Curious xmm
 

hi y'all
just some background information: I am a female, aged 20, and a virgin(in every sense of the word). I have never been in a relationship before. I was brought up in a conservative family setting, but I deem myself to be quite an open person.

so anyways, i'm very intrigued by the "bros" who frequent this forum .. ... it seems a large majority of you think that receiving a handjob is not deemed as an act of unfaithfulness. if so, would it be okay with you guys if you were to learn that your wife/gf got fingered by another guy out of her own free will?

also, could anyone enlighten me if all these fuck buddy arrangements/visits to Geylang prostitutes whilst being attached are the norm amongst guys? I don't personally know anyone like that in real life so it bothers me that there are so many guys doing these?? makes me lose hope in sg guys.

Re: Curious xmm
 

Visits whilst attached is nothing wrong at law. I guess so long as it us not illegal, there is no offense committed and guys may just do it. There is nothing binding in a relationship even if one is attached as it can be easily unlatched.

Re: Curious xmm
 

first of all, how can someone from a conservative background call herself open minded...really beats me :confused:

don't be surprised that even guys in their early 20s are already fooling around in the commercial sex scene.
everyone in this world has a different moral approach...while i used to think church goers are holy but apparently i was wrong.
some church ladies in other forums claimed to have lose their virginity during 18-20.

as you start to go out and work, you'll realised that the world is not that simple especially when ppl have needs and wants, that's when you learn to see the world in tainted glasses.
and i can say almost every industry has some black sheeps here and there.
life is not a bed of roses, everyone has his/her own operating procedure.

Re: Curious xmm
 

maybe you have yet to find out what the ladies do? :)
it makes the SG guys lose hope too.

Re: Curious xmm
 

We've heard that ignorance is a blessing sometimes and it's very true for you ms intrigued. The fact that you've already learn so much about the vice from this forum means your mind has just been 'open up', unfortunately.

Bye bye to your conservative values, as you already started to loose confidence in men (mind you, not just sg men ok) and these knowledge will hunt you forever... Too bad.

I can almost sense that this cruel revelation is having a big impact on your conservative mindset so much so that some kind of rebellion is imminent.... Much like a hot-blood ____ ready to be unleashed! (I would imagine those really strong willed conservative gals would have shunt away from this forum on first look with a loud eek... not be so..intrigued till registering a nick and post such questions)

We welcome you to the dark side :D
See you around ya?

Re: Curious xmm
 

Yes. It is a norm, not only for the guys but for the gals as well. For a FB relationship to exist, It must at least have the same amount of guys/gals ratios, isn't it? And haven't you heard of Gigolo joints where ladies used to frequent spending thousands of dollars every night? :rolleyes:

As you learn more about this realistic world, you might, one day, get yourself a FB or visit those Gigolo joints where you get crazy hanging flowers to the gigolos too. ;):D

Have a Happy Lunar New Year.

Re: Curious xmm
 

hey girl,
you are rite guys like to have sex and we can have sex with girls we juz met and paying for sex has been going since the begining of mankind. girls especially in asia have been program to see sex as "forbidden" or "dirty" but it is a very natural and beautiful act hopefully in future you will find a good lover that will bring you ecstasy and immense pleasure if not jus pm me. :)
we sg guys are under a lot of pressure at work and we must work doubly hard if not our bosses can jus hire foreigners to do our job at less than our salary. having sex is a good stress buster why deny us ???

Re: Curious xmm
 

There was once a quote by this slut.....forgot what her name was....as a whore, she said something very wise...."Women are decent only because they have yet to taste temptation"......

Of course I'm sure you won't know any guys personally who does this....common...a guy who is attached/married and fucks around will boast to everyone or keep his sex life secret? For all u noe...ur relatives or holy friends have VIP access to those Geyland brothels....

Just as you have lost hope in guys, it has become the same for some of us guys. That is why u have local guys who prefer to marry foreign ladies. I'm not here to start a war of words with regards local girls vs foreign ladies....but to make a relationship work, it takes two hands to clap.

I have come across so many decent girls in my life....only to discover they are whores and sluts on the inside. Once unleased.....the floodgates remain opened. You will be surprised how girls think nowadays....totally liberal mindset and nonchalent to multiple sex partners....

The fact that you are a virgin and have such an attitude towards guys, you could jolly well be the odd one instead of the norm.



**P.S. My long-term girlfriend left me for a married guy....a good and faithful guy like me was reborn...into a bastardball....:cool:

Re: Curious xmm
 

any chance you reckon that you might turn good again someday ?
i personally don't believe once a leopard always a leopard.

Re: Curious xmm
 

pls lah, sg women full of idealistic, unrealistic, materialistic and naive + demanding attributes, statistics already show 30% of local men marry foreign women

that means 30% of local women cant find husband and if local women still think local men not good enough i dont know where they can find good guys liao, ang moh is more playful n horny than us lor, when they want to dump you they simply throw u out of the house, sg men will still see kun cheng and responsibility to support u.

anyway dont bother us men go out fuck around, as long as we give wife enough money to survive without difficulties, just shut the f up! if not simply divorce la if cannot turn a blind eye.

Re: Curious xmm
 

If you think the Yanks, Japs, Koreans, Thais, Brits, Frenchies, Italians, Malaysians, Indians etc are any better, you're living in some sort of dreamland.

All men are the same the world over. Some are faithful... most are not.

Re: Curious xmm
 

little girl . don't try to stir shit in a sewer . :D please don't generalize just because men do it on a more high profile way than women . Women now days are doing the same thing or worse than what men can do .

Re: Curious xmm
 

1st how u com to know about dis forum?
or y r u in dis forum ever ?
xmm should stay home & play jia jia jiu...

ahould u continue to plough tru dis forum, u will c the plight of singapore guys
which guys dun wan a decent girl...but sg girls nowaday r no longer decent leh...

Re: Curious xmm
 

You stated ur age etc, but u din say how tall n heavy are u. Hmm, so let me guess, either tall n big n meaty, or small but still meaty with alot extra? N ur virginity issue, I guess, was not by choice?

Clearly this may not be the rite website for u.

Re: Curious xmm
 

In as much as you think you will lose hope in sg guys. you might want to consider some guys are already lose hope in your girls. you might say you are not picky or whatever. and use not fated as some lame excuse.

definitely you've got some male attention if you're decent looking enough.

i personally haven't had attention from any girl. i don't have a sense of humour unless i'm with my long time friends. i don't open up that easily especially with girls. sometimes you girls have a golden mouth. maybe it's just a personal issue with girls on my part. but i'm certain there are bros out there like me.

i've never had a gf before. and i don't expect any girl to understand why i do what i do. my first is with a WL. i'm not a regular chiongster. but does it matter? sg girls are judgemental. most of them are anyway.

my family is conservative also what. i waited till 22 for the right one. never came and i gave up. we guys have emotions to man. just because we hide them doesn't mean we don't have them. if you're here to moralise just go away.

for me it's careers first girls second. with money sure got girls. don't give a damn about true love or what shit. don't give me the nonsense of fated or not. everything is a choice. yours and some other person's.