In need of guidance
 

i have a family but recently i seek some thrill eg. (go tagged n get to know a gal in phillipines) so now i wonder should i tell that gal that im a married man or continue to hide the truth?

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Have u f**k her already?

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not yet..shes still in her country

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and if she tells u she is a virgin, will u believe her?... or is suddenly she needs money for operation, will u remit to her?

U can say anything u like.. Just like she can say anything she like...

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sean69 : to me i think shes not that type..had been chatting with her for quite a while..definately not u imagine

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In my opinion, better to let her know. Also make it clear that you have no intentions of leaving your family for her. Then see whether she still talks to you. If she does, than she understands what is "FB" and will play the game by the rules.

If she stops, then you know that she was never FB material and better that you did not get involved.

On the flip side, if you don't tell her, one day she will find out and if she was in love with you, and is angry enough, she might cause problems for you with your family.

Tell her before either of you "fall in love".

OTOH, when and how you tell her is important whether she will continue with you. If you are too blunt and too soon, she will probably drop you straight away. If she already sort of like you enough, and you let her know gently, she may still accept you as a friend and maybe can still lead on to other things.

I also caution that if she is the shrewd sort, she may use that to "play" you for favours. OTOH, if she is the shrewd type, it may not matter, as she will still "play" you too.

Being a divorcee who strayed, my advice to you is be very clear where you want to go with your thrill. I strayed for the thrill, but let myself fall in love and then my world fell apart.

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Bro, y risked ur family just for her? Is it worth it?

No offence intended here but seriously, just have ur fair share of fun n f**k off from there.

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Bro,

There is no free lunch.

I have experience on this social network especially oversea, after you know them. They will start talk about money.

If you going for thrill, do anything you like but once they talk about money; drop them.

Cheers!!!

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Lying will get you into deeper shit.

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Play hide and seek after bonk. Its awesome.

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Then i think neat she will ask you to sponsor her to come to SG or ask for money or something along that line. Scam warning TS dun be stupid :rolleyes:

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sagiboar : just ask her and shes okay with me as long as i know my limitations..a piece of good news..

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no use telling tat now, lan jiao tao in control over him ... :D

ppl need to kena snooked then can learn :D

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nukeskull, as the other bros advise, be careful that you kenna conned. Don't forget, con-men/women main strategy is to make you believe they are "innocent".

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Ya i think nuke his skull also no use cannot get in :D