Siao liao
 

I just receive my verdict. I have develop the antibodies and positive in the HIV test.
Now the doctor asking me to tell my spouse about it and want us to go for counselling.
The doctor also said need to register my name inside the book.
Me very down now, how to tell my family about it ?
Very very regret, wish I can turn back time.
Anyone also in that situation ? Can share how you go through it ? Me very depress and lonely now.
I advice other bros out there if can please reduce commercial sex. No joke here. I am one of the statistics.

Re: Siao liao
 

i think better u tell not only ur family but ur flings as well.. :o

Re: Siao liao
 

Bro I'm really sorry to hear ur plight....all i can offer is a word of encouragement: "Stay positive".

I know it's almost impossible to stay positive but pls try to remember that there is always hope.

Take care & my sincere blessings,
BM

Re: Siao liao
 

Bro,

1st of all, u need to try to calm down. What is done is done, now what u can do is to do the following:

a) U need to tell your wife immediately( I know it is hard but u need to do it bro, find an excuse if u really cannot bear to tell her) so that she can go for a health check up to know if she is infected. The situation cannot be more worst if at the same time she happens to be pregnant. I hope not. :(

Yes, she will definitely scream vulgarities at u or whatever but u have done wrong. At this point in time b4 she had gone for a HIV test, there is still a slim chance that she may not have been infected.

Take note that your spouse needs to wait 1 month from last sexual contact with u for the HIV test to work. Follow up required at 3 and 6 months period to double confirm.

b) Bro, I suggest u read up the info under the HIV thread by Bro Big sexy and Bro Bongster. Also, seek advice from your doctor on how to fight the disease.

c) U need a person to talk to can try calling the helplines under my signature. Don't worry, I was once worried that I had caught the virus and had personally called the HIV helpline myself. The counsellor is a guy who is friendly.

d) Have u any kids and parents bro? Also u need to have a job to pay for the high cost of the medicines.

HIV cannot be spread through usage of utensils as such. Do read up if u r living with your family now so that u can protect yourself and them also.

I do not know if insurance covered HIV. Maybe u wish to check up your policy for claims if u had bought any insurance.

e) Regarding medications, I read b4 bros who have HIV usually went overseas like thailand to buy 'expired' HIV drugs. Although 'expired' maybe by a month or a day, the drugs r still usable and most importantly is cheaper than sg. Not expired ones I believe r cheaper also. Maybe u may wish to ask other bros. I was thinking of the worst if both you and wife r affected than the high amount of money needed to pay for the medications.

Take care bro. :(

Re: Siao liao
 

Take care brother...

Re: Siao liao
 

Useful thread by bro big sexy. It is basically a thread about HIV.

http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=17859

Questions regarding Aids:
6254 0212
Tues, Thur & Fri, 7.30am-9.30pm
1800 252 1324(During office hours)

SOS
1800-221 4444

Other help agencies(The child welfare section in case your kid needs help as in arrangements for his future..)

Child Welfare Section, Ministry of Community Development
1800-258 6378

Family service centre helpline
1800-838 0100

Fei Yue Family Service Centre helpline
1800-565 6626

Heart line
6339 6206

Shan you counselling centre
6741 9293

This line I saw on tv. U may wish to call if u wish to talk to someone.
Tel : 1800 221 4444.

ps: Bro, u need to pull yourself together. Your family needs u.

Re: Siao liao
 

Bro, I have 17 AIDS (not HIV) cases, male and female, here in one village in Thailand. In addition to whatever medicine the doctor is giving, all these 17 are taking Transfer Factor Plus and their antibodies count have reduced tremendously as compared to those who didn't take.

They now look OK, are able to work, and with time, I'm sure the antibodies will go to zero count.

You can PM me if you seriously want to try this.

Re: Siao liao
 

do u know or suspect how u were infected??

Re: Siao liao
 

Tks~ for your advise and hope other bros be vigilant too. Breaking of this tragic news is easier said than done, somehow or rather you have to do it. After all be a responsible man and sincerely hope your wife may forgive you. I more worried of the cost of your medication later on. Take care.

Re: Siao liao
 

Hope for the best. Where you think you got it from? Batam?. Thailand?. Geylang free lancers?, Geylang legal houses?.

Re: Siao liao
 

Follow on question: Do you BBBJ, S-rim, f-raw or anel? Can really educate some of the people here and prevent similar thing happen to them. :confused:

Re: Siao liao
 

Bro, u might wana tell us the list of WLs u have visited over the past few months....
So maybe we can avoid, and also tell them to go 4 checkup as well, for the WLs' own good..
Pls take care.

Re: Siao liao
 

Siao liao.......knn....think i also have to go check liao........haiz.......i rem i bonk 100+ gers b4...........si liao lah...........any1 wan to join me for checkup??? :(

Re: Siao liao
 

Listen to ThaiV. I believe you won't want to give up any chances that might work. Whatever will come, will come.... Want to avoid also can't... This is Karma... So, no point to think or regret of it now since what has already been done cannot be reverse. Do whatever you can to help other people and I believe you will feel better...

Take Care!!!

Re: Siao liao
 

Bro, check your pm I will give you the answer ASAP regarding the anti retiroviral drugs. And to all bros.. remember die die must wear cap!!!