Married a WL
 

I wanted to share my story because there a number of bros out there with questions about whether a relationship with a WL can work out.
I met my now wife in 2012 when she was working in a house in GL. I had visited the house around a dozen times before I noticed her. I missed out the first time I saw her because I had booked my regular at the time. I was waiting for my regular to finish her current assignment when bro chose my now wife. It was only when she went to the room that I noticed her - tall, voluptuous and beautiful face. I made the decision then that I would look for her on my next visit.

Hi bro MIC, that was a nice start but for the thread title, am expecting a story of the ups and downs, how you prepared yourself mentally for this married relationship, the emotional and physical parts of the journey and et cetera.

Will up you for the share. Cheers

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Mind divulging more info? Like how you overcame the physical and emotional barrier/stigma?

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You can guarantee she will not go back to WL?

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Something s missing from yr cell! If she is his wife already then how would she be working in gl again ? Unless this guy is living of this WL!

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On my next visit to my regular house I noticed she was available, and keeping my promise to myself, I chose her. Her service was good, with passionate frenching but otherwise SOP. We lay and chatted after we were done and I found her to be easy to talk to and with a good sense of humor. Overall a very good experience. After that first visit, I made her my regular and usually visited once or twice a week (sometimes as many as three times a week. Sometimes I visited other houses and a few times I chose another girl from the same house when I showed up and she was not working.

Around 3 months after first seeing her, I visited another WL at her house on a day when she was on code red. Though as I was leaving I bumped into her. She smiled and said hi, but I could see disappointment in her eyes. After that I never visited another girl in her house again, even though she never discussed it with me until some months later when we were going out regularly.

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I first asked her out after about 9 months. I would meet her in the afternoon (I was in a sales role and could work flexible hours) and we would stay out late. I made excuses with my ex-wife (wife at the time) that I was entertaining customers. On our 2nd date she told me the story of her ex-boyfriend who had been abusive and forced her into prostitution. She got very upset and I comforted her. On our third date we had sex in my car which later became a regular thing. She encouraged me not to come to her house too often because she did not want me having to pay for it when half the money went to her boss. During our time going out she never asked me for any expensive gifts or asked any money from me.

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up u 8 back :)

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At the time I was in a very bad relationship with my ex-wife. We hadn't had sex for more than 5 years when I started cheonging in 2007. My wife was verbally and physically abusive towards me which I had told my WL-girlfriend about at the time. With WL-girlfriends encouragement I finally found the courage to leave my ex-wife which was very difficult because she cleaned out our joint bank accounts Which left me temporarily penniless. A friend helped me out with a place to stay and I sold my car so I would have something to live off.

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I wanted desperately to further my relationship with my WL-gf but I knew her time in Singapore was nearing the end. I began looking for work in China so that we could be together. It must have been fate but a month later I flew to Shanghai for an interview and soon after got offered the job. My WL-gf flew to Shanghai together and we spent a week together before she decided to head back to her hometown.

My divorce cam through after 1 year. By then my now wife and I were living together in Shanghai and she was already pregnant with our baby girl who was born 7 months later. We are still together now and we have an extremely happy relationship. We have never had a fight during our years together (I think because we have similar personalities). Sex is still outstanding and she never says she's not interested. She is more of a spend thrift than I am - she says we must save for our future so I don't always need to work so hard. Unlike what some bros seem to think, I never worry about her past and I have complete and total trust that she will always remain faithful. I know that the boss always says whores are for fucking not loving, but in my case and it may be somewhat unique , it's not the case.

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You are lucky is all i can say....moreover how many people out there would actually marry a ex-fl...:eek::eek::eek:

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Nice story, there r some similarity with mine. Pls continue :D

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listening to your story now, because I am in a relationship with a wl too and if things turns out well, I wouldn't rule out marriage. so....