Why lie
 

Hi all Brudders, this my story:
Knew a FL few mths back. Had all the goodtimes,gfe blah blah....
She quit (btw shes married local & PRed) her work as if for me. I never supported her financiallly just pay for outings.
She did told me she is also seein this other guy whom according to her, she dont love at all... i told her its alright as long nothing overboard.
Recently i found out that she lied to me abt goin out with family but was actually with this guy
Me confronted her &she admit that..... she said she knows shes tooo much to lie to me , & will stop contact with him as she choose to be with me .. almost begging me to carry on the r/s...
Told her i will call her .......
Can any someone give me some advice as i do love her but ............ cant stand the lies

Re: Why lie
 

Please don't tell me is a thai girl !!!

Re: Why lie
 

Don't discriminate, same same every where. It is their survival tool.:)

Hunt or be hunted.......:p

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White lies, black lies, orange lies, purple lies.....etc...does it even matter if she is a FL ? ...If not how are they going to survive in this profession of theirs ?

你完了..被 kc 到够力够力..guess you will be another one to learn the hard way, until you are of no more usage to her, enjoy the process while you can :rolleyes:

Re: Why lie
 

actually very confusing from what u posted ts. u saying that she is married, and she is a pr rite and she is still doing fl? is the marriage fake? :rolleyes:
if its not a fake marriage, then how on earth are u going to believe this type of woman? :eek: pls correct me if i am wrong :)

Re: Why lie
 

Brudder, only for your this thread.....your typo "FL" answered your thread question - Why lie? Ponder on it :D

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well...its sad but the truth...

she's looking for other alternative while being with you :)

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Aiyo, FL got no feeling one ma, you dun know meh. :D

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Unless there is only 1 woman in this entire world, else why make yourself miserable??? :confused:

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I also catch no ball leh.

One moment you said she is married, another moment you said she is with another guy? Then next moment youy said she wants to be with you?

Confused :confused:

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like i say...fl lies are the most powderful ones, once kena - very hard to crawl your way out - TS either stuck too deep or trying to create attention here :D

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Bra, the sooner you wean yourself off her and the charade (which you refuse to acknowledge you are falling for) the better off your are. She picked you because your are weak and succumb. Get your life back. It's sad to see a SG bra in your situation.

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The only thing I am curious is why she quit and how is she earning her living now.

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TS, u r probably not the 1st 1 & wont be the last person. listen, MOVE ON as she is NOT the 1 & only woman in this world. u should be able to find some1 much much better :)

Re: Why lie
 

Bro, why hang on to one ? Is it because of the intimacy that comes only with long period of being together ? Then no reason you can't have that with others and it maybe better too. Or cos of the exclusivtivity that you thought you had ? Looks like you were not exclusive to her where she is concerned.

She is just hanging on to you while she gets someone better, or for all you know, you are just one of many many that she is hanging on to.

Stop before it is too late.