Woman ONS - blame who ?
 

Read in the local papers about a 30-yr old woman. Had a ONS when she is 25 yrs old and contracted genital herpes. The symptoms appear once a month during her period and she blame the ONS guy for it....

For 5 years, she suffers the periodic outbreak and goes on to have sex with 6 more other guys.. the 6th guy is a foreigner in SGP.

She is hoping to find someone who can accept her condition and marry her. What do you guys think... will you marry her if you are approached.

Re: Woman ONS - blame who ?
 

huh ??

whether to marry her or not is dependent on whether she is compatible or not in terms of personality etc ... althou the health probs associated with genital herpes plays a certain role .. but it shouldn't be considered on its own alone ...

so wat r u trying to say here, threadstarter ??

:confused:

Re: Woman ONS - blame who ?
 

wat will U do if she ask u to marry her?
I think noone else is to be blamed lor this kind of thing is u willing i willing one its ur own responsible

Re: Woman ONS - blame who ?
 

I mean.. she is selfish to blame the ONS guy for her genital herpes and after that goes on to have 5 guys in 5 years claiming each other left her after knowing her condition...

She even said she feels it is not fair she got to suffer when her first ONS guy is now happily married and the wife is pregnant (all these reported in the papers). I think she is simply selfish and will make a bad wife.

Re: Woman ONS - blame who ?
 

Funny....how does she know that the ONS guy is now happily married with kids? Unless she still has some form of contact with him.....and if he was the one whom she got the STD from, then his wife (and kids) would be at risk too.

Anyway, from what I read, she appear to be still sleeping around & probably still having casual UNSAFE sex :eek: and that's a definite NO-NO for any guy. Best to be sincere & truthful about her condition and if a guy accept that, then she can be quite assured he won't use that excuse to leave her later on....:D

Here's to her...good luck in her search & BE SAFE!!!

Re: Woman ONS - blame who ?
 

Thats a rather childish behaviour, I would think. Blaming other ppl for her condition when she made the decision to ONS.

Seriously, I feel she shold spend more time seeking treatment for her condition now rather than thinking abt marriage....my 2cents worth...

Re: Woman ONS - blame who ?
 

Whao... reminds me of a typical woman.. blame the sky, the earth, the sea.. but not themselves.. IMHO ... since ONS.. I believe she shd know the risk liao .. how to blame???

Re: Woman ONS - blame who ?
 

If a woman afflicted with genital herpes were to approach a total stranger and tell them of her condition and then requests for marriage, I would think that she has neuro herpes... even without herpes, it would be crazy to approach a stranger for marriage :D

Re: Woman ONS - blame who ?
 

she can only blame herself for not protecting herself during the ONS

Re: Woman ONS - blame who ?
 

u cannot "protect" against herpes.. it is spread thru skin contact.

Re: Woman ONS - blame who ?
 

Her statement is simply irresponsible & selfish. ONS is a mutual consent from both parties. She cannot pin the fault on the guy she contracted the disease from, but rather, she should slap herself to senses. If she didn't itch & didn't go for the ONS, nothing can guarantee that she will not contract herpes from the other ONS she had in her later encounters.

Now, she's claiming that she's being dumped half the time due to the disease. I prefer to think that the guys used it as a convenient excuse, and the true reason is actually her self centered character.

Re: Woman ONS - blame who ?
 

how can she confirm for sure tat particular ONS passed it to her .......n if she willingly did it w/o any form of protection , the fault is entirely hers .....at 25 , u r no longer naive or innocent .........gimme a BREAK:mad: ....... she should count her blessing tat she did not get AIDs .....:rolleyes:

Re: Woman ONS - blame who ?
 

genital herpes can still spread even if got wear poncho. the disease can spread from skin contact. if that guy got a blister or pimple look alike thing, and fresh skin in contact, the water or puss spread over, then good luck kena liao.

she no need blame other people lah. blame her own itchy cb can liao. if she never ONS, she also less risk to kena liao.

Re: Woman ONS - blame who ?
 

Well, typically Singaporean I guess... Always fault on others...
Same things goes... RAW is WAR!

Re: Woman ONS - blame who ?
 

Maybe the ONS is the 1st time she lost her Virginity till the symptons came out .. so she knows who to blame.. if not cant think of other reasons...

But now coz she ONS ard...I think her partner can point finger back at her ... Vicious cycle