 

You probably need a healthy diet, more exercise and sufficient rest……so that your lazy body can put your lusty mind in action.

If above still doesn’t work……time to get more proper treatment through specialist.

Worry will not solve your problem; action does.

Cheers.

Re: Lusty Mind with lazy body
 

You need to pin down if it's the mind or the body.

In my case, I cummed very fast whenever i make love with a new girl. With familar ones, I can "last" longer and sometimes if too long, it will die.

Your problem is with existing girl?

Re: Lusty Mind with lazy body
 

Sobs!

My problem is with every girl! Like sometimes dating a new girl (as in never lay her before), will get super turned on seeing her clevage, the teasing, the touching, etc. But when get down to the deed, the erection will die off.

Scene 1
In movies, girl gets cold, hug hug. Arm brushes her breasts or her hand put on my thigh i will get super hard cos anticipating...

Scene 2
Get into car, kiss kiss, hands roving, touch ass, feel WOW! G-String! Super hard...

Scene 3
Get into room (or some times office hee!), take off clothes bit by bit... Super hard...

Scene 4 Both naked, oral or Hj or whatever... erection will die off...

WTF?!?!

Re: Lusty Mind with lazy body
 

TS, how long have this problem been persisting u?
Or is it just recently?

Re: Lusty Mind with lazy body
 

Maybe you need to control your self abit. Seems like you get too excited easily. :)

Re: Lusty Mind with lazy body
 

I think u need more exercise...:rolleyes:

Re: Lusty Mind with lazy body
 

if anything i think the problem is that you are just bored with sex...

see this article i came across hopes it helps

BORED with SEX
source: Bored With Sex? | TENGA by tengatango.com

Re: Lusty Mind with lazy body
 

Erm... think it's been like that since Feb this year? Previously i was having Fantastic sex with my ex gf who was SUPERB in bed and we did all kinds of exciting stuffs at interesting locations! Thinking back, could i really be bored with sex now that we've parted ways?

Sigh.

It is true that this girl opened up my mind and let me see whatever i never tot of in the past were actually possible. So perhaps i need her back...? Or maybe i just need something to spice up my sex life? :p

What about bros here? I mean all the FLs are different of course, some MILF some SYT some even uniforms but anybody bored of doing the deed?

Re: Lusty Mind with lazy body
 

It could be a black magiv=c she had applied on you for the split, dont discount that possibility.:eek:

Re: Lusty Mind with lazy body
 

I think your problem may be psychological and it's all in the mind. If you cannot let go what's in the past then you will never felt satisfied with present. You will always felt that the past is the best and nothing can compare now.

If you still cannot relax yourself and enjoyed yourself even after exercise, meditation, etc. then you really need help. You may need to see a psychiatrist and/or a doctor to help with your problem.

One question, do you masturbate often? If yes, then better stop or reduce them gradually.

Re: Lusty Mind with lazy body
 

masturbate alot will kanna this problem meh lol