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i think this section of sb is best for me to ask all samsters there about abortion. what do fellow samsters do if they have a pregnant girl at hand? abort at where? what to do? got other options?

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1. Be a man and marry her.
2. Put the kid up from adoption

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PLEASE BE A MAN!

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yes i 100 120% agreed with u bro. this is no joke.

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Really depends on how many months liao Pregnant. Too late liao eg 5-6 months dont lar..Dangerous to the mother.

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Bad command or file name
Abort, Retry, Fail?_

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I totally agree, my mother aborted my brother when we were 8 because we had no means to raise the 5 child (horny daddy). Til now my mother is constantly feeling guilty over this incident, even though there is no choice at that time.

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If you had it aborted, your conscience would prick you for the rest of your life! You cant escape from the fact that you are a murderer the moment a life had been taken away intentionally or otherwise by you or your girl simply by abortion. No intention to offend any samsters here but do remember bro desertrose...CAUSE & EFFECT! We have to accept our foolish deeds and be responsible for its consequences. Accept your shortcoming and move on. Raise the child or have it adopted..but do not "flush" them alway! :(

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Congratulations, u r a father.

It depends on whether u wants to be a daddy or a murderer.

Give birth and give the child away if u can bear it. Wait until the child is born than decide. Make your decision when u r carrying it.

Abortion is devastating to women especially to the one whom u love.The body will never recover from the abortion and she will likely suffer a worst mental depression especially if its her 1st. A trauma or horror will continue to haunt her although she may be putting up a brave front.

No one will want to ask people how to kill their offsprings. If really u got no choice than look for a counsellor and ask. :(

If conditions allow, it will be best to keep 'your child.' :(

Cheers

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This is a touchy issue that is debated all over the world and there really is no right or wrong approach to it. Pro-Life / Pro-Choice is something that is difficult to give advice on.

Let's spare a thought for your girl friend. We shall assume she is not underage because otherwise, we really will be opening a can of worms that nobody wants to. She must be very very confused and troubled at this time. Please spend time with her and make that decision with her. You are part of the cause anyway.

Does she want to be a mother? Is she ready to be a mother? Does she want you?

Before you jump to the conclusion that this is what you need to psycho her out off having your kid....you are wrong. You have no say in this matter mate. As a gentleman, you can only be supportive of whatever decision she makes. That is the least you should do. Why? Because she is the one who will be carrying all the changes of pregnancy or abortion.

An abortion can be carried out at several private hospitals or clinics. Before you look at this as an option, she will need to know that permanent damage to her womb is a real possibility. She may not be able to carry a child..ever.

Singapore is pro-choice and that means a decision is solely meant for the parents. But just remember, the child the two of you made is as much a part of you as it is you a part of it. Destroying that will haunt you for the rest of both your lives.

Good luck and I hope the two of you make the right decision.

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Best is to keep the baby. Its an innocent life. I understand ur life needs to be adjusted after that. But bopian. The gal will suffer aftermath from the abortion. No goot for her. She will feel guilty. Go marry, take care of her. And like the Bros here have said. Be a Real Man! Go Marry Her and Take Care of her!

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Actaully all depends on wat kind of relationshiip u have wif the mother. If it was a casual fling/ons and you had tried to use morning after pills to prevent unwanted pregnancy, I do believe that abortion cannot be avoided, because in any case the morning after pills will have harmed the feotus development.

If it was a serious relationship, I believe that abortion is not justified.

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Dont fuk ard if you not prepared to accept the concequences.. Raw is War...

So the saying goes.. The screw you get for the screw you get...:rolleyes: