Ashamed
 

I think I've got a big problem here, bros. I can claimed that I'm a normal teenage male with normal sex drive and do PCC sometimes. But I recently faced a problem - I tried to have sex with my girlfriend. She was HJ me til I was very hard. But when I wanna have my first try at sex (okay... I'm a virgin...so?), my dick juz 'mysteriously' soften back. It's not like she's fat or anything tat makes me sianz or wat. She have a good figure which I often yearn for in a girl - nice soft boobs etc.

Juz wat is the problem here? Am I sexually-incapable? Or does some of the SB forumers here oso faced the same problem when you were a virgin too? Any solutions to my problem? Thanks alot to all in advance. Really grateful to all if I can overcome this problem.

Re: Ashamed
 

u too nervous?

Re: Ashamed
 

In my opinion there's nothing wrong with you it's all in the mind. You're just nervous and overanxious to perform so that make it difficult to hold the erection. Rather than thinking of how to why dun you try concentrating on the pleasurable feelings that you're feeling and naturally you'll find it a breeze to remain hard. Just relax and enjoy it and you'll see it do wonders for you. Hope this helps :)

Re: Ashamed
 

ask your gf to BJ you instead of HJ...

Re: Ashamed
 

Bro, you too nervous liao lah. Just relax and don't die die think of you wanting to please your gf... enjoy the whole love-making process and you will pop your cherry soon.

Cheers :)

Re: Ashamed
 

You're straight right bro? :D

kidding...maybe you're setting high expectations on yourself...i got a WL for the first time, she showed me the "ropes" ;)

bless her...

Re: Ashamed
 

Thanks for all the reply.

So you guys are saying that I should relax and enjoy? Nt very sure, but i did try to relax, it's the same thing... or should i let my girl ride me instead? Cos she have some hands-on experience b4.

Re: Ashamed
 

U too Gan Chong liao....simple as dat

Re: Ashamed
 

Do you exercise? I am guessing you are not physically fit. For HJ, just need to lie down and your gal does the hardwork, for FJ, you need to do the hardwork. Try jogging or some exercise.

Re: Ashamed
 

Bro,
U may be too mind ur profromance as she is experienced:rolleyes: :confused:

Re: Ashamed
 

I agree with bro liew...there mus be something in your mind that make you not able to perform..esp when you are about to penetrate!...it is definitely your mind that is playing tricks with you.you have to be honest about it yourself..is it that you are worry of getting caught?..or that your GF had experience and you dun...too anxious to please her??..deal with the truth ..and onli the truth will set you free/or your birdie free!(for that matter)..hope to see your FR with your GF soon,....cheers:p

Re: Ashamed
 

Can i ask what do you fantasie abt when you PCC ??

Do you think abt

a) penetration OR
b) everything else except penetration ?


If you are b), then maybe you can start to PCC thinking abt a) more.....so you can kindda warmup yourself before you ACTUALLY have real penetration sex with your gf....

So when the real sex comes, you are really excited abt it and your did will not soft......

Re: Ashamed
 

basically.. relax.. and haf fun.. if it's meant to be it's meant to be.. haha.. chill bro.. there will be a day where u will attain nirvana.. :)

Re: Ashamed
 

U too stressed up I guess. Relax, dun set any expectation at all, close ur eyes and lie down and let ur gal do the foreplay and guide u into her.

Dun feel ashamed again should u cum in few mins from entry cos is quite normal for first timer.

Hope I contributed and may u have healthy happy sexlife since then.... :)

Re: Ashamed
 

nah... you're just too worried about milan travelling to barcelona trailing by 1 goal. :D