Any advice from married men?
 

I am planning to moving on to marriage with this girl.

What stops me is her past that she used to party and date a lot of guys during her younger age. I have also found out that she nearly have a casual sex with a guy that she fond of after drinking. But that was before we have know each other.

Should I consider a girl past before I marry her?

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Bro, that was before she knew you, so it shouldn't affect you. You love her for what she is when you met her, not what she was before you two met.

And you being here on this forum also means you ain't no saint so you shouldn't be so affected anyway.

End of the day, pick the girl who you know when you shit your pants when you're 70, she'll help clean and change you and not scold you for it. That is the woman you want to marry.

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U planning to marry her then u come SBF to ask if u should consider her past?

So if some say every1 has his/her past, u should let it go n look forward to the future with your loving wife-to-be, u will go ahead n marry her?

Or if some say leopard can't change its spots n speculate u are in high risk of becoming cuckoo as she will commit adultery, will u get cold feet n back out from your marriage plan?

Come on lah...it is your girl, your life, your marriage.

Why do u need any advice here?

If u love her so much & willing to look beyond her past & are prepared to forgive her if she happens to stray in the future, then u already have your answer.

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This is my ques to u... think hard before u answer me

Are u looking for a gal who is a virgin? Dun drink ? Dun smoke? Dun party? Everyday stay home to acc u? Cook for you? Wash ur clothes for u? Very pretty?
Superb figure with at least C cup?

What are the chances of finding this type of gals?

And btw do rem to tell us how perfect you are too... Cheers

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TS are you a saint? Did you ask yourself have you cheated on her?

Do you have your past? Did you tell her how many girls you had farked before?

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Decision is in your own hand.

Everyone has a history, present and future. History already spoken, present is still moving, future you r not a god or holding to a crystal ball. No one know about future.

If you love her whole heartedly, go for it. Anyway, in this modern world, marry today divorce tomorrow, is nothing to be ashamed or whatever you want to call it.

Importantly, during quarrel don't bring up her history, if you are willingly to accept her totally. I believed you do have other girlfriend before her too. What you did with your girlfriend, I think she also wouldn't mind.

Getting marry, is another blank new page. How you going to write with her, all depends on both parties. If you can change her lifestyle, or she willingly to change for you, then it would be a better future for both of you.

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TS, share her contact if you don't want her.

That I agree totally. Dun bring up the past as weapon.

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well said.....

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Are you a devil? You never cheated before?

You don't have a past? How many girls farked you before?

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is not important how many guys she have before you
most important is are you the last guy she have
the same goes around.

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Well said bro

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Yes, please share.

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if you feel cheated with her then just file a divorce so we can do a lot.

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End of the day, pick the girl who you know when you shit your pants when you're 70, she'll help clean and change you and not scold you for it. That is the woman you want to marry.[/QUOTE]

So true...