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i have just done a stupid thing which is to be video on webcam and blackmailed to western union. She did add me on facebook and she threatens to send to my facebook friends the video. Sgd $500 and let matter rest. I dont really believe it. But what should I do now? Please do scold me but do offer some suggestions. Really desperate now.

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what did you do on the web cam ?

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There is a thread abt this scam already pls refer to this link

http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=256444

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I don't get the full story Bro, but any kind of blackmail is frowned upon in Sillypore.
Don't give in. Get her to send you a sms saying that she wants the money in exchange for the video.
Tell her you need to show a friend who is willing to help you but does not believe your story, or something like that.

Once you have the sms, an email or something written, just take it to the police.
Your exposure is nothing compared to blackmail.

If you decide to give in, it'll never stop.. She may just post it to spite you or ask for more money later.. Trust me, go to the police.


Cheers
Vanram

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ya man.. I concur with the above advice to go to the police.

unless, she is overseas, then its not much use.

good luck bro!

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Well since u are worried about facebook friends just delete her and change your privacy settings? Worse case is temporary dereg your facebook accout.

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That's right... and is this the same SYT mentioned below?

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ya it's the same person. mentioned she has a tattoo on her tummy. her email is [email protected]

i believe she has many accounts also. sorry my previous message was typed while i was trying to delay by talking nonsense with her. i managed to negotiate from sgd500 to sgd300. and i actually have to send by tomorrow noon. its a phillipines person. i did show my face initially thinking that i won't for fuck sake do something stupid. but i guess the small head screwed me up. i did show her my tool for a brief moment. like 10 secs? and she actually was my facebook friend long before we talk on msn. we cam after a while and i got videoed by her secretly. i actually saw my full video to make sure she really has it. she ask me to send to the account jacky valdez at phillipines. and she sent me a note document of some of my facebook friends. i have already blocked her on facebook while negotiating with her on msn. and suddenly she seemed not very happy that i deleted and blocked her on facebook. does this mean that she cant do anything about it? if she puts it on youtube also very malu. but youtube will probably flag it as inappropriate after a few days. one bro mentioned that he didnt pay and nothing happened? im really screwed.

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Do you have other info on her else from just a email or bank account ?

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nope. thats all the infomation that i have about her. i believe as most bros said she is the same person but using different identities. if i deregister facebook will she still be able to send the video to my friends?

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nope just block her on this account
and deregister, start a new account and block her again.. put your profile to friends only
and watch who you add.

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are you sure? bro i trust you. i really desperate already. immediately i deregister my facebook account. but then youtube all those leh? how?

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you in deep shit bro

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u should have worn a helmet or stockings on ur head when doing something so stupid :D :D

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Bro, this might be a scam. Report to police please.