How to tell if this ktv(PRC) gal really love me?
 

I met this gal at a ktv(not sleazy type where the gals only acc u drink,sing,chat n play games).She was here on singer pass where she can stay for 6 mths.After 2 mths of pursue,she agreed to be my gf.

I must admit intially i only tot of bedding her,therefore i bought gifts to please her,all of which only during courtship but human are not without feelings.I find myself falling in love with her,which was the happiest days of my life.

However,sweet times were never lasting.I later realised tat she had lied to me on few occasions n i was darn angry n sad.Even thou i forgive her,i told to get out of this relationship "emotionally",meaning i withdraw my feeling for her but i still get to satisfy my sexual needs.

After some time,i realise this is quite impossible.I cant control my feelings for her,which grew stronger n stronger.Thus,i try to make her break off with me.I told her i'm actually a very poor man,with no savings n now even have prob with my daily expenses so i cant give her tips when i visit her.She actually didnt mind!She even bought me an expensive gift for my birthday!

That was not all.She even ask me whether i have enff $ for daily expenses.I tot she jus say so i told her to borrow me $ which she really did n told me no need to return.Even when we go out,she would pay for meals n even hotel expenses..She says she loves me n my financial status is not impt..

I'm very confused now.I really love her a lot n actually tot of marrying her but she had ever lied to me for many times,resulting me always having doubts on her words credibility.

I'm not yandao,dun own flat n car,dun earn much so i dunno whether her feelings for me are real..Pls advice..

Re: How to tell if this ktv(PRC) gal really love me?
 

You want to marry a WHORE????:eek:

Are you nuts? Just fuck her and move on to the next one.

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hi fabregas1981,as u had mentioned ... u r not handsome,don't own a flat,don't own a car or earn much $. so what do u think makes her fall 4 u .... with real feelings?

alot of these tkm r very good in putting on a mask on their faces ... everyday.

the gifts,sex & whatever she gives u now could jz be the initial investments by her.
when she 1s 2 get it back,it would rack in much more profit 4 her .....

yes,human has feelings,esp sg ppl that r always flooded with feelings.
tkm hv feelings,but it's only at most meant 4 her immediate family members.
not some1 she knew only 4 a few months or even a few years.

she sees some usefulness in u 2 her.

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I think she really like you ,dont need confused ...few occasions she lie cause she come here earn money ,rich ppl book her for sex ,anyway ,you do enjoy the free sex and how the acting like ,bbbj ,69 ,kiss ,AR,full of licking I sure you enjoying just like her clients cheer! :)

But how come your mind thinking of marry her ,how you wants to make family without a stable income ?

1 way can do , but not too selfish ,not narrow minded ,get marry to her make her stay and she can have her own clients Base here ,just let or help her do whatever ,so she could help you income .hotel is danger ,you can use rent a place for her jobs,recommend ,planning ,arrange and she might be 1 of super star in FL 2 ,3 and make opp for you ,buy HDB or car and enjoy 3 some .

income ,Love come together -1 shoot 2 birds

and after she can bring in more friends more FL update ..you might be one of best OKT for us
4 way happy -the webholder / sammyboss ,samsters ,your lover ,you .

Hope my 2 cents worth ;)

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Not yandao, no car no money are okay one cos you are Singaporean. Most important asset to her. PRC ghosts loves us and our red passport. Never mind she lied to you before and I am very positive all our "seemly" negative advice will not do you good cos you love her. Please marry her and all your doubts wil be verified! ;)

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Bro IK,

Your suggestion is not bad lei .... but soon the local lawyers will have another divorce case to settle liao :D

Not after this PRC singer got a local job and then her PR status of cos .... ;)

BUT TS, its your life and you do sound young enough to make some mistakes in life so enjoy as you can .... since she is the one feeding you presently somemore :D

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Yes, agree with Bro IK.

The girls loves you.

She lied to you because she is afraid to lose you.

You not yandao, no car, no house, no money. Now she is willing to pay for your expenses. Where to find this kind of lobang?

Pls marry her.:D

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Bro, fabregas1981
We can't answer you yes/no just base on those words that you have pen down.

my only advice to you is to drop everything and start afresh with another gals.
that make cheonging more interesting, right?

trust me or us. there's no love in KTV or cheonging scene. If yes, then maybe in 1 out of 100.
and there are 100 brothers out there think he is the '1' fortunate guy.


lastly, i agree that they see our greatest asset is the red passport. if you really wana sian, go and sian those hairddresser loh.

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of cos her feelings are real la, if not y she so stupid to get u presents when other guys are buying her presents too ... :rolleyes: :D

and regarding the passport part, also not relevant la. true love dun matter simi color the passport one la :D

if i am u, i will marry her, then stay at home and do housechores and wait for her to bring food back :D

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Bro,

will need to depend on how you see this relation. she maybe lie to you and will need to see what is her lie. If she sleep with her client to gets the money than forget of her. Cause at that point of time she agreed to go out with her client do she thinks about your feeling if you found out?
although she's here to earn money and i believe she had pay alot to come to singapore. but by sleeping with other man will reduce the amount big gap?

also you mention that whenever you visit her at KTV you still need to give her tips? then what for you two stay together? do you go out shopping with her need to book her hours? 买钟？

You may want to test her out by asking your friend to book her out and see whether she agreed on that. by spending a bit of money rather then no turning back in future.

You will need to see what lie she told you. if you have doubt on her explaination then give her up and move on to other lady.

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Gee boss.. Kinda harsh statement innit?

Well.. its up to you to decide what you want to do. In the end its your decision after you read all the advices in here. I think that you already have an answer and you just need some inputs here to affirm your decisions. Anyway, just don't forget that you made the decision to be with her if something happens. You can't blame the whole thing on her because it takes two to tango.

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ouch my ears ... Boss ... dun have to shout ... we can all hear you hehehe

It's just a harsh reality check based on the general rule of thumb.

Alan : hahah you can take it as a 小白脸 and what if her job's whoring ? :p

IK + Reoxy : The guy is standing at the window wondering whether to jump a not ... you 2 just come along and give him a good shove hahaha accessory to murder la !

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Dear TS,

The chance of a lady of the night, be it just a singer or a hostess falling in love is very slim. It is not impossible, but it is very slim.

Guys who are lonely will fall in love with almost everyone who shows them a bit of "love" and "care" Some even think that because they can have sex with someone, it means that there is love. But usually, these ladies are just playing all the angles so that they will have more choices and chances. Be smart and just drop and walk away lah. Find a normal girl and live a normal life bro.... I wish you luck.

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Hi bro fabregas1981,

Can tell which ktv is it? I wish to try my luck there as well :D

I think KTV gals are make of fresh & blood too, they should have their soft spot also.

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Either she wants money or marriage for a PR/citizenship, most probably both.
Dont forget a divorce can end with monthly maintenance or split of flat sales proceeds.

Dont get yourself involved with 欢场女子,they are just for fun.
If you like china gals so much there are a lot actually that are decent and works hard, i met a lot in my work there but they are mostly in china haha.

Even if you really get to find a decent one there the problems of long distance r/s also takes its toll and china ppl have culture of marrying young by mid 20s in most cases so you have to be prepared for the constant badgering and pressure from her/her family to get married, which is not a cheap affair too.