Woman offers but man refuses
 

Hi all guys,

Many of us know that men often want sex. It's a nature or testosterone issue.

A openly honest man once told me that if a wife/girlfriend offers sex to her husband/boyfriend but he refuses her, she should worry deeply. The end of the relationship is coming.

What is your opinion?

Re: Woman offers but man refuses
 

the refusal may come with very good reasons, especially during world cup.

men are humans too hor, cant expect us to always be ready to fuck, especially its the same woman if you know what i mean. :D

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That happened to me once. I am still torn by the decision I made 15yrs back. It was my friend's Bach. Nite. I don't usually go Cheong, but this is a good friend so I tagged along. We went to JB to this so call happening KTV.

Upon entering, the place was quite grand and we got ourselves a big room, enough for 20pax. then the so call fun begins... Gals came in everyone was enjoying themselves, this was my first time... Not used to gals being so open and they rubba me instead. :p

Then came the striptease... I was :eek: seeing her strip bare infront of 20pax (us and hostresses). Then one of my kakies shouted to the striptease. Hey, this fellow virgin boy, can break him for us today! Woah KNN donno what to say.

She came straight towards me and sat on my lap naked, french, hugged me, licked my ears, suffocated me with her boobs (bare), etc etc. My little bro is bursting through my pants. I can feel blood rushing and body is warming up...

At this point my will is getting weak and was escorted to the attached toilet in the room... While inside, still stunned (never experience this before) she carry on ravaging me :p up to the point where she knelt down unzip my pants (BBBJ coming I suspect). I stopped her...

She thought I was afraid that I have to pay, and whisper in my ear. She is doing this for free... I told her, NO THANK YOU... Her face changed and ask if I looked down on her. She mentioned, I was the first one to refuse her advance (FREE ONE SOMEMORE)...

Until today, I am torn from feeling "SHIT I SHOULD HAVE ACCEPTED" and "Glad I did that, I am loyal to my wife (then GF)" But I am more inclined to "SHIT...."

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Read from some other post that this guy went to hc and then after doing the deed he realised that his condom has a hole. So become worried must wait three months then can do check up, and during this three month period have to wait. This might be one of the reason to reject lah because scared spread to gf/wife.

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what a nice husband hor :rolleyes: :D

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Sorry, I should make this clearer.

My man friend was telling/advising me about how to tell if a man is losing interest with his relationship/marriage, and maybe seeing another woman for sex. His theory is, assuming that a man does not have religious restrictions, work exhaustion/stress, sexual health problems, and perhaps World Cup included, there is probably no strong reason for any healthy man to refuse sex from his wife/girlfriend.

This man friend was telling me how a wife/girlfriend could spot the signs of trouble in a marriage/relationship, and maybe spot divorce or break-off approaching. He says that if a wife/woman observes her man refusing to have sex with her, it should be panic big time for her.

What are your opinions?

Re: Woman offers but man refuses
 

Might be he may not be in that good mood,something troubling him at that point of time.Did that wife/gf asking him again another day or isit just one-off?How bout asking me?I'm sure i wont reject you! :D

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I would agree to that point i guess.
My cousin was in a relationship with this girl and she has been opening hinting him about the need, but my cousin didn't accept it as he thinks its still too early for that.
In the end the relationship ended and within a month she was attached to another guy. The shocking thing was that she was going to get married because she was pregnant and they have been together for only 2/3 months.

Re: Woman offers but man refuses
 

sis, what is your opinion? Once I rejected gf years ago, but now no problem, but I dont know what she thoughts then..

So if your bf/hubby (u still single?) reject u for sex, how do u feeling ? crying or quarreling ?

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Bro, me too :D

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sis... think you should be more careful about the so call MAN friend..:rolleyes:

just my 2cents...

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My opinion is that he must have impressed you so much so that you would even wonder over such ridicules thoughts :rolleyes: :D

Think about it, if the opposite (women refusing hubby's sex advances) is also true like what his theory ASSuME, wouldn't there be more divorce? :rolleyes: So now you all gals know why prostitutes are actually doing wifes the favour by saving marriages? How's that thought for you to wonder? ;)

Your man friend is hoping that you'll try that on him to test if he refuses...

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What would Homer say... "D'oh!!"... Lol.. :D

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hard 2 believe !!!

u must be a a kaybo coocoo

Re: Woman offers but man refuses
 

ya you are rite~~you idiot!!!!

Tats what i did too~~:mad: