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So any of your wives/hubbies meet their ex for coffee?
Will u throw a big fuss if u know abt it?
Or do u suspect anything abt it?
Or do u keep yr cool?
Or just simply act blur?
Or u just grateful she is channeling her attention away from u?
Or u just has a fetish abt it?
Do u secretly hope something happen in btw? like many bros here had done? or sisters...

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Well for me I will not make a fuss out of it,
If she tell me the truth i can accept . But only coffee together nothing else .
If I am married why must keep in contact with ur ex as
You know it will cause trouble for urself

Once we are married we should be faithful to our spouse

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3rd reader here, wow new join can become 3rd,

for me if my husband go see his ex go ahead but pls no hanky panky anyways many ex done it before

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Once married, it is better to keep a distance no matter what. :)

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Everytime I meet up with my ex, always tell me sad story about husband not understanding her.

Almost everytime end up in hotel81.

Not that I'm complaining, having sex with your ex is always exciting bcos you know each others moves and probably missed it very much, its always wild sex and usually the 2 hours at 81 is not enough! And, no condoms!!!

So guys, never let your wives meet their ex!

just my humble contribution.

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@maddogazubir
You beri dangerous hahaha!

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coffee session with ex? can only think of two thoughts:-

1. if your ex is happy but want a fling with some trusted ex, can think of a fuck buddy r/s. no mind game just bonking.

2. if your ex is a basket case and want a life buoy, better run far far. no worth the trouble if you are in a happy marriage or r/s now.

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Bro,

look at it this way.

If I don't help, there will be someone who will, better than if she sits at some pub and waits to be picked up right?

I'll post a pix of her body (if I can find one) and I'm sure you will say I'm stupid if I let it slip by!

hehe!

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I normally will trust my other half 100 per cent . So no big deal if just meet for coffee .

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This is dangerous.

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IMHO, wife/gf meeting up with ex for coffee is a 100% nono.
But I know one of my ex-gf is keen and willing to meet me for coffee. Oppps.. :x

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Must see why and how they break up la.
If both parties readily accept the breakup, and had a proper closure, i don't think feelings will rekindle la. This kind of ex still safe to meet.

But those break up due to neglect and impulse seems to have more chances to rekindle sparks. Since there's no proper closure.

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IMAGINE,

your wife going out to meet someone who have had sex with her before in the past and said I love you(s)... held hands, blowjobs.... and now they are friends.

or

your husband going out to meet someone who have had sex with him, banged her hard, received a blowjob, caress her breast, licked her vagina, held hands, 69s... and now they are friends.


I cannot imagine. Sorry, you can call me a MCP, but I would not allow my wife to meet her ex. Impossible. I cannot stand the sight of the two of them standing less than 2m apart, someone whom my wife had feelings for in the past and the guy probably have touched, licked and sucked every single part on her body.

BUT IF THERE IS NO LOVE BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR SPOUSE, OR YOU ARE DOING EXACTLY THE SAME, THEN LET IT BE....

Will u throw a big fuss if u know abt it? OF COURSE. IT'S EITHER EX or ME. I made it very clear to my gf when we started and she insisted the same from me.
Or do u suspect anything abt it? There's nothing to suspect... even a accidental rub of shoulders will rekindle some memories of the past.. Having those thoughts within them would be unacceptable regardless of how well they control themselves or how faithful there are.
Or do u keep yr cool? If I truly love my wife, I'll not keep my cool.
Or just simply act blur? If I truly love my wife, I'll not act blur, and will be upfront.
Or u just grateful she is channeling her attention away from u? ??serious?
Or u just has a fetish abt it? no way
Do u secretly hope something happen in btw? like many bros here had done?

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Well said !!!