my bdsm fetish discovered by a girl.
 

Last week I had this female fren from malaysia. Quite young, I knew she had a thing for me... but not my gf, she was at my office... I was surfing some porn site in my own office. It was a bdsm site where there is this video of a girl been hogtied. So I had some things to attend to. I thought she wouldn't dare to go to my room without my permission. After I am back I realised my office was disturbed. Someone been to my room. I checked it is only her the only possibility. She didn't know I like bdsm before. I didn't close my browser.

Like to ask particularly the girls if your the girl what would be your reaction? Do you detest guys who likes bdsm? Do you dispise guys who like bdsm? Anyone had similar experience?

Re: my bdsm fetish discovered by a girl.
 

See first lor, if the girl like those guai type then just keep quiet and act nothing happen.
If not, use to threaten. JKJK :p

Re: my bdsm fetish discovered by a girl.
 

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Re: my bdsm fetish discovered by a girl.
 

Mmmm..its really depend ...if the girl like bdsm too then she wouldnt really mind...mayb will be turn on too. But if she is not then she might think you are a pervert or what...Just my 2cents worth from a girl's view:D

Re: my bdsm fetish discovered by a girl.
 

the really good-two-shoes type would probably look at you differently from now on.
but given how this world has changed, sexual fantasies can be a readily accepted norm. 21st century already...
if she matters to you, just talk to her about the "embarassment" and see how it goes from there.
at least you know what's on her mind, if she's willing to share, and decide how it is going to be like between you both.