Psychology plays a part??
 

Bros and sis,

I recently have this problem..

I went to GL for the past 2 mths only to find that I am unable to perform.. As in A380 cannot takeoff.. But when I do it with my part time lover, I am able to.. What happened ah?? The ladies I got in GL are ang pais somemore.. I am really puzzled..

This happened since the time I broke off with my6 yrs gf last dec and since then, I am not able to perform to any other girls except for my pt lover who has been with me for last 4yrs.

I have a new gf now.. Have not gone to the extreme but just HJ and autoroaming . Performance still not that good too.. She doesn't suspect anything cos I am her first guy that she has seen and touched. There is a possibility that we will go the full distance by June..

How?? Anything you guys and sis can advise? Just want sincere answers,. If you try to be guai lan, shame on you and end up like me...

Re: Psychology plays a part??
 

I guess that it's your heart that cant let go of your previous relationship which last 6yrs.I know that it's hard cos you've been bonking the same gf for 6yrs and suddenly it just disappear like that.The feeling wont just go away like washing hand, it'll still remain there for a certain period of time and depend on how you manage your feeling. Go for a short holiday with your new gf and develope a new feeling with her, this way new feeling will eventually take over your old feeling.(warning: it wont be easy!):D

Re: Psychology plays a part??
 

bro ragnarclaw.... if u say it's the same gal for 6 years than he can perform... what about his part time lover for 4 years? He's been performing really well with the 2 of them....

can it be his feeling??? no one know.... only bro Toyota Honda can answer that.... but then what kind of feeling he has for his gf and part time lover that makes him able to perform? he has the same feeling for both of them???

i myself confused... :confused:

Re: Psychology plays a part??
 

could be the condom? i know some guys have to do it raw then got can takeoff....:)

Re: Psychology plays a part??
 

Veri simple calculation bro jimmyccc, he with his gf for 6 years and got part time gf for 4 year.But when he bonk his part time gf, he still can bonk his full time gf too..that mean he bonk his full time gf 2 years more ( 6yrs - 4yrs = 2yrs more) then his part time gf...understand..:D

Re: Psychology plays a part??
 

You just need to relax and don't think about "sex" "sex", and it will be fine. Sounds like you just need to let go of your previous relationship and stuffs.

Re: Psychology plays a part??
 

i dun even french with my new gf
just go out shopping movie etc
machiam like back to sec sch puppy love
maybe as ragnarclaw says, it takes time ba
anyway as long as you are happy, thats the most impt ;)

Re: Psychology plays a part??
 

Likely u just nervous. I would be uncomfortable abit when fucking a complete stranger & that might lower performance. How to enjoy when u keep thinking about STD also. Virgin even worse. Wait she keep saying she pain here, pain there. :(

Re: Psychology plays a part??
 

That's true.

HAving a steady bed-mate is very assuring. You know what to expect and what to do and how she likes it.

Re: Psychology plays a part??
 

That's true.

HAving a steady bed-mate is very assuring. You know what to expect and what to do and how she likes it.