What guys consider as "Fair Game"
 

What will you consider as "Fair Game" when you go after a girl especially when she is attached. WILL you still try to make her yours irregardless or you will back off cos you believe in what goes around comes around.

Re: What guys consider as "Fair Game"
 

If the girl really accept you though she is attached, it mean her current bf is unable to give her the happiness feeling.

Or u rather they get married and with no love, no spark?

We only live life once..Enjoy it and as long not married, it's a fair competition!

Even if u do not chase the girl and be a good guy, other guys will just do it.
See if u want to be a saint or make the girl happy lo

Re: What guys consider as "Fair Game"
 

It all depends on situation.

Be careful you might bang into the wall:D:)

There's always a pull and push factor in situation like this. Nobody will walk away from a happy and blissful relationship. Not unless you're confused and don't know what they really want

Re: What guys consider as "Fair Game"
 

precisely, for myself all my ex gf left mi for another guy. It must be my problem, i figured out. And eventually only one ex gf got married with the guy she ran away with when she was with me.

Re: What guys consider as "Fair Game"
 

I support this theory.

Re: What guys consider as "Fair Game"
 

well, I would consider everything fair game unless there is children involve..
If children are involve, then a fair game would be either she is divorce of separated.

I will not touch a woman who has a child that is an adolescent

Re: What guys consider as "Fair Game"
 

If their relationship is on the rocks, I believe U can show her your interest in her. But if they are doin well with each other, then I guess U shouldn't. Cos what happens to her BF may happen to U too. :rolleyes:

What has karma got to do with this? As long as you're not breaking up a family, karna shouldn't even be in the picture.

Re: What guys consider as "Fair Game"
 

Im in this situation now.

Here is my view.

She is attached but since start her BF is not the guy she wants. Our paths happened to cross and since then the two of us have been exclusively close to each other.

I didnt chase her, just validated her actions. I will wait for her to break before I chase. Meanwhile since the both of us are close, I take the opportunity to know her more, like a relationship without commitment.

Karma wise, what goes around come around, I believe it will happen if u manage to break a healthy relationship.

If the girl decided to be with u, let say u are just being the nice guy and didn't chase her, and gave her the attention the BF didn't give, their relationship was shit rock bottom, then I would say good for u

:D

If a relationship is healthy and both parties are very into each other, there is nothing a third party can do. One hand cannot clap. Needs the girl or guy to want out of the relationship.

Re: What guys consider as "Fair Game"
 

if both are adults and willing partners, each is seeking own's needs. So there's no issue of fair or not fair. Eventually, both should know that there's future in the relationship........

Re: What guys consider as "Fair Game"
 

My guess would be women are the same as men... We oso have days where we feel lonely and need that sense of security tat mayb the current guy can't give:)

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Usually if the girl is attached in a happy r/s there is no point to interrupt, like one of the bro mentioned, if the girl is willing to leave another guy for you, the same may happen as well.

Re: What guys consider as "Fair Game"
 

The other party always seems attractive, appealing, worthed lusting after when he/she is still with his/her girlfriend/boyfriend/spouse

It is the lure of the forbidden fruit.

And all those vanish at once, or soon enough, when you managed to get him/her to your side.

Life is cruel many a time