Date an older women (need advise)
 

Just went out with an older women. Everything went well, she opens up about her parents, family, close friends and secrets. But a waiter said are you a couple? Both of us instantly laugh and said no. She just said brothers and sisters. In the car, she said, actually i wasnt really listening to what the guy said. Sent her back and texted thanks for a great date and she replied instantly. Yup, i really had a great time. But she did mention about the next date. Should i keep going for her?

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if everything went well, whats stopping u?

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No right nor wrong. Just go with your feel and as a guy, take the initiative to woo her. Mature mindset and a positive attitude is important. And make sure you are ambitious in terms of career.

Lastly, chemistry. Build on it. :)

All the best. :)

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@$$$$$xx maybe the response she gave to the waiter is stopping me. Or maybe i think too much
@wintermelontea im just gonna give it some time to let things work out.
Thanks for both your advise :)

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just let nature take its course. My gf was 8 years older than me and we planning to get married.

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I guess you're right. Im just thinking too much. Just gonna go with the flow and see where it goes..

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Just bcos of the response from the waiter's question?

You got to have more confidence than that to succeed.

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I know it's an uphill battle but i think i wont give her up so easily.

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Even if your lady's comments to the waiter is true to her heart, if she is giving you opportunities to meet up, that's something good.

Any chance that you can take is a chance you can win her heart (and into her pants of cos..)

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are you asking us if you have chance to get into her pants? :o

Re: Date an older women (need advise)
 

姐弟恋 (Older Sis-Younger Bro) relationships quite common nowadays bah.
If she's more accomplished and more financially stable than you... prepare to listen to gossips.
See your EGO can tahan a not lor...

Then there's your/her parents to handle next time.

:D

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Im not trying to get into her pants. I really do like her.

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What is the age gap? It's play a part in the later stage of life.. :)

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It depends on what she feels about dating a younger guy? If she's absolutely against it then you have no chance. Otherwise, you're just not her boyfriend YET.

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Bro, just go for it. When I start going out with my gf before our relationship she also felt that we are just friends, but as times goes by and we start to date more often, she had feelings for me. She is 8 years older and of course she is holding quite a high position and earn much more than me.

At first I thought we won't last because I felt that she would wants to be in control. But I was wrong, she is mature and puts in always infront. Unlike some younger girls which I date that want so much attention. I have also not worry about financial as she can afford anything she wants.

Just go for more dates and see how it goes!