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hey people
18m here

i have never been to massage center b4,
im vergin, still wana remain vergin

but i think at least is better to knoe some short form term b4 i go to this place

heres some question:
1)wats the common short term u all use mean in long term, is there a list?
(eg: wats cd, fg, fl......)

2)if the masseuse n i do ''activities'' naked, but WITHOUT sex.
will i be charged extra?
[im not rich lar, but aso dun think im into sex, but bj is tempting

3)living in the north, is there any place where i can go to massage, with good 1st time service(GEMS),so tht it can make me tempted wana go there eveytime?
is tht baliestier "da chang jin'' a good place''(saw tht in newpaper)

4)u may say im might be those cheapskate guy who pay little n wana get good stuff...
to a certain extent, i am, BUT I DONT ASK FOR SEX....so hopefully, i wonder if i can go anywhere to get a massuse tht look like LYNN POH???

OMG... i know im ''night'' dreaming

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Hi Kiddy Livingstone1988,
I will not scold you.
Let nice uncle help you.

1. You should first read the thread Newbie Issues/Say Hi/Testing located at the Home Page to get all the basic knowledge.

2. Then read the thread: Q & A for New Babies N Lazy Cheonger located in the Health Centre and KTV Lounge Tangos Home Page.

3. If you don’t do 1. And 2. Our BIG BOSS SAM here and his GENERALS will scold you, because you will be wasting their time answering all your questions which other Newbies have asked many times!

4. Read all my postings. You will learn much from my postings. I seldom use short forms, even if I use, I will put in effort to explain and I am very careful not to make careless mistakes in my typing so that Newbies and foreign friends here will not have difficulties understanding what I mean.

5. Since you are still a VIRGIN, keep it for your future DEAR WIFE! It is the BEST sacrifice your wife will treasure! Don’t waste it on a prostitute! She would not treasure you and yet wants you to pay Higher price!

6. If you are not willing to pay higher price, then don’t go to Health Centres. You will not get good service if you are not willing to pay their asking price. If you just enjoy their massage and don’t want their offer of SPECIAL services, they will show you their BLACK faces because they earn only a few dollars from the massage. If you really only want to have a good massage, tell the reception clearly to assign a girl who has good massage skill and when the girl comes in, tell her that you just want a good massage and you will pay her an extra S$10 to S$20 for a good massage. Usually the girl will not strip or let you touch if you don’t agree to pay their asking price.

7. Lastly, a MAN who does massage is call a MASSEUR and a Lady who does massage is call a MASSEUSE. Don’t get this wrong otherwise you will cry!

8. Let other SENIOR Brothers give you further advice.

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boi,
just pay up and let the tn lady do the work.
but u say u willing to pay little $,i think u will go hme clean.
dun cme here kpkp,later the senior will start their cannon shooting at u.:D

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go read the threads to get a general idea

working lady will give u "black face" shld u refuse special

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Hi,

here are some basics:
Q1

HJ - Handjob (use hand)
BJ - Blowjob (use mouth)
BBBJ - Bareback Blowjob (use mouth w/o condom)
FJ - Fulljob (use hum :p )
FL - Freelance (not legal prostitutes, which is what u see standing along geylang)
FR - Field Report
Damage - How much did it cost

The FAQs have more detailed stuff if u need...

Q2

Yes, the lady would usually try to get some tips from you if guys engage in petting. better to ask for price first, don't wanna get chopped when they see that you are inexperienced.

Q3

No nice places in the north leh....used to have a few good TNs in yishun, but have since been raided and forced to close.

Restraining from sex is pretty darn hard if you ask me....but of course, if you can save it for marriage, so much the better....but if you do engage in sex in the future, please do so with a condom....never never do it without.

Cheers!!

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it's VIRGIN not VERGIN lah!

anyway wanna stay a VIRGIN then make sure u also dun get any bj/bbbj if not considered lost VIRGINITY liao! :P

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Hi Livingstone1988,

it is better to remain a VIRGIN!

once you lose it, you will NEVER get it back!

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no one is a virgin...

BECOS LIFE SCREWED US ALL!!!!

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Bro Livingstone1988,

If you want to remain a virgin, you must have your reasons and that's okay.

But if you are really serious about not wanting sex yet, then STAY OUT of Tuinas and Health Centres!!

Things can get pretty wild sometimes, and if you don't have the emotional maturity to handle such intense situations, you may get caught up with it and let the hormones take over.

Pretty soon, you'll find yourself not a virgin anymore, and start regretting that you lost your precious virginity to a meaningless encounter with a working lady who only cares about money.

Just take a moment to consider how you would feel about yourself after the session is over.

Think about it ... Is this what you really, really want?

People cheong for different reasons. But always make sure you know what you are doing. There is no shame for a guy to remain a virgin until marriage.

For example, if you've just got your motor-cycyle license, you should stick with 125cc or lower powered bikes until you gain enough experience. There is no shame in that.

Just don't jump straight into a 750cc or 1000cc bike. Newbies can't handle the power and they are very likely to crash and burn. Not only will they get hurt, people will say they "kay kiang", and they get no sympathy for their stupidity. What will remain are scars and bad memories.

Be a man. Take personal responsibility of yourself and take control of your life. Think carefully about what you do before doing it.

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haha the brothers here are like counsellors.....nice:D

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ask for a HJ or BBBJ bro! :D

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And don't masturbate :D

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Virgin also see red:D

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Hj, Bj or BBBJ and Booby massage are ok.
It is not considered lost of Virginity la!
But how to tahan not to go further if she is doing the above?

Just Masturbate yourself without her presence.
It is the same feeling when you cum.
On top of that you don't need to spend any money and free from contracting diseases! :D

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