My PA
 

I have a PA and I developed feelings for her. She got a bf and I got a gf. I see her in office every day and often after work we will go out together be it in groups or just the 2 of us. Office people are making fun of us and making the situation kind of awkward. I enjoyed her accompany and I believe she feels the same too and we would avoid mentioning about each other partner. Recently I overheard that she was going on a date with bf and I felt really uncomfortable. My feeling was written all over my face the next day in office and I avoided her the whole day. After work I also did not joined her and the colleagues for dinner and I made a stupid excuse for not joining. I'm in a dilemma and don't know what I should do.

Re: My PA
 

Depends whether you wanna be a bad or nice guy.

You have a gf and ought to stay faithful. But then again, we are men and we err sometimes. Keep urself in check if you don't want to go astray.

I do not experience such sticky issues before so its not to me to comment too much.

Re: My PA
 

how do u feel if you girlfriend falls for another guy whilst still with you?

Re: My PA
 

Leave her alone....If you hit on her.....someone will do the same to your gf or wife next time....what comes around goes around...there is this thing call karma....:D:D:D

Re: My PA
 

Not suggesting anything.. but seriously ask yourself.. who are u more comfortable with?

Which one do u prefer to hang out with, and which one do u prefer to go home to?

Re: My PA
 

You don't gotta act on every attraction bro...

Re: My PA
 

Bro, don't eat and shit at the same place...

Re: My PA
 

As you say , it's gf , so you have the freedom to choose still :) what are you waiting for ? Follow your heart and live no regret

Re: My PA
 

This is a good one. Would love to hear the reply.

Re: My PA
 

is that why your handle is "outofmind"?

Re: My PA
 

I tell you what you should do ...

You should grow up . Its only right that she goes out with her boyfriend , and after that ,the night will end with a hot fucking session .

You should be with your girlfriend more often , on a side have an affair with your PA

This is what you should fucking do for now ...

:)

Re: My PA
 

My reply is , I wish her all the best !

:D

Time to get a new one !

Re: My PA
 

If she cheats to be with you, who's to say she won't to be with someone else. Plus, if it doesn't work, it would be even more awkward at work and some tasty blackmail material.

Re: My PA
 

if just to play and release, then just do it if she also into it...if develop feeling, no no...allparties hurt...dun do that lah

Re: My PA
 

What if someone in the office has been checking both of you?