Average bonking time,come share ~!@
 

hi brudders,i am new here.. juz wondering how long does a man last NORMALLY,as for me when i insert my dick,the whole process will take 20-45min.. is it fine ? too fast or slow ? pls advise.. And sometimes when my gf actually pee during sex,i dunno if its pee or orgasm,(smell like pee to me though),i get turn off and my dick soften. Any advise ?? Regards.

Re: Average bonking time,come share ~!@
 

Hi there :-)

You sound like you are rather ok.... in terms of the duration department.

Not forgetting that on top of staying power, you will also have to consider the enjoyment. What is the use of being able to stay hard and pump longer.... and still cannot enjoy the sensation, right? (example are those using cream to last longer)

Many guys will just last about 3 to 5 minutes of continuous / constant pumping and feel high... then unload.

Anyone else with other thoughts?

Cheers,

Jenny ;)

Re: Average bonking time,come share ~!@
 

duration i think also depend on mood.
if you really horny that day i think shorter. but if after some drinks or you have bad mood will be longer.

this question i asked a WL b4 and her answer was. sometimes some people put in pump less than 20 thurst they cum. some can last 30 min
some even last 1 hour (this is painfull for them)

so i guess it varies from people to people.

and for the gals, some gals can only climax after you stop pumping and just leave your member in them. if you aim to satisfy a gal, ask her how to, she will know better than anyone.

Re: Average bonking time,come share ~!@
 

Depends on tightness...and how horny u r... :cool:

Re: Average bonking time,come share ~!@
 

I dun normally time my duration of ejaculation. Sometimes 10 mins, 20mins to even 1 Hr long. Long duration of sex doesn't prove that you are "keng" (in thai) The most essential part is to let your female conterpart achieved orgasm b4 u unload. Den you r' definitely a much sought after lover-man! :p
To make a WL climax is a harder attainment man.

Facts on Female Orgasm
 

Some Facts on Female Orgasm


Let's face it, ladies — good things really do come to those who wait. Think about that rich, tasty dessert that wraps up a good meal. Or the explosive grand finale at the end of the fireworks show on the Fourth of July.

Well, there's another type of happy ending: the female orgasm. Also called "coming," climaxing, or having a "big O," an orgasm is often the pleasurable climax during sexual activity.
What is an orgasm? It's defined as the peak of sexual arousal when all the muscles that were tightened during sexual arousal relax, causing a very pleasurable feeling that may involve the whole body. During orgasm, many women's heart rates skyrocket, their breathing quickens, and their blood pressure rates increase; muscles throughout their bodies spasm, but mostly those in the vagina, uterus, anus, and pelvic floor.

Sound dangerous? It isn't. In fact, most women who have had an orgasm will tell you that it's quite nice.

To put it mildly, orgasms feel good. During orgasm, chemicals called endorphins are released into the bloodstream. They cause pleasant sensations to ripple through the body, but they also make many women feel happy, giddy, flushed, warm, or sleepy.

So, how do women have orgasms?

For starters, almost any type of sexual stimulation can lead to orgasm. A woman can have an orgasm through intercourse, oral sex, or anal sex; manual stimulation of the vulva by her partner; body rubbing ("dry humping"); or masturbation. Some women can even have orgasms just by touching their breasts or by fantasizing about sex!

For many women, the contact has to be much more direct — right on the genitals — and in a regular, rhythmic pattern. Stimulation of two major parts of the genitals can cause a woman to have an orgasm: the clitoris (which is a part of the vulva) and the vagina. A woman can have an orgasm through stimulation of just her clitoris, just her vagina, or both. But most women have orgasms through stimulation of the clitoris.

Although some researchers believe there is just one type of female orgasm, others believe that stimulation of these two parts of the genitals can cause different types of orgasm. During a clitoral orgasm, the vagina becomes longer; it causes a pocket to be formed beneath the uterus. During a vaginal orgasm, the uterus drops lower and shortens the vagina. Stimulation of both the vagina and clitoris can cause a blended orgasm, the third type of orgasm. All these orgasms may feel different from each other.

Here's some more information about vaginal orgasms: there is a particular place inside the vagina called the G-spot (short for the Grafenberg spot, named after the researcher who "discovered" it), a small bunch of nerves, about the size of a quarter, that's located about an inch or two inside the vagina on the side closest to the navel. It can become extremely sensitive during sex play. And the G-spot can swell, which may make it easier to find.

Sometimes during stimulation of the G-spot, a clear fluid will spurt out of the urethra. The fluid is similar to that produced by the prostate gland in men that makes up the liquid portion of semen. Yes, it's true — about 10 percent of women can actually ejaculate!

Most women will have one orgasm, and then they'll need to take a long break — stop or reduce sex play — before the next one. But some women can have several in a row — they can have multiple orgasms.

