brother get soft during sex with gf
 

Guys, I wanna ask if anyone has this problem? My gf and I have been together for 2 years already and sex was more frequent in the beginning stage.

Nowadays, sometimes my brother will get soft halfway while pumping her in missionary style, and I think the reason it because she is too wet which will reduce the 'grip' there.. After that, no matter how my gf give me a hj, it wont get hard. The only way to get me hard again is a bj from her then back to complete the mission.

The thing is, I love my gf but im also afraid that too much of this incident will make my gf think that I dont feel sexually attracted to her anymore. Well, I think i may have some of that feeling too(is it due to fucking the same person for so many years?). So if it's the case, how am I going to prevent or reduce this in the future, say 10years later? any advice bros? e.g dont diy or watch porn at all? or eat some specific food to enhance the sexual drive?

Thanks for listening people :(

Re: brother get soft during sex with gf
 

watch porn together

Re: brother get soft during sex with gf
 

Maybe time to marry and have babies, so can take break from sex. So maybe the freshness will cum back........:D

Re: brother get soft during sex with gf
 

TS,

How old are you? This normally happens to older men.

A few things to try:
1. Mix up the sex part. Don't fall into a routine. Be adventurous.
2. Go for holidays nearby more often together.
3. If all else fails, get a prescription for Cialis.

Re: brother get soft during sex with gf
 

Does it happen when you are banging some other girls? If it does, you seriously need some medication, bro.

:)

Re: brother get soft during sex with gf
 

Try fucking some other girl and see whether it makes any difference. ;)

Re: brother get soft during sex with gf
 

How long do you last for each session? If it's long, maybe you need to go buildup your strength. If it's short, then you may be under stress or having health related issues.

You did not provide enough details for us but this is definitely not due to your gf having too much water.

Re: brother get soft during sex with gf
 

Never try, but sometimes I would think of other girls like my female colleague to make it hard and cum..

Re: brother get soft during sex with gf
 

Not too long or too short, probably around 10-15mins ba.. Used to watch porn and pcc a lot when young, dunno if it is due to my past bad habit leh.. Now still got watch and pcc, but a lot less frequent than last time liao..

Re: brother get soft during sex with gf
 

Lol, sometimes I would like to try sia.. But what if the result is totally different from my gf? Meaning I really feel lesser sexual attracted to my gf liao lo.. :confused:

Re: brother get soft during sex with gf
 

this is so common...can be a number of reasons...but TS need to reveal more like his age and how often he had sex before we can comment...:)

1. age
2. frequency of sex or masturbate
3. influence of alcohol
4. stress related work
5. exercise frequently

Re: brother get soft during sex with gf
 

Means u PCC too much lah...

Every relationships will have ups and downs...
Likewise it will affect your sexlife...
Depends on what you and your partner does...
You may see better or worse days ahead.

Pornstars' kind of sexlife only happens in porn movies.
:D

Re: brother get soft during sex with gf
 

Well. if this is the fact, you can't run away from this. Ostrich mentality doesn't solve the problem. :)

Keep us posted of further update. Good luck!

I doubt you can fuck your female colleagues just like that. :D Have you ever thought of getting a bitch for this experimenting purpose?

Re: brother get soft during sex with gf
 

TS

You are allegic to your gf(kidding). If you continue to do the same thing and expect a different result, your may end up disappointed.

There are exercises to remedy the problem.

One is to transfer the stress of cumming to other activities like fore play. Who says you must cum to enjoy sex.

Environment - go on a road trip. The familiarity of the same place in love making breeds contempt and in this case may have unconsciously affected your performance. I will be stretching if I over emphasis this point but try love making after having a good time of shopping and sighseeing will lend a whole new dimension to the concept of transferance of emotions not focus on the very act of cumming. Don't be myopic with missionary position and HJ but rather explore creative form of sex like role play and incorporating toys in the process.

I suspect fatigue is the root cause and if you are well rested, you will be pleasently surprised you can achieve cloud nine each and Everytime u do it.

Try not to have too much distractions in the room. Just focus on your girlfriend and having a good time. Sex should be free from stress but some sexual tension is actually good. Communicate with your gf your apprehension and your gf will love you for being open. Good luck and let your seeds shoot.

Re: brother get soft during sex with gf
 

its just a spell you're going thru.
fucking the gf of 2 years is defintely not as exciting as fucking the gf of 2 months.

go fuck an uglier girl or a hooker with fucked up service, after that your brother will remorsefully make things harder for your gf. :D