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jackson555 24-11-2014 04:50 PM

What is love?
 
Don't know if anyone will answer this thread, but as title says it..

What is love?

Does it mean anyone treat you nice, take care of you and make you happy means love?
Does it mean crying and feeling heartache after a break up means you love the person? What happens to the said 'love' after that?

Deep questions and confused. Wondering if anyone would enlighten me with their wisdom :)

porscheclub 24-11-2014 05:23 PM

Re: What is love?
 
Love often spoken hardly meaningful & overrated. Greatest love IMO is from parents & those who sacrifice without asking for returns but don't be an idiot to give love to the undeserved.

topcook1 24-11-2014 05:49 PM

Re: What is love?
 
Parental love is the greatest...is unconditional...

jackson555 24-11-2014 09:01 PM

Re: What is love?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by porscheclub (Post 12182674)
Love often spoken hardly meaningful & overrated. Greatest love IMO is from parents & those who sacrifice without asking for returns but don't be an idiot to give love to the undeserved.

I guess it's a very thin line between giving without returns and to someone ungrateful?

Quote:

Originally Posted by topcook1 (Post 12182793)
Parental love is the greatest...is unconditional...

Haha, is parental love really that unconditional? What happens if the child is constantly rebellious even as an adult? Will the parents give up on them?

PPGirl 25-11-2014 12:37 AM

Re: What is love?
 
Depends on which type of love are u referring to?
Love can be an unconditional commitment to a imperfect person.
It can be a love to ur parents, siblings, frds, ur other half or even to animals.
I think there is no definite answer on what love is all about.
http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Love

No offense but just find this pic cute or quote has nice meaning
http://img2.uploadhouse.com/fileuplo...625f343c6b.jpg

jackson555 25-11-2014 01:35 AM

Re: What is love?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by PPGirl (Post 12184875)
Depends on which type of love are u referring to?
Love can be an unconditional commitment to a imperfect person.
It can be a love to ur parents, siblings, frds, ur other half or even to animals.
I think there is no definite answer on what love is all about.
http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Love

No offense but just find this pic cute or quote has nice meaning
http://img2.uploadhouse.com/fileuplo...625f343c6b.jpg

Thanks PPG, that's a really cute photo! Haha, wiki has got so many definitions and ideas about love :eek:

sammyboyfor 25-11-2014 03:30 AM

Re: What is love?
 
Love is chemical process and nothing more. Google "Chemistry of Love".

Quote:

Originally Posted by jackson555 (Post 12182439)
Don't know if anyone will answer this thread, but as title says it..

What is love?

Does it mean anyone treat you nice, take care of you and make you happy means love?
Does it mean crying and feeling heartache after a break up means you love the person? What happens to the said 'love' after that?

Deep questions and confused. Wondering if anyone would enlighten me with their wisdom :)


oxeso 25-11-2014 10:29 AM

Re: What is love?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by jackson555 (Post 12182439)
What is love?

Bluntly put, Love is jus a feeling, fades wif time.
Wat lingers on is Affection, grows wif time.
My pov..:)

sammyboyfor 25-11-2014 10:45 AM

Re: What is love?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by oxeso (Post 12186519)
Bluntly put, Love is jus a feeling, fades wif time.
Wat lingers on is Affection, grows wif time.
My pov..:)

If you want a lasting relationship, you have to be "best friends" first and foremost. Passion plays no part in the process after a few years.

That is why I always advocate NEVER marrying a whore. Fucking them may feel great but imagine trying to be best friends with a girl who has a whore mentality. It is next to impossible.

oxeso 25-11-2014 01:46 PM

Re: What is love?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor (Post 12186599)
If you want a lasting relationship, you have to be "best friends" first and foremost.

Makes perfect sense to me. Thanks for d sound advice, boss.:)

Captainoceania77 25-11-2014 02:27 PM

Re: What is love?
 
I only knows how to make love......most love feelings will fade one day. I can only trust parental love only.

Firelord 25-11-2014 05:14 PM

Re: What is love?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor (Post 12186599)
If you want a lasting relationship, you have to be "best friends" first and foremost. Passion plays no part in the process after a few years.

Very TRUE. after 20-30 yrs, all passion go down the drain.

maxsee 25-11-2014 09:35 PM

Re: What is love?
 
Usually true love will exist when both of you know one another during youth days and stick through together....But then again this seldom happens in today's context....:D:D:D

seabass 25-11-2014 11:28 PM

Re: What is love?
 
Dear TS

Permission to be brutally honest; yours is called unrequited love.

Being in love with somebody who doesn't love you can be a heartbreaking experience. Follow these steps to move past the pain and get on with your life.

1. Do you feel depressed- this is your mind telling you your body is tired and need rest.

2. Fight or Flight - you do know the answer as Mr X have put it bluntly to you...

3. Time - Is it not time to move on and let your wounds heal? The heart speaks so let the mind listen , no?

4. There are plenty of fish in the ocean - you cannot add until you subtract. Simply put : ask yourself what is in your hand? Open your hand and let him go. In so doing, you will find release and someone else will surely come before you.

Finally you poor baby, I wish you well, TS : stay hungry, stay foolish.

magicafe 25-11-2014 11:35 PM

Re: What is love?
 
bro,
If love is from WL or FL , LOVE = Lies Only Very Easy. (LOVE) . I always believe that WL have feelings only not love. LOVE = MONEY.
I rather prefer a gal to give me her true heart than love. LOVE is changeable. THe truth of heart is unchangeable.


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