what should I do?
 

My girlfriend whenever quarrel with me, always threated she with kill herself sometime i got feeling that she will not do that but I just get very upset:mad:
stupid jabor! she told meif i don't like to see her I can never see her again! :mad: sometime she very knn. what should i do?

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Tell her parents?

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You asking how to make her stop saying those kill herself stuff, how to break up safely with her or how to have less quarrels ?

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you should leave her. never loook back. its not fair that you should go through such emotional blackmail and turmoil at the hands of an immature girl who doesn't treasure her OWN life.. agree? if she doesn't treasure her life she definitely doesn't treasure yours. She MAY stab you or push you off the building one day.

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my thoughts

what should you do,
to leave is easy that's true,
but to stay is harder on you,
do you love her you must review,
love is not easy many problems to go through. :)

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When come to argue about money, no time for her, fetch her or cook for me all these sometime can lead to a quarrel. If i win the fight she will be very emotional. thats where she will start to said end her life blar... .blar...blar...
Very sian! :mad: on the next day she will pretent like nothing happen. you see this siow jabor :(

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When she does not treasure her own life and be so immature to threaten to end her life, TS bro, you should just end the relationship and walk away before it is too late. Just my humble opinion on this matter.

All the best

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Been in this kind of situation. Your gf definitely is much smarter and cunning with regards to you. No offense, but she uses this to manipulate you and your actions and in turn controlling your life in a subtle but brutal way.
Do you live for her or live for yourself?
My humble opinion, leave her unless you are able to confront her regarding her actions. There is a whole forest out there, leave yourself with options.
:)

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Are you and your gf staying together ? If so, even harder to settle.

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Dude - U need to inform her parents to take care of her mental health and leave her ASAP. ;)

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My question why did you make her quarrel with you ? Is it your fault or her fault ?

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TS...marry her and you will regret for the rest of your life!

She is using emotional blackmail on you...don't get con.

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It takes alot courage to die. Is she that brave enough to do it? Or is she saying it because she knows you will be scare? Really immature to use death to avoid problem.

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What kind of relationship do you both have?

Do you really love her?

How long can you put up with her behavior?

Is she emotionally unstable or just using emotional blackmail on you?

We can try to advise but only you can truly analyse your actual situation and decide what's best for both of you.

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Hi Bro,

Since your GF always make empty promises to end her life but no further action after than, in this case i am more concern about yours then hers now, hope you know what i meant, take care Bro!:rolleyes:

Seriously the background of your GF behaving these ways you have mentioned is something we sometimes behaves also.:confused: It could be emotional or mental breakdown, etc, Try using different mode of communication to lighten up the moods ba - my 2 cents:cool: