are all girls lidat?
 

i have a girlfriend of many years. we are both in our 30s. Sex was good at first, however i notice that she has become disinterested in sex after being together for 2-3 years. At first she always give excuses saying she is tired and has a lot of work, recently she has becomes more direct and tells me straight she don't like having sex.

she has been faithful all these years, however as i am still young at 30+ i still have a strong sex desire. so what can i do? i don't like to visit whores too but recently did a girl because of the lack of sex from my girlfriend.

there is another problem, i notice everytime i tell her i will buy her things, that is the time i will get good sex. for example, i got a special good bj from her last year when i told her i will buy her a diamond ring. but i cannot be buying her gift always in return of good sex right?

so are majority of the girls lidat? how many of you have similar experience? any advise will be appreciated.:p

Re: are all girls lidat?
 

no, you just got yourself a GCP. And by the way, such girls with this response shows that you'd better be mentally prepared that she has found a 3rd party. Good luck.

Re: are all girls lidat?
 

bro. i think you jump the gun too fast , my girlfriend and i have been together for 7-8 years already. u mean you not sian after having sex with the same person for so long meh? i can understand why she behave like that..

i also know she is faithful because we work in the same company/dept. come and go back together everyday.

what i am asking is why do girl give us better sex when we give them gift? are most girl lidat?

Re: are all girls lidat?
 

It's just that she doesn't like sex with you. Full stop. And giving you good sex when you promise her gifts is just her way of saying thank you and showing her gratitude to you. It still doesn't make her like sex, but she does it as a form of repaying you for the gifts you have showered on her.

The reason why she doesn't like sex with you could be due to a number of reasons... Maybe you are not too good in bed? Maybe she doesn't have a high sex drive? Or maybe the reason is as simple as that she just doesn't like sex.

Try talking to her about it and see if there are ways to solve this problem. You should first find out the reason why she doesn't like having sex with you.

All the best.

Re: are all girls lidat?
 

Sex and money are forever interconnected. Sex is about relationships, energy, desire, abundance, joy, pleasure, connection, divinity.
Money is about relationships, energy, desire, abundance, joy, pleasure, connection, divinity. Its has been the oldest bond just like teacup-saucer or pen-paper etc..

Alot of relationships in our current society are built on either money or sexually related requisites or both. Allow me to make a crude comparison. (I apologise if this has offended some people). When a man choose a lady his choice would be largely influenced by how cute/pretty/young..... boob size... slim/fat..... sweet smile...etc When a lady choose a man her choice would be largely influenced by his financial status...the make of his car... the type of housing he has etc. Throughout the ages, men are attracted to sex and women to monetary benefits as evidenced by stereotype-words such as "casanova" referring to men and "gold-digger" referring to women. You rarely have men being called a gold-digger or women being called casanovina.

That being said, it does not imply that your gf is a gold-digger. Its becos Sex is about relationships, energy, desire, abundance, joy, pleasure, connection and so is money. Men holds the power of money and women holds the power of sex. Like teacup-saucer, they attracts to each other. Hence, when a man give a woman something powerful very often in monetary benefits, the woman felt obliged to give something back that is equally as powerful, and very often is sexually related benefits.

You must also understand that we women see sex differently at different stages in our life. Before 30, we can be horny and sexy as hell etc but after 30 our maternal instincts start to kick in and take priority. Iam sure your gf loves you alot but you have a problem now and talking to her about it is the only way to solve it..or not. ;) Good luck!!

Re: are all girls lidat?
 

Women are emotion creatures. Make them happy and they feel high.
Man are physical creatures. Boink them and they feel high.

Re: are all girls lidat?
 

Hi Bro

Pls enlighten me what is GCP?

Thks

Re: are all girls lidat?
 

Confirm there is a 3rd party. I've been through this. Grab the evidence first then trash it out.

Re: are all girls lidat?
 

goodluck to u..i have been thru

Re: are all girls lidat?
 

I beg to differ. May not always be the case if she is disinterested. Or giving better service when rewards come.

For me, its the other way round. My husband is disinterested in sex. I like to view my situation as a disparity in terms of sex drive. It's not just girls; bot my partner a nice gadget and I really got regular sex for those few days.

Golden Cheese Pie (Golden Chee Bye)

Re: are all girls lidat?
 

Bro,

IMHO, there are three ways (not restricted to these only) about this situation:

1) You offended her unknowingly.
2) she is waiting for you to propose to her.
3) She has got another guy whom she is interested in; I hope not.

Take care and all the best.

Re: are all girls lidat?
 

I thought your sex life was all along bad because your girlfriend suffered from eczema ? :D
how recent was that you visit whores?

3 months a go already looking for hotel that only require 1 ID to check in :cool:
Refering to the whore you are visiting???:p

Re: are all girls lidat?
 

3rd party most probably, i got my answer last year! indeed she say "even if 3rd party is also after we broke off"

so i was like wtf? wanted to marry in mbs and bto is ready on july, i got a suprise from her :(

Re: are all girls lidat?
 

maybe too close to each other for too long, need to have own comfort zone to have some form of freshness.:confused: