why guys like to have multiple sex partners?
 

Why guys like to have multiple sex partners?

my hubby is 12 years older than me. I got a high sex drive, which we would have sex everyday in the week when we meet, which is like 1 to 2 weeks in a month or so, whenever i am there.
He is station overseas.

but yet, he still had 2 other affairs (which i found out), and i arent sure how many more that i didnt.

Is there NOT a possibility that a guy can stick to just one girl?

I DO SATISFY him every single time, that is what he claims.

I am not sure if there is love ever involved in his affairs, but can a guy just take sex as a "physical act" without any feelings involved even if the affairs lasted for like few months?

but from this forum, can men be faithful?

Re: why guys like to have multiple sex partners?
 

For the same reason that gals like to have multiple pairs of shoes. :p

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Hi sis to mi if a gal really can satisfied mi on bed I will onli sleep wif her as a guy I feel tat it's very important for a gal or lady to sure her guy really enjoy having sex wif her tat my thinking lo

Re: why guys like to have multiple sex partners?
 

1. Every girl is different. Different skills level, different experience, different level of enjoyment. So guys will want to try as many experience as possible.

2. You satisfy him every single time but you only meet him 1-2 weeks in each month. So from a high level of frequency, he suddenly goes cold turkey when you aren't around? The problem will be solved if he's with you every day. Before he leaves for work and immediately after he comes home from work, make him surrender 1 shot of cum each time and I think he will be faithful to you. Unless he's a B52bomber of course! :D (Hint hint).

3. Guys can separate sex from love. I don't need love to have sex. Girls are different.

4. The definition of 'faithful' is varied. For a guy, if I don't have love involved, I can still consider myself faithful if I have sex outside. A lot of us here go for massage that ends with a HJ. I think those guys still feel faithful to their wives. We see releasing our urges as an act only... like masterbation. Nothing faithful or unfaithful about it.

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Hope some of these will help you think thru your problem ... Differences betn men and women for your reference:

男人第一次和女人上床很难，以后越来越容易； (Start of affair)
女人第一次和男人上床很容易，以后越来越难； (If affair is lust-driven and not love)

男人有外遇是因为冲动，女人有外遇是因为无聊。

Re: why guys like to have multiple sex partners?
 

of cos not :D :D :D :D

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Hahaha which mean guys other than this forum is all faithful is it ?Lots of reasons contribute to your hubby incident, u might not satisfy him in certain ways he want , he felt dull n lost of excitement doing with u already,loneliness overseas when u not around ...etc. Guys basically are almost same once there is a chance for them to makan outside few can resist...just my pov:)

Re: why guys like to have multiple sex partners?
 

The answer is the same as why men goes for prostitutes; check out the other popular thread. Subtle difference from an affair is the added thrill of a hunter.

From this forum, men cannot be faithful.

U just got to deal with the fact of life that some men do, most men won't. Sorry u found the wrong one - if your right one means one who MUST remain "faithful". :(

BTW, it's definitely NOT about your ability in sextifying him.

Re: why guys like to have multiple sex partners?
 

everyday eat abalone also will get sian.:D

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thanks Xgenre for your input. I guess this is the point most guys are having including my hubby.. and Yes that is what he claim from those "physical acts" only.

But if its a ONS, i can understand its only a physical act. but its a repeat on the same girl.. can it be only physical act?

But more than that, knowing myself that I am away, I did tell him before that if he ever had a ONS/affair, he had to let me know... will guys ever tell their wife such stuff?


shoes no feelings leh!!! cannot compare lah....


although i am chinese, but my mandarin cannot make it. maybe i will go google translate later..

hahahaha, of cos not, men are men, its just from this forum, its just seems like Men (or some females) CAN NEVER BE FAITHFUL to one woman only... ooohh.. and I think I can satisfy him.. no problem! :p

yes! i think so too. I am not the type that can only accept that the guy can play outside as long as he comes home. what about all the diseases? & the feelings involved?


seriously, do guys just want their wives to "accept" the fact that they can/will play outside, but they cannot accept when wives wanna play outside? NO LOGIC!
Don't guys feel GUILTY at all?? for hurting their family, and their wives?

i am trying to understand from a guy's point of view thats all..

u know how man are mars and women are venus kinda crap.

Re: why guys like to have multiple sex partners?
 

ooohh... by the way, please stop PM-ing me to "get even" with hubby, when i do not even know you...

I am not interested in being a fuck buddy.. what the hell is that?

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Combined the two above answers ! you get the reason ! Since you caught your hubby having two affairs outside .did u see the gals ? Crude but true . if you compare them to you . they will have things that you lack of . maybe you flat they are big chested . they are tall you are short!

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Dont be so bad la bro...maybe she very very chio, but the hubby sianz to eat "abalone" already, so go out eat ugly short and flat chested de chicken rice...

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yes lor! i lack their stupidity... hahaha....

like ur description!! nice!!!! :)

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Hi sis,

My 2 cents worth :

1st : keep him occupied on something be it sports or hobby. Something he likes.

If the 1st dun work

tell him straight - "you can fuck around but please don't bring back any sickness"