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i do feel very guilty after reading the post...

i've been with 2 china girls...two of them also like me very much. one is a student the other i got to know in a nightclub....as i have always heard stories of guys being cheated by them...i always play my cards right,determined not to get 'eaten' so i get my fair share of foc fucks, and in return...i pay for some of thier expenditure...in my mind, i will be telling myself its like paying for the fuck but cheaper...this cycle goes on well for me until somethings start happening...i realise the two girls really care alot for me...i dismiss them off as another tactic of theirs....well,i earn 4.5k a mth..but i only tell them i'm a despatch rider earning 1.2k and not rich...sometimes when they call me out,i dont feel like going out....i gave excuse like no money....they say they will pay..sometimes they push $50 to me...other times...they pay for the hotel....of cuz i rejected thier money as i know they do not earn money easily...but twice i let the lady pay for the hotel... and one more thing i feel most guilty is this coming valentines...one of them is flying over to spend the day with me...knowing she do not have much money left....i asked her how she got the money to fly here....she told me it was from the savings....but i later found out she went to borrow from loan shark in china and didn't tell me....when i confronted her, she still insist it was her savings....now i also dun know what to do....should i pay her back? or is it one of her tricks?if so,why didn't she ask me money to fly over...perharps becuz i keep telling her i don't earn much...so she didn;t ask for it? i'm confused....any advices,bros?

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yup yup bro ... it seems that there are all sort of stories around abt PRC girls ... well ... a question is "how much do U love her"? enuf to make her your wife?? If so ... then find out more before you commit yourself further ... if not kanna "con" then sianzz .... all the best bro!

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Waaaa bro, you so good ah? you didn't realise that you subconciously become gig ah? :rolleyes:
I do know of some WLs, even non-WLs who will be willing to pay for your services leh..
want or not? But I have to take a cut hor? Like OKT leh... :D

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well ... perhaps they really like him alot ... he sounds like a real nice fellow! wl also human ... also have feelings & emotions ...

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Bro, do up your signature properly leh... :)

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hi bro,

I do not have encounter of FOC flings with China gals but my brother had. He's really an expert! After having worked in China, he taught me, never be soft hearted with china gals. He said you can pull any girls from the street of china and they can tell all kind of fuck stories to make u pity them so never be soft hearted/ China got millions of pretty chicks! of cos each 8 immortals crossing sea have their own tactics so does this millions of pretty chicks! each have their own forte!

Anyway, I managed to so call convince my brother.. at least pay a bit whether for the services or out of guilt. So brother, since u have ur fair share of fun, my advise is if you can afford it.. pay a couple of hundreds amounting to your number of times of enjoyment or whatever and sent them packing! :)

good for ur karma too! :)

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[QUOTE=thaivisitor]Waaaa bro, you so good ah? you didn't realise that you subconciously become gig ah? I do know of some WLs, even non-WLs who will be willing to pay for your services leh..
want or not? But I have to take a cut hor? Like OKT leh... /QUOTE]

I also not bad what.. got this kinda of lobang no introduce to me? :mad:

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So it seems that not all prc is the one who is so called "cheating".. this is one typical man who "cheat" the prc feelings too.. So in life... even relationship is gambling... the two prc gamble on u.. and some sg man gamble on other prc..

before we advise u... ask urself.. wat do u wan?

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well,i earn 4.5k a mth..but i only tell them i'm a despatch rider earning 1.2k and not rich...sometimes when they call me out,i dont feel like going out....i gave excuse like no money

How long have you been associating yourself with them? There is a chance that you may have slipped up on some occasions betraying your real occupation. If you look hard enough and are observant enough, its not hard to see if a person is lying about his income level.


but i later found out she went to borrow from loan shark in china

How did you find that out? Is there any chance of them getting involved in the 'telling'?


I think there are many opportunities for them to plant ideas in your mind, if they try hard enough. So eliminate till the last option before you conclude.

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Bro, others will comment what a lucky guy a are. But after reading your story, what I can advise you is that you are not lucky afterall. In fact you are being entangled into a complicated affair. Btw how the you know that the ger borrow $$ from ah long? Do you witness it? Hearing is nothing. Do some homework, if she is from those rural area, loanshark wont borrow $$ to her unless she got land or house to mortage. That's life.

I won't say that she is slowly cooking a cunning deception. But it's always not a good idea to two-time them. Inversely you might be even play out by either one of them! Your mind has already outgrown your action. If you belong to those fark & forget type of guy, move on bro. If you belong to those who wanna chiong till you find a true love, make a gamble, choose one and move on from there....

Rof|maoxz~

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har har har.... have always admired your replies bro TV.
Bro WolfieXX1, how u beo them huh?? Did u ask them " Yau Chee Mah??" kekeke, cudn't help it there, bro... Just had to take a dig!
Anyway on a more serious note, tread carefully bro is all i can say. Think with your head (the one with the brain hor!!) and not with your heart especially when it comes PRCs, Thai, Indon, etc.... (generalizing here....)

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No one reads my signature meh? :D

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D chek, you think everyone knows malay har??

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not meh? last time when I was in Primary school (1962-1967) got teach malay 1 wor .. now dun have liao meh? :o chey ...

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ok ok, I translate:

请 注 意: 神 女 可 能 只 爱 你 的 钱

:D