Looking for a discreet affair
 

Hi all

I’m a working professional, based in CBD. Looking for a female FWB based in the same area.

About me

race = Chinese
height = 1.79
weight = 75kg
age = 33
Work out often and relatively fit

Please PM me if anyone is interested. Thank you.

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Got pic to show???:D

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bro GW, your very 1st post..... salute salute :D:D

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maybe is a secondary account

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thats what clone's account are for..;):D

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Been a silent reader for quite a while and decided to try this out! Not sure if this works!

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No replies thus far so I probably should add on a bit more.

Call it mid life crisis or whatever but I have been having this feeling of not having done or experienced what I really want to. I’m not sure when it surfaced but have been really feeling it for a while. I have been with someone for the last decade but recently it surfaced that she hasn’t been faithful. This isnt revenge, but purely something which I have been thinking about for a while but never really actioned on.

On pictures, I prefer not to share openly. I value my privacy as much as anyone and would rather not meet anyone than market myself publicly.

And whoever’s still reading, thanks for your time!

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Dude you should sort out your issues with your gf first. You claim that its not revenge sex, but it is. You have been thinking about it for some time, and the catalyst for you acting now is because you found out that she cheated on you first. You wouldn't have brought up that point otherwise. Gotta be honest with yourself bro.

10 years is a long time to be with somebody. People can change. She did by cheating on you. You did too, because you have been fantasizing about cheating before you found other that she was unfaithful. Maybe its time to have a proper talk with her. Out of which two things can happen:

1. You guys break up. Then you're free to go on dating apps/forums openly. None of that "discreet affair" BS that most people wouldn't go for (hence your lack of replies).

2. You guys fix whatever your problems are and become a stronger couple.

Its a win-win situation there. Instead of wasting time living your life in limbo with half measures, I'll advise you to take action. You're not getting any younger bro. Ask yourself, what do you really want out of life?

Good luck.

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Honestly I read the part about a mid life crisis, and the gnawing feeling of not having experienced enough, and not knowing where you want your life to go henceforth, and I felt you. My own resolution to these very same issues was as drastic as they come.

Then I read the part about ‘her unfaithfulness’ and am pretty disgusted. Just another husband so afraid of being seen to be the ‘bad guy’. You wanna do it, just do it. Don’t attempt to justify it. That’s just sad.

There is no justification of any sort will make your actions justifiable to a lot of people. As peanut asked, did you and your wife deal with the issue of her cheating? Is it a closed chapter? Do you even care whether it is properly closed?

It’s your life. Decide what you want cos whatever you’re doing, you’re doing in in a half-fucked sort of way.

Middle age crisis at 33 though.... what’s gonna happen when you turn 60? Have another one lol.

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usually one will go thru mid-life crisis at 40... later at 60 it should be 3/4 life crisis... then another at 80 would be called end-life crisis

so at 33 is called self-inflicted crisis
:D

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Your gf not faithful, why you haven’t dump her?
If you forgive her, why bring it up?
You’re cuntfused.
Reflect on yourself.

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Bumping the thread