What does it take?
 

Being new here, would like some advice from everyone else please? What does it take for an average guy to attract a girl here? There are quite a lot guys here and competition is stiff (for some of you, perhaps literally), so how does one do it? Thanks in advance for any helpful replies. :)

Re: What does it take?
 

My advice is dun try here. go try in pubs/clubs/ktvs/kopitiam/swimming pool/mortuary. Anywhere but here. :D

Re: What does it take?
 

Yes there is lots of competition out in here. BUT when you don't try, opportunities come knocking. Be active in the forum and be open to all. Join in gatherings and make friends.

Re: What does it take?
 

Bro if u are below 30, go pubs and chiong, many Local Flavor there:D

Unless u a old man like me:D

Re: What does it take?
 

When you want to try to get to know ladies here...you can read through the post and it will lead you to some clues on how stiff the competition is...is all about been true on your intentions make friends and be sensible...:D

Re: What does it take?
 

All you need is $$$ :D

Re: What does it take?
 

Mortuary may not have stiff competition, but everything else will be... in any case, Thanks for all the pointers! So are there a lot of posters here trying their luck in public venues as Well?

Re: What does it take?
 

It'll be like striking lottery if you manage to get a girl here. :D

Re: What does it take?
 

Really? From reading the other threads, seemed to me that guys scoring girls here was a frequent thing, which led me to wonder what was I missing. In some sad way I feel better now. Haha..

Re: What does it take?
 

Yup, its the sad truth here. From which thread do you infer that guys score girls here frequently?

Re: What does it take?
 

When I saw the word "scoring", it somehow caused some discomfort somehow. Maybe a little pointer, try to increase the size of your vocabulary's database. :cool:

Scoring machiem sounded it as a game. :mad:

Re: What does it take?
 

So u r actually hinting that opportunity keep knocking on u :rolleyes:

TS, sometimes its not a good thing, it could be just a jinx in disguise causing pain and misery ;)

Re: What does it take?
 

Point taken, but other choices such as "picking up" or "hooking up with" didn't seem any better. Basically, it appears that the guys are more usually the ones vying for targets, yes? In any case, definitely no offence intended. :)

Re: What does it take?
 

Point taken, but other choices such as "picking up" or "hooking up with" didn't seem any better. Basically, it appears that the guys are more usually the ones vying for targets, yes? In any case, definitely no offence intended. :)

Re: What does it take?
 

Faith plays with people. At times when you want certain things, you cannot find them. But when you least care about it, it comes in abundance.

I was just telling TS to have an open mind and make more friends my dear.