Many women — about one out of three — have trouble reaching orgasm when having sex with a partner. Most women experience orgasm through clitoral stimulation rather than through vaginal penetration. So if a woman is having difficulty reaching orgasm, she may want to try clitoral stimulation during, before, or after vaginal intercourse and oral sex to have an orgasm. Keep in mind, every woman's body responds differently to various kinds of sex play. Each woman has different preferences for the ways in which her clitoris is stimulated.

Most women who reach orgasm with a partner have also experienced an orgasm from masturbation. Women who have never had an orgasm may want to try to masturbate and learn what pleases them. It may take some time, but practice makes perfect.

So, now that you're an expert on orgasms, spread the word. The more women and their partners know about orgasms, the easier it will be to have one. Enjoy!

Re: Average bonking time,come share ~!@
 

I think for me, the length of the bonk depends on who I am bonking. Usually, in the HCs, the average length of bonking for me is about 10 to 15 minutes, including foreplay. Scared kena raid by you know who, so hurry hurry finish. When I am with girlfriend or bring girl to hotel, it usually take about 30 to 45 minutes including foreplay because no hurry, safer and not scared kena raid. Also, depends on my mood - if horny and need to release faster, then shorter otherwise longer. Sometime also depend on the girl. Got one time, I brought a girl I met in Mohd Sultan to hotel. She was damn horny and dressed so seductively that by the time we reach hotel, I was already so hard and ready to cum. Of course for that one, I released in 5 minutes. Of course she disapointed but after resting, I was ready tof ire again! Just sharing my thots. Please up my reputation if you think what I say here is relevant. Thank you!

Re: Average bonking time,come share ~!@
 

Thanks for sharing so much info.....really appricated it...

:)

Re: Wanna engage in mind-numbing sex?
 

If you want to engage in mind-numbing sex, you'll need to arouse your girl first. Now, while some women want their man to slam them up against a wall and rip off their underwear, others would prefer light kisses along their necks while their man slowly inches his hand up their thighs. It's up to you to figure out what yours wants.
Here, now, are 5 ways to make her crazy.

1- Talk dirty
Talking dirty doesn't have to involve anything derogatory by any means. All you have to do is walk up to your girl, move her hair to the side, bring your lips close enough to brush up against her ear, and whisper something like, "Spread your legs for me. I want to use my fingers to soak you."

There are no limits; you just have to know what would excite her. Some women like hearing forceful words, others prefer more romantic lyrics. It's up to you to discover what her ears have a penchant for.

Lick, let her watch, use the phone, and blind her...

2- Lick her thighs/back
I've said it at least a hundred times; when you seduce a woman by touching parts of her body that usually go unnoticed or ignored, you will arouse her a million times more than if you simply head to her sexualized parts.

That said, spreading her legs open and using your tongue to inch your way up her thighs is a great move... so long as you don't touch her vagina. That way, she'll ache, if not beg, you to touch it.

Or, you can opt to lick up her back. Light kisses and the occasional flick of the tongue will drive her crazy, no doubt. Ah, arousal at its best.

3- Use erotic movies
Men are visual, we all know that, but don't think for a second that women aren't. The difference comes down to what we want to look at. The next time you're about to head into the shower, tell your woman you want to show her something and put on an erotic DVD.

Let her watch it while you're in the washroom and by the time you get out, chances are she'll be waiting for you with open legs, with her hands between them.

4- Call her up
If your mission is to arouse her before you even see her, call her up during the day and fill her in on what you've been thinking about, what you dreamt about or what you plan on doing to her that night. This way, she'll be excited to see you and you've managed to begin the foreplay hours in advance.

5- Use blindfolds (My Fav!!)
If you ever want to drive a woman to depths of sexual excitement still unknown to man, blindfold her. When you steal away her sense of sight, her other senses become heightened. As well, because she can't see, she may be bolder in her actions and sounds.

Watch as her nipples become harder than ever and her vagina soaks the sheets.



Rise to arousal


There are many ways to arouse a woman, but there's no doubt that arousing her mind will get her body going. Sometimes, something as simple as a deep, slow, wet kiss can make a woman go crazy on you. The thing is, there's only one way to find out what makes her tick.

Until next time, wake up the beast lurking within your woman....

Re: Tricks of kissing....
 

The tricks of the trade

Does your loved one kiss you like she's trying to suck the life out of your body? Or does she kiss too fast, too slow, or without tongue, period? First off, don't tell her what you don't like, but rather what you do like. That way you won't hurt her feelings at all.

Control her mouth
The next time you're kissing her, hold her face with your hands and kiss her the way you'd like to be kissed. If the fact that you're taking control doesn't turn her on, then your sensual tongue will surely do the trick.

Play a little game
Tell her that kissing her gets you so excited and then suggest that you guys switch roles and ask her to kiss you the way you kiss her because you want to know what it feels like. She'll be more than happy to cater to your request.

Make it last... long
There is almost nothing in this world that beats those long, slow, juicy, and very enticing kisses. Your woman will definitely feel your passion through one of those prolonged succulent kissing moments. Kiss her hard and deep.

