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Just a random question.
Does girls virginity worth anything? Is there a value to it? And why is that so?

For me, I felt that its all about right and wrong moral.

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its really about moral values..

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Mostly based on your environment growing up. If you grew up among a group of nuns then chances are virginity would be a very big deal.

And if you grew up in a Hollywood like environment. Chances are you wouldn't give a rats ass about it.

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To me virginity is just a construct. Morals are constructs as well. Do whatever as long as you can sleep well at night.

There's a value to virginity if you attach one to it, I guess. Like if you give it to a random guy who only wants to fuck, then there's not much value to your virginity. But if you gift it to your boyfriend/ husband who will appreciate it, then of course there's a higher value.

Your first time will likely be memorable, so perhaps you'd like to give it to someone who cares about you and whom you care about. :)

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In my opinion , it boils to individual upbringing and enviromnent like what other bros said . Information gathering is everywhere and accessing porn is just a click on the button .

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Maybe the moral of having sex before marriage is getting lesser as time passes due to all the information we have on the net

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It does not matter what is out there. It is about yourself. You are unique. Your virginity is yours and special to you.

If you don't treasure it, the person receiving it definitely won't treasure it as well. Actually, he won't even treasure you :(

But sadly, even if you treasure it, if the person receiving it doesn't treasure it, he still won't treasure you :( In the past, I spent a lot of effort getting nice presents for a girl I like. To me, they those presents were special because I put so much effort in them. But to her, it did not matter since she had no feelings for me. From then on, I learnt to give presents only to people who will appreciate and value them. Then the presents are worth something :)

This is the world. Things are valuable only if people think they are. Give things only to people who will value them.

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That's true. well said.

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