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legolas99 23-08-2018 07:22 PM

complicated mind when stepping in the 30s
 
i am engaged/married with no kids. stepping into 30. bto coming soon. i still crave the freedom which i now have and really enjoy the solo chionging in bkk and pattaya (spendings my leaves there chionging and just slacking alone). i am dreadful of kids and the strain on finances that will come with them in the near future.

anybody in similar shoe or had passed that stage? do you still chiong and how you manage it?

SlimButHeavy 23-08-2018 07:59 PM

Re: complicated mind when stepping in the 30s
 
TS

Not sure of your physical condition.
For me, after 30 my dummy grow unnecessary and keep growing. I run a lot to keep myself slim and therefore chiong less spend less.

legolas99 23-08-2018 09:35 PM

Re: complicated mind when stepping in the 30s
 
live separately cuz bto haven come. i enjoy the carefree days in pattaya most. slack in the day drinking kopi and nighttime go agogo see and maybe book a girl for the night. i think i am lustful where a girl is not enough.

i dread the day when i lose the freedom to go chiong in pattaya during my leaves and fear the financial and time constraint if i were to have kids. childcare is so expensive alrdy. worst is to have that kind of child that can drive you to your grave.

i think it is the losing of freedom part and afraid of getting caught when i go hankypanky in bkk or pattaya that is confusing myself.

chaoslord 24-08-2018 10:00 AM

Re: complicated mind when stepping in the 30s
 
Freedom once married would be less. Once you have kids, less even more.

That's a fact for chiongsters :(

If you want to chiong, you need to be discreet about it. Example your phone should always be by your side with password kept confidential. It's hard to go oversees and chiong unless its like a guys trip or something. Wifu would surely smell a rat if you go Thailand alone.

vitahealth 25-08-2018 09:35 AM

Re: complicated mind when stepping in the 30s
 
Your responsibility end when your child reach 21 year old. So if you have the child at 34 year old you regain freedom at 55 year old. Still young to cheiong.

sammyboyfor 25-08-2018 11:50 AM

Re: complicated mind when stepping in the 30s
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by legolas99 (Post 17718414)
i am engaged/married with no kids. stepping into 30. bto coming soon. i still crave the freedom which i now have and really enjoy the solo chionging in bkk and pattaya (spendings my leaves there chionging and just slacking alone). i am dreadful of kids and the strain on finances that will come with them in the near future.

anybody in similar shoe or had passed that stage? do you still chiong and how you manage it?

Marriage is not compulsory. I'd advise you to skip the process altogether. It will definitely ruin your sex life.

vitahealth 25-08-2018 02:39 PM

Re: complicated mind when stepping in the 30s
 
Young people need a partner to apply for HDB

Quote:

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor (Post 17724809)
Marriage is not compulsory. I'd advise you to skip the process altogether. It will definitely ruin your sex life.


sammyboyfor 25-08-2018 02:48 PM

Re: complicated mind when stepping in the 30s
 
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Originally Posted by vitahealth (Post 17725399)
Young people need a partner to apply for HDB

Just wait till you're 35.

HuangXiaoJi 26-08-2018 12:25 AM

Re: complicated mind when stepping in the 30s
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by vitahealth (Post 17725399)
Young people need a partner to apply for HDB

Get married for the sake of applying HDB?

pinkhound 26-08-2018 12:30 AM

Re: complicated mind when stepping in the 30s
 
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Originally Posted by funboi (Post 17725646)
There are cases where the couple married or even not yet rom? but applied for BTO then hor when time come they either never complete the transaction or divorce mah. So end up wonders happen and the new BTO flat become single owner name. :D

Not say impossible to own that BTO flat but hor must see how things are done. ;)

TS must think hard lah hor dun suka suka divorce leh. I suggest TS to start training on taojiak if really need that freedom n lay a strong foundation now for future taojiak 55555.

Example. Dear! B4 we married or stay together i already tell u mah i got buddies n we all very good kam ching once in a while we gather mah to lim beer n par kiu n golf overseas mah. Its a man thing leh. I lup u one lor. Don't worry lah i will report to u n take photos show u what we do where we go. Ok boh? Next time when their gf or wife join in then i bring u along lah.

A moment later.....fly into bkk liao....Video call dear say good night.....

OFF PHONE! Operations Thermae kick start 2359hrs, all brothers fall in and prepare for taojiak exercise!

2359 is a bit late, should start earlier :D

Junction7 26-08-2018 06:58 AM

Re: complicated mind when stepping in the 30s
 
Should be 0800

Quote:

Originally Posted by pinkhound (Post 17727314)
2359 is a bit late, should start earlier :D


EasterlyWind 26-08-2018 11:22 AM

Re: complicated mind when stepping in the 30s
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by vitahealth (Post 17724387)
Your responsibility end when your child reach 21 year old. So if you have the child at 34 year old you regain freedom at 55 year old. Still young to cheiong.

Got such rule meh?

vitahealth 26-08-2018 12:15 PM

Re: complicated mind when stepping in the 30s
 
No. Of course not.

Quote:

Originally Posted by HuangXiaoJi (Post 17727291)
Get married for the sake of applying HDB?


vitahealth 26-08-2018 01:25 PM

Re: complicated mind when stepping in the 30s
 
Not rule. It is responsibility

Quote:

Originally Posted by EasterlyWind (Post 17728696)
Got such rule meh?


Nexwaver 27-08-2018 01:40 PM

Re: complicated mind when stepping in the 30s
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by vitahealth (Post 17729124)
Not rule. It is responsibility

That's good


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