Learn how a few simple tips can make you the ultimate Casanova with some serious tongue action! :D

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It's all about technique!


Now that you've discovered how to get her into kissing the way you'd like her to, let's move on to the experimental ways, which will bring her to think and want you all the time.

Suck on her tongue
Turn your mouth into a soft suctioning apparatus on her tongue. If you'd like, suck on her tongue mimicking the way you would suck on her clitoris. She'll catch on quite quickly and perhaps after that you can let her suck on your finger so that she can return the favor.

Lick her lips with your tongue
Get creative and lick on her upper and lower lips in a slow, ticklish method. Once you have lubricated them adequately with your saliva, move your lips around her lips and let your saliva wet both of your outer mouths.

Suck on her lips
If licking her lips makes you antsy and quickly wanting more, then begin sucking on her lips... one at a time though, no one wants to feel as though they've stuck their mouth on an opened vacuum.

Be careful when you suck on her lips; don't get too rough or you'll end up giving her a hickey and I have yet to meet a woman who would appreciate that.

Move beyond her mouth
Don't be shy, you're not confined to kissing just her lips... there's a whole face and body to explore. Why not French kiss her chin, her neck and her breasts? Or kiss her eyes, the spot behind her ears or her wrists.

You'd be surprised at the beneficial results that creativity can reap. All you really need is the willingness to try anything. If you've never been complimented on your kissing techniques before, now you'll know the basics of being a professional kisser.

On the other hand, if, when you kiss a woman and then pull back, her eyes stay closed for just a moment longer, it usually means that she thoroughly enjoyed the kiss and there's a good chance that you can further seduce her if you like.

Until next time, remember that everything starts with a kiss, and determines if it's a hit or a miss!

Re: 6 Games That Make Sex More Fun....
 

Dear brudders, ways to make your lover shagged? :D

Want to try something new with your woman? Want to bring out the animal in her because you need to feel desired? Well, instead of coming right out and telling her that she's boring and isn't fulfilling your needs, get what you want by playing games instead.

1- Switch traits
The next time you want her to take more of a leadership role in bed, ask her to be you and you can be her amid foreplay. That way, she can be the aggressor and, who knows, she might really enjoy it.

She'll have to initiate the sex and take control of the scene, especially if that's always your job.

2- Eat your meal like sex
Prepare a dinner date at home and make some food that you can eat with your hands. Some suggestions for sexy food include mussels, oysters, fruit, vegetables, and chocolate fondue.

When you eat each morsel, lick it all around first, then suck it; show her what you will be doing to her body later on that evening. Get her to do the same.
Note: Don't eat too much or you'll be too full to enjoy sex.

3- Play strip poker
Each of you gets to wear no more than six pieces of clothing. Then, with each hand that's dealt, the loser must remove a piece of clothing. The build up of sexual tension will be awesome.

Once you're both naked, or almost naked, you can start playing poker for sexual favors.

Note: If applicable, remove your socks first when you lose. There's almost nothing funnier-looking than a naked guy with socks on. I found that out the hard way.

Turn her into a hooker, write hand messages and pick her up at a bar... Any bro has tried this role b4?

- Describe a look she must fulfill
If you've always wanted her to look like a hooker, a schoolgirl or even a nurse, now's your chance to get her to dress like one. Of course, she must act like whichever character she's dressed up as.

Also, she gets to have you dress up eventually, so prepare to be anyone from a fireman to a massage therapist, and be prepared to fulfill her nastiest fantasy. Of course, you should get to make the initial request so you can set the stage, then allow her to feel free to request anything of you.

5- Write messages on her back
One of the cheapest and most interesting games a couple can play involves you tickling her back while trying to convey a sexual message that she must make out. Now, if she guesses what you're writing correctly, she gets to request any sexual favor. And if she gets it wrong, you can ask for hours and hours of whatever it is you wrote.

Use your fingers to write something like "Kiss my penis" on her back. She can only request that you repeat a letter once. If she can't get it, then you will, if you know what I mean.

6- Be strangers
Agree to meet at a bar, but act like you don't know each other. It may seem strange at first, but once you get home and start having sex, it'll feel like the first time.

Once at the bar, where you'll spot her looking hotter than ever, approach her, ask her name and make small talk. Then, buy her a drink, or five, and ask her to come back to your place. When she agrees (a huge ego booster in front of other guys who've been watching this entire episode unfold), take her home and have the best one-night stand of your life.

Re: Average bonking time,come share ~!@
 

Depends. Normally I last an hour or so before I cannot tahan anymore, and let go completely. Cos I typically prefer to make sure my partner come several times before I am ready to let go myself. On the way of course I have several "mini-cums" but no ejaculation until the final. The rewards are really to see her come again and again as I slow down or speed up depending on her needs. But will definitely have to slow down or even stop pumping, if I sense I am almost at the cruscendo.

Recently tried Magix. I lasted 2 hours, haha, until she begged me to come cos she came until got no more strength already... :p