Dear kind SBF brothers..
 

Dear SBF brothers.. I hope somebody out there could help me in this problem i'm facing now. First of all, just a bit of background.. I have an PRC FL girlfriend whom I have been going out for awhile. The thing is she was caught by the police while on the job. She is still in SG now.

I know of stories where by they say FL here are here to earn money and then go home which I couldn't agree more, but I do also believe on the other hand, if there is a chance that somebody out there in SG here who is willing to go on a long term relationship with an FL, some FL would still likely consider giving it a chance in hope of getting settling down with someone who truly loves them.

We wished to get married and I know that since she was caught on the job, she will be banned for a few years, how many years no one will know, but I am still pining on that little bit of hope that things can work out no matter how long it takes.

My questions if any kind SBF brothers can enlighten or help to advise on please:

1) My GF is now holding a white card (not expired yet) and we planned to get married, will the marriage be approved?

2) If the marriage is approved by ROM, and she will be send back to China, will she still be able to get through the customs given that she has a official marriage cert from ROM? Or she must wait after the ban is over?

3) Let's say if she cant get through the customs, what should I do in increasing her chances of clearing customs and how do I go about in doing it?

4) If she get through the customs, is applying for a LTVP (Long Term Visitor Pass) the next step for us?

I do not have any more time to waste as she is about to go back in probably 2 months time. I sincerely welcome all comments, advice and help that Brothers can offer to me here.

Really and sincerely looking forward to see some replies tomorrow when I wake up so at least I can give her some comfort knowing that there is still hope and possibility that we can have a life together in SG.

Thanks a million kind Bros. Wishing all a good night rest.

Warmest Regards,

Califuse

Re: Dear kind SBF brothers..
 

Best thing to do, dump her and move on to another one if you really enjoy relationship with FL.:D

Re: Dear kind SBF brothers..
 

Goodness, my present masseur of 3 years told me she was single, studying at SMU and freelancing when I met her in 2010. The irony as always is how the island country state is like a coin with two sides - is the head side the better side or is the tail side the better side - so on the topic of ROM with Singapore immigration and manpower laws, heng or sway is something that ain't in my cup of tea judging over. Or as some old zen teacher Ta Hui put it in a way approximately, he will rather burn in hell for an eternity than to express this teaching as a human emotion.

So my massuer turns out to be getting married when she told me she was single. She turns out to be on a work permit in Singapore when she told me she was studying at SMU and freelancing. She turns out to be married when we went shopping together at Takashimaya. She turns out to be a Singaporean PR when I was courting her. She turns out to be a divorcee in 2013 when she told me she was single as she was in 2010. By then yet another of our favourite foreign talent is already a Singaporean resident.

All this happens while we are figuring out our sweet nothings with our MOE-ish 1), 2), 3), 4) standard documentation skills.

:D Sorry I need to laugh. It's been awhile you see. It's suffering and stressful like you yourself are well aware of. Yet sometimes when I am mindful of myself being a joker and I read a thread that makes me feel like revisiting Academy of Human Development redoing my practical counselling course, I rather just laugh.

Hahahaha, paiseh la din mean it. LOL LOL LOL knn can dun embarass me further or not do you know every single girl on this island is a database record in our systems what have you figured out already? Now from a humble context of a fellow Singaporean, love i.e. kindness is important, you gotta figure it out yourself.



My masseur's ex-husband 5 years my senior is now driving a taxi after selling their vehicle after divorce if he's happy i'm happier

linrx

Re: Dear kind SBF brothers..
 

Seem like you got KCed, as mention by Sam "whore is for fucking not loving"


Singapore so many local you scare no gal marry you? Although local gal some are fuck up but there are some minority, need to have hunt good gems.

Re: Dear kind SBF brothers..
 

You wanna marry a freakin' WHORE???? :eek::confused:

You must be mad, dumb or a combination of both.

Re: Dear kind SBF brothers..
 

The chances of returning is close to zero. You have to see her in China or elsewhere if you need to meet her again. If the police issue you a white card, you'll have to leave within 3 days. Why is she given 2 months? Is she being revoke of her PR, then she must be running into some serious problem with the law.

It's better to dump her and get on with your life or else she will ask for your support financially when she's back while fucking behind your back.

Re: Dear kind SBF brothers..
 

Another one bites the dust.
So many bros gave examples liao... Still never learn from them.
:cool:

Re: Dear kind SBF brothers..
 

Offer to follow her back to China and marry her there. See how fast she "flip face" or give all sorts of excuses to deter you.

To me she just wants you for SG citizenship. Just offer to marry her in China and migrate there (without any true intentions of doing so), and see what she does. :D

Re: Dear kind SBF brothers..
 

bro,

you are considered a senior in sbf and still make this mistake? to err is human...but pls wake up and think with the bigger head.

why will she want you?

1. you are chinese like her
2. you are better off in terms of exchange rate
3. you are easy to con

wake up from your dream bro. still not too late.

Re: Dear kind SBF brothers..
 

time to wake up.

Re: Dear kind SBF brothers..
 

full details here: http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthr...=434866&page=3

Re: Dear kind SBF brothers..
 

TS, since u're adamant about settling down with her...well, the probability of doing it in S'pore is near impossible now since her offence is on record.

Like some bros said......marry her in China.

Re: Dear kind SBF brothers..
 

let me see, an individual male met a women(WL or not)that somehow able to share each other company well(for now), immediately multi images of marriage blissfulness suddenly floating in the mind.

like a deal need to be close fast, very interesting ...

why the need to tie the knot? companionship?

Re: Dear kind SBF brothers..
 

12 years here and the same hooker romeo theme is still running. :D

Re: Dear kind SBF brothers..
 

Well, like the saying goes...love is blind..till the events unfold itself :)