My Girlfriend doesn't want to give bj
 

Hi all,

title says it all. My gf have a tendency to avoid giving me bj when I ask for it. We do have sex but she just doesn't want to do bj.
I don't really mind if she doesn't give me bj for life. I respect her decision.
But, is there any chance that I could convince her in giving me bj? I do not wish to force her. If so, anyone, brother or sister, can offer me some advice in going about this matter?
If she doesn't want it, I will give up this idea of getting bj from her forever. But it sounds kinda sad not having bj right?

Re: My Girlfriend doesn't want to give bj
 

If bj is a matter of life and death to you, just change GF lor!:rolleyes:

Re: My Girlfriend doesn't want to give bj
 

Nah, I personally don't think it a life or death matter but well, I would love to get one from her. Just not sure how to go about this matter. I do love her, I wouldn't want to change my gf like changing clothes haha.

Re: My Girlfriend doesn't want to give bj
 

Before i give you the reason, may i know your BJ is cap with condom? Or Bare back blow job meaning no condom? (BBBJ)

1 Reason why she do not want to give you BJ is her mentality is that your dick is very dirty (Don't forget we use it for peeing)

Another reason is that BBBJ has some form of risk of HIV infection, so if shr know you have been fking other girls she may not want to take that risk (as good as raw)

If because of 2nd reason due to risk, you have to try convincing her that you're loyal to her etc....

If due to 1st reason (Hygenie) its abit harder, you can convined her to give you a capped BJ 1st to slowly change her mentally than slowly progress to BBBJ

Sometimes some girls refuse to give BBBJ is also because our sperm is sour, (our dick will pre jaculate some liquids, not sperms before and after normal ejaculation as we get sexually arouse as a form of natural lubricant) if you wish to improve on that. My advice is you read on this and change your diet or lifestyle to improve on the sourness

http://www.increasespermvolume.com/h...-taste-better/

Re: My Girlfriend doesn't want to give bj
 

Thanks for sharing :D

Re: My Girlfriend doesn't want to give bj
 

Boss ur advice is awesome. Thank you

I think its the first reason ba. Well, its true that our dick uses the same tunnel for peeing as well as sperm. If that's the case, how in the world do we clean it? lol
We don't have mechanism in our dick to auto clean unlike woman.
I think have to slowly start up from cap bj first then slowly move on to bbbj.

And thx for the link, I think I need to change my diet to a full fruit diet in order to make it sweet haha.

Re: My Girlfriend doesn't want to give bj
 

Do you shower before having sex? If no my advice is to shower before having sex with her

And if she can shower with you, its even better because she can see you cleaning your 2IC, but please make sure when you clean it, open the tip and rub it with soap as well (May feel weird in the beginning but after awhile you will get use to it)

Than as mentioned slowly start from cap BJ until she is mentally ready for BBBJ, if she cannot progress to BBBJ or don't even want to give you caped bj, my advice if you truely love her than forget about it as its a heart illiness (心病) that 1 cannot be help, but don't get angry with her over it

Re: My Girlfriend doesn't want to give bj
 

Speaking of rubbing with soap, I don't know if she meant it as a joke or not but she said use alcohol to disinfect it or something. She said till I feel like a dick is some super bacteria that is bad for the body. But ya, maybe I will do it infront of her to assure her that its clean.

Hmmm, if start from cap bj, means I need to buy those flavored kind? Sg got sell those meh? maybe I missed out while window shopping.

Nah, I don't think not getting a bj would affect me till I would stop loving her because of it. Because I love her, I respect her.

Re: My Girlfriend doesn't want to give bj
 

Nah use soap will do.... Dont use alcohol... That is extremely crazy thing to do.... Some alcohol are damn hot.... Imagine if you pour on your 2IC you will feel extreme heat and pain

Flavour condom i am not sure but you can try... Some 7-11 or supermarket still sells it (Durex flavours)

Re: My Girlfriend doesn't want to give bj
 

Offer her some money and see how... :o

Dump her.

It doesn't sound sad not having bj. It sounds sad having such a bf. Dump her so she can find a better bf
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Exchange points sad ma

Re: My Girlfriend doesn't want to give bj
 

I have the same issue as my ex gf don't like to give me BBBJ when I asked.

Initially she willingly to BBBJ me but she don't allow me to see her doing it so she will use a pillow to cover my view. This happened twice and she don't even bother to do it anymore. I just find it weird why cant I see.

I believe some girls don't like to BBBJ because they might feel like a Slut? Till now I don't know the real reason why.

Re: My Girlfriend doesn't want to give bj
 

No choice. U want bbbj go outside if you can't get it inside.

Re: My Girlfriend doesn't want to give bj
 

I am curious.

Do you paint her?

Sometimes the actions are reciprocative. If you paint her until she very shiok, higher chance she would do the same for you.

Re: My Girlfriend doesn't want to give bj
 

LOL....
Keep her, l& ook for 1 who can BBBJ