Girl problem
 

3.5years ago.. we met in school for the first time... We're both new to the school.

I called her on a few occasions to ask about homeworks and everything... Slowly we started chatting and phone messaging(sms) each other... a lot.

Im pretty sure shes interested in me... not because she sms me.. but because of the replies in the sms.

And also.. we're both pretty quiet at that point of time.. we never talk in school (gay shit.. i regretted that)

We sms a lot until 2 years later... she lost her phone.. From there we stopped sms.

2 months later for some reason.. i tried calling her... It works. <- meaning she's gotten her phone back.. but she didnt sms me.. and the replies she gave were totally different from how we smsed each other in the past.


Attitude changed.


From there we hardly smsed each other.

I was like ok.. fucked up.

I heard shes got a boyfriend outside school.

I went to the class chalet 4 days ago.. came back today.

Of course.. she went too.

I didnt gget a chance to talk to her.. I only managed to take a photo with her because her friend wants us to..(everyone else too)

Right before we took the photo.. she said '' ure soo tall.. stand shorter ok?? '' (in chinese)(SMILING!!!) (Phew)


From there. hearing her voice.. i knew i cant forget her.

4 days there i wanted to be alone with her .. perhaps taking a stroll or something.. talking about stuffs that happened in the past.. Why did she do this and not (not in the form of interogation[sp] )

So i was wondering if i could ask her out or something in the next few days.
(Btw our country isnt westernised... calling a girl out isnt something casual.. its serious already... Like if a girl calls me out.. i know she doesnt just want to be friends stuff like that)


heres the problem.
I want to talk to her.. understanding what really happened and stuff.

but...
1:should i sms her out and talk?
2:Should i call her out and talk?
3:Or should i just call her and talk to her there?

Im more interested in the first option tho.

Opinions?

(PS : The only reason im still diong this is because one of my girl-friends had a bf..but my friend asked her whether shes interested to be with him.. she agreeed immediately)
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Sorry for no slang :P
Posted this in some Ang Moh forum.

Re: Girl problem
 

go get a life boy if you want just sms her and not sit around waiting for an answer from us .gals dont like cowards

Re: Girl problem
 

Geez, sounds like school holidays have started :D
My advice for you, there are more things in life that can be really considered as a PROBLEM, but anyway, if you ain't man enough to do anything, nothing that any one of us say will be useful to you. Get it?

Re: Girl problem
 

sms her n see from there

btw. there is really nothin wrong in askin a ger out for casual dates and bcoz a ger ask u out..it doesnt mean they are interested in u..it might be when it was my sec school days time..but i pretty sure it wasnt now..

Re: Girl problem
 

Lol. I was wondering why the F is there a thread like this.

Just to add on. Girls don't like guys without the guts to say yes. :D

Re: Girl problem
 

sms her n see from there

btw. there is really nothin wrong in askin a ger out for casual dates and bcoz a ger ask u out..it doesnt mean they are interested in u..it might be when it was my sec school days time..but i pretty sure it wasnt now..

Re: Girl problem
 

Mai tu liao..

Go for it! Life is a daring adventure!

Or rather Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you are going to get. :D

Re: Girl problem
 

no hope liao

Re: Girl problem
 

Go Go Go for it.....you'll never know if you dont try

Re: Girl problem
 

forget abt that bitch. Change target. It's her loss, and make sure she know that.

Re: Girl problem
 

jus try your luck.. little bro.. :) :D

Re: Girl problem
 

Just ask her out and talk. you got her hp number still wanna sms. CALL and then ask her out. 2 situations. 1. she say no. 2. she say yes. Either way, you want to know what she wants right? if you sit around some more, her yes will also become a no when some guy come sweep her off her feet.

First come first serve. you wait some more, the good food at the buffet table no more liao. and this buffet is NOT refillable.

talking about forrest gump, I was just thinking.. he's box of chocolates must be boutique praline-type man... cos when I buy chocolates, i know what I'm getting cos all are the same.

Re: Girl problem
 

Guys have to make the initiative (first) go SMS or call her (either method does not matter) ...if she is still interested , she will n if she is not , go and find urself another chio bu lor......remember , the whole FOREST is our playground ........SO, wat r u waiting for ??? for school to start in Jan???........whahahahaha:D

Re: Girl problem
 

jus call her n ask her out.. at most kanna rejected only lor better than sit there n wait wait wait... dun wait til christmas hor :D

Re: Girl problem
 

What is praline type? Royce huh?

Btw, found one of our brother's nick is:
LIFE IS LIKE A BOX OF CONDOMS, U NEVER KNOW WHEN U WILL BE USING IT

Haha...