Interesting situation with a girl - need brothers' advices...help please...
 

Hi brothers out there,

I have a interesting situation with a girl who leaves me puzzled and wondering abt the situation/her intentions.

Not long ago, i got to know a girl who is unattached and want to woo her now after she stirred up some interests. however, things she does always keep puzzling or pondering over the situation.

earlier the month, she called me out for dinners/breakfasts which i didnt make it as i already got appt fixed then - time gap fillers?
i didnt think too much in it as it wud have been friendly to ask a friend out for meals, rite?
recently, she was very ill and suddenly sms me to say she was ill and was recovering and resting well at home - probably to explain she has "MIA" for a few days.
i was puzzled and thought that only bf/gf do that, isnt it? scracthing my head of course!
while she didnt recover from her illness, she called me to say she was going leaving office early as she was still ill.
again, i was puzzled! still scratching my head leh...
week ago, she called that she has done her haircut and was trying to ask me out for dinner, but i was with my friends for dinner, bad timing...
i didnt know she was going for a haircut


finally i asked her out for dinners and things were like normal friends and that i enjoy the time with her. she seemed ok too.
i must say she is a hard core workaholic and she wud hardly reply my calls or sms while at work or after her late work hours. asking her out during weekdays is real difficult as she wud prioritise her work first. that leads to delay planning to fix a confirmed time/day - including weekends too. she wud priortise her events for the day first before confirming if there is any available time slot to go out....otherwise it wud be another day.

maybe i should not have too much hopes?
so brothers out there, is there any advice for me or cud there is better solutions to these?

Thanks a lot, guys!

Re: Interesting situation with a girl - need brothers' advices...help please...
 

wow.. btw nice avatar.. :p

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KNN, boy need advise and you talk about his avatar... :mad:
But hor... I do agree that his avatar is really nice leh.... :D

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Is workaholism her nature or is it merely a spike in her workload? Maybe a case of peak season for a particular industry? But if a girl's a hardcore workaholic, I don't think I will get too serious. Once in awhile still can but permanently playing second fiddle isn't quite my cup of tea. :cool:

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KNN u another 1. Thief shout catch thief. Kekeke :D :p

Actually hor, it either go or no go nia mah. Go ahead n woo nut b prepare tat she treat her work more important then u. Or jus fuck it and b normal friend. Looksee Looksee and let nature take it course lor. Hehe.

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reminds me of what william congrave once said.. kekeke :)

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William who?? Ximi lang lai n wat did he say?? :confused: :p

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microsoft said something about thief catch thief ma.. wait.. i check google first.. oh yes..

"He that first cries out stop thief, is often he that has stolen the treasure."

-- William Congreve, Love for Love, III, XIV.

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Alamak now i lagi confuse?? Its William Congreve or William Congrave?? :p :p

Re: Interesting situation with a girl - need brothers' advices...help please...
 

ops.. i made a mistake.. its Congreve.. but I dun like him.. Oscar Wilde better..

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Oh yes tat guy is cool!!! He look abit like Bret hart!! Hehe :D

Re: Interesting situation with a girl - need brothers' advices...help please...
 

erm.. do u mean ben hur?? or dun tell me u referring to the cloth-less BH??

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Chimm sia.... I lia bo balls.... :D

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U dont watch WWE? :D

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Ouch!!! Oi dont bite me leh! :D :p