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Need some advice frm bros n sistas...


Everytime I bring up the topic of sex w my bf, he gets angry/irritated. I know he's not cheating (I hope la huh). Just earlier, I gave him a blowjob, and he shooed me off and told me whether or not he gets one it doesn't matter to him.

So I asked if does he even like sex... Cuz our sex life has been kinda... Well, in the dumps. He said yes, and I was trying to understand what he liked so I could please him more.... And he got angry?! Like what's??? I'm still sitting here feeling confused, what did I do wrong? I asked him gently and said I hope I could do what that'll make him happy and turn him on... And he got worse. Told me to shut it and stop.

For all I know, none if my ex's ever complained abt my blowjobs and even got praised many times so I know I'm doing something right. I ain't a dead fish in bed but this guy just don't seem to want me. :(


It's getting bad cuz I'm turning into a friggin drywell. And all these things he's been saying to me like sex isn't everything, not important, blowjobs he can live without blah blah... It's beginning to turn me off. I'm afraid soon i don't even want to go near him.

Help. What shld I do?

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Drop him sista...He's not intrested anymore

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Get yourself a new boyfriend.

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If you been fucking him fine in the past, he is in his 20s n he change suddenly, its a symptom of other problems like he is secretly 2 timing you or he got ED or he is comin out of the closet n cant explain 2 u.

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How long have u been with him already? Is he like this also last time?

My best advice would be just change a new bf! since he doesn't wanna talk abt the problem wat can u do? it takes 2 hand to clap

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Be thankful he's your bf, not your husband.

The solution is obvious.

Look for a new bf.

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Ts,don't go near him.Leave him alone.Look for new BF that appreaciate yr blow job.Friendly specking I haven't have a good blow job in my life:D

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dont worry TS, we have alot of brothers here will appreciate your blowjob :D


whenever you want just post in here, all will que slowly and wait

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Thanks everyone.... Some actually managed to make me laugh...

Whole night he slept w his butt facing me.. Almost wanted to kick him off the bed n pretend I was having an nightmare.

First couple of mths the sex was good then subsequently died. We've been tog 7 mths only. Now he doesn't lick me or even squeeze my boobs. (I'm not small either... A good handful w quite a nice body to boot.) my ex and I could bonk every night, loved it when he falls asleep and den I start going down on him until he gets hard and he wakes up blur faced and horny. If I do this to my bf now, he sure smack me in my head and tell me go back slp. Gah!

Yea I also feel it's quite futile now... He's a very good guy but I think this inability to talk part really unacceptable to me too.. Not only in regards to sex. In general, we have nothing to say to each other too...

Yep u are all right! He ain't the one...

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I second that.

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blowjobs. hmmm I love them. too bad he doesn't know how to appreciate.

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time to change a new bf... he doesn't know how to appreciate u. Pls find someone who will appreciate u.,

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he could be stressed at work that it's difficult for his tool to stand.

When you make sexual advances, he might feel embarrassed to show his weakness down there, hence start to find reason to avoid it.

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Did u guys had any arguments or quarrel prior to that? Some times when my partner uses sex to apologise after our quarrel I will turn her away too.. And also make claims that blowjob is no big deal etc

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thought moody, petty guys are a total turnoff to female. This kind usually has weak characters + esteem issue