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inkrubber98 23-03-2014 09:35 AM

Is it wrong to lead her on?
 
This is her first time in SG providing massage services. Afaik she don't even kiss or french other customers, only provide massage, bbbj and hj services. But of course I can never know the truth. Anyway on my 3rd visit she let me bonked her. After that she started texting me throughout the week asking if I miss her etc. She seemed genuine.

While I do like making out and bonking her, I don't really have any emotional feelings for her. Not that I don't care about her, but just not in a 'romantic' way. It's all just physical attraction for me.

Question here: if you were me what would you do?

1. Continue seeing her and pretend to reciprocate her feelings towards me? The lovemaking is just fantastic when it is non-commercial and natural like this. Should I tell myself in this industry when it comes to KC it's all fair game. Who really knows if she's for real anyway right?

2. But somehow I don't feel completely ok to lead her on like this, as I am not prepared to give her anything more like supporting her financially or be her long term lover. I enjoyed the sex but don't really want to end up causing anyone emotional hurt. I have since stopped communication with her for the past week already. Should I just ignore her now, quit and walk away and look for the next target? Bros here should know such chemistry and rapport with another woman is really hard to come by.

Any advise, suggestions or comments?

Big Sexy 23-03-2014 10:34 AM

Re: Is it wrong to lead her on?
 
3. look for other bonks

Quote:

Originally Posted by inkrubber98 (Post 10712440)
Question here: if you were me what would you do?


Johnbass 23-03-2014 11:32 AM

Re: Is it wrong to lead her on?
 
TS, I think it's the other way round... she's leading you on...
Good luck.
:cool:

kiario 23-03-2014 11:41 AM

Re: Is it wrong to lead her on?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Johnbass (Post 10712884)
TS, I think it's the other way round... she's leading you on...
Good luck.
:cool:

Fully agree!

Intltuk 23-03-2014 01:44 PM

Re: Is it wrong to lead her on?
 
TS, there's a saying....`A Fool is born every minute'....and u've just put urself in tat category.

How high a value u think she puts on her pussy when her mouth is being used to service customer dicks??? Women in service industry are very good in KCing. Some sweet words and u crumble in her hands? I hate to think where u will end up at the end of this fantasy u think u're in.

justl00king 23-03-2014 01:56 PM

Re: Is it wrong to lead her on?
 
Bro, just enjoy until it's time to move on.

Dun think, just bonk. :D

Johnbass 23-03-2014 02:00 PM

Re: Is it wrong to lead her on?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by justl00king (Post 10713627)
Bro, just enjoy until it's time to move on.

Dun think, just bonk. :D

Wahahaha!
Best advice!
Upz!
:D

Ken79 23-03-2014 02:49 PM

Re: Is it wrong to lead her on?
 
TS bro, if she can let u bonk her on the 3rd RTM, then there are many other guys she would allow either past, current or future.
Maybe she does like u personally but it will never be more than her love for money and she will always be trying her luck on any guys who show weakness towards her and try to rip that person off.

Lastly, if she is really serious about u and u guys happen to be together, what will she be expecting from u in monetary terms?
like what other bros mentioned, she is the one leading u on and being an ace in this game she makes it look as if u are the one calling the shots and puts herself in a vulnerable position to gain brownie points.

Summerhillt 23-03-2014 04:19 PM

Re: Is it wrong to lead her on?
 
Why think with the smaller head again

leekwantew 23-03-2014 08:37 PM

Re: Is it wrong to lead her on?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by inkrubber98 (Post 10712440)
1. Continue seeing her and pretend to reciprocate her feelings towards me? The lovemaking is just fantastic when it is non-commercial and natural like this. Should I tell myself in this industry when it comes to KC it's all fair game. Who really knows if she's for real anyway right?

2. But somehow I don't feel completely ok to lead her on like this, as I am not prepared to give her anything more like supporting her financially or be her long term lover. I enjoyed the sex but don't really want to end up causing anyone emotional hurt. I have since stopped communication with her for the past week already. Should I just ignore her now, quit and walk away and look for the next target? Bros here should know such chemistry and rapport with another woman is really hard to come by.

Any advise, suggestions or comments?

If I was you I'd do 1, enjoy the moment but keep the feelers out, once she start asking you for money, 翻脸, drop her and move on

Skarlett0 23-03-2014 09:20 PM

Re: Is it wrong to lead her on?
 
U should just look for othrs and carry on. Don play with her feelings if she had been nice to you. Eg: did not ask u for money.

You might have a daughter someday. Imagine guys playing your daughter out.

Karma bites like a bitch. Move on.

Kalv 24-03-2014 08:36 AM

Is it wrong to lead her on?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by inkrubber98 (Post 10712440)
..her first time in SG .. don't even kiss or french other customers,.. massage, bbbj and hj services. .. I can never know the truth. .. 3rd visit .. let me bonked ...
Question
1. Continue seeing her and pretend to reciprocate her feelings
2. ..ignore her .. quit and walk away ..

Any advise...

WLs will KC those who are hansome (for "tirak"/BF) or rich (sugar daddy). Make yourself clear just $$$ transactions - you have many GFs/other WLs. Not good to cheat on feelings. If no agreement, move on.

WLs will always give the impressions that you are great/special/the only one. If bonk U, most likely many others too. Many problems if go into long term/special relationship - not recommended. Do not answer/reply her SMSs. Cut down the visits. "Spread you " loves" to other WLs."

Sammyboyfor advice: :p Should be advice (noun) not advise (verb).

All the best. :) Cheers.

inkrubber98 24-03-2014 08:39 AM

Re: Is it wrong to lead her on?
 
Thanks for the advice Kalv, this makes a lot of sense to me now.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kalv (Post 10717562)
WLs will KC those who are hansome (for "tirak"/BF) or rich (sugar daddy). Make yourself clear just $$$ transactions - you have many GFs/other WLs. Not good to cheat on feelings. If no agreement, move on.

WLs will always give the impressions that you are great/special/the only one. If bonk U, most likely many others too. Many problems if go into long term/special relationship - not recommended. Do not answer/reply her SMS. Cut down the visits. "Spread you " loves" to other WLs."

Sammyboyfor advice: :p Should be advice (noun) not advise (verb).

All the best. :) Cheers.


Johnbass 24-03-2014 10:57 AM

Re: Is it wrong to lead her on?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by JohnbassII (Post 10714689)
Wahahaha!
Building war chest liao ah?
:D

Haha!
Your war chest ran out of zaps on me liao ah?
*Pew pew pew*

I rather spend my time on building my treasure chest.
:D

porscheclub 24-03-2014 04:44 PM

Re: Is it wrong to lead her on?
 
TS should just put her contact here & we'll know if she's exclusively yours ;)

Bro, you're an old bird but still post this kind of Q?!


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