Unbelievable things she does now
 

Hi guys,

if you are married for years and kids and stable income plus house. Your wife being old fashion thinking all these years starts to dress well, work late ( but you got to pick her up : ( ) starts to wax ( saying for you to oral better cos you always complained too hairy ! ) and making sex videos in the room. Made remarks like you long longer than young chaps who comes in mins .

Imply ??? I am wearing a green hat ? she stepping into 2 boats ?

Can bros share your view ?

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Got some chance that u might be wearing green hat bah...maybe now she out trying fresh meat.....like the Chinese saying goes...."温饱思淫欲 "....so u better be checking out on her and be more careful.....but of coz, might be wrong as well....maybe she worried that age catches up and you might go out to hunt for fresh meat...so she doll up herself la....:D:D:D

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all these are very minor . if she has done what I write below , then its confirm liao .

1)Going out without you on weekends
2)SMS frequency increase
3)going out off office more frequently .
4) lunching out .

I hope shes not having a sales job . She will have loads of freedom to steal makan .

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I say....stop going down the road of doubting your spouse...it's a slippery road and u may end up in a downward spiral.

I believe u like wat u are seeing as she is being progressive, giving u wat many men wish their wives would do.

If u're puzzled...why not just hve a conversation with her on how this change came about? Other than change in `upgrading' herself for the better...there is no indication she is hving an affair....she is still getting u to pick her up.

Trust is important; break tat and it will be hard to get it back. Women do not need to have affairs to change their outlook...it can be from liaising with colleagues, girltalks, observations about the world, etc. She can be changing to keep the marriage `fresh'....not just for u....for her too.

I would say this....seems like she `exploring' all the changes with u right? I would only worry if the `desert' is not for u :D.

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Rather than trying to go against the grain, why don't you ask her whether you can join in.

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thanks all bros whom gave impartial replies
which is negative and positive . well ,
she late 30s and yeah , she can have 2-3 hours
lunch due to time differences and maybe she indeed
trying to try fresh stuffs to keep marriage
alive . still trust her but only tis gut feel somewhere
is not wrong and I do trust my gut feel .
talking about SMS , now I think its whatapps
and yes , she does whatapps late and late whatapps do
come in but I don't read her message like wise too from
her . we do not and respect each privacy .

hope my gut feel is wrong tis time but on the
bright side , I being eating out since day 1 .

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agree. she might be a samster u know:)

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Either she dunno you're eating out, or she chose not to, or she thinks it's time for her to eat out now?
:eek:
:cool:

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Maybe she's going through mid-life crisis and feels old. She wants to feel young again. She dresses up because she's tired of looking so old.
:)

Maybe she's tired and bored of coming home and not going out to the world to LIVE!

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Maybe u test her, asking her wanna swing with another couple, both gotta taste fresh meat? :D

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might not don;t think too much, since you can pick her back from work, unless she fxxk in the office again is unlikely.

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Lunch Time Quickie ... I used to do this when I was in sales .

Just saying that's all , don't think to far .

:D

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Or maybe she suspects or know u had been eating out.. Thus instead of confronting,she's playing mental games wif u now, give u a warning shot n keep u on ur toes.
Just my guess..Gd luck..

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Since u've been eating out...think whether gut feel true or not doesn't matter any longer. Afterall, it's not tat u are deprived at home :D.