Companion
 

Hi. I am hoping to meet a lady whom I can share my daily happenings with, someone who can lend a listening 'eye' and just chat about daily stuff. Being able to hold a conversation is important, including texts (not the raunchy talks). Let's see where it takes us to. I think Chemistry is more important than the lady's age and stats. So I won't lay down any expectations on that. A little refresher of my info.

Me:
race = Chinese
height = 1.80m
weight = 76kg
age = 35
looks = I haven't heard anything negative (still)
hair = short
Smoke: No but I am surrounded by smoker friends.
Drinks: social
Personality: like to watch movies, travel, food.

Again, I have no qualms if you're looking for something discreet. Whatever works for us.

Re: Companion
 

Sounds like u need a mother....

Re: Companion
 

I welcome Milfs too. :)

Re: Companion
 

And wtf do you have to offer?

Besides some vague assurance that you aren’t ugly. And a ‘listening ear’? What kind of shitty template did you get that off?

Pretending that you aren’t looking for sex? Do you seriously think women here, or pretty much any dating platform don’t bloody know than men ARE looking for sex?

Assist Vivian has put it, there is absolutely nothing wrong with me looking for women for sex. It’s an inbuilt impulse for men. There’s nothing to deny there.

What is embarrassing is how you all pretend that’s not the case (because you think it somehow helps you) or don’t realize it’s not about what you want, but what you can offer.

Remember, even the f-ugliest girls can get laid every single night if they applied male standards to what they’re looking for in a ‘sex’ partner. Men on the other hand, have to work a lot harder.

Yes, even the handsome ones.

Re: Companion
 

Take a chill pill dude. Everyone's has different order of desire at different stages of life. I'm not here to engage in any war of words. I don't think I owe anyone explanation here. You are entitled to your own opinion. I'm cool with that.

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As far as ripostes go, that was pretty good actually. Despite my criticisms, I really hope you (and so many other guys here) find what you seek.

But I, being me will always encourage guys to go on a lot more about what they bring to the table, rather than what they hope to find.

Tell the women why they should want to go out with you. You sound fairly eloquent, I can’t imagine you having trouble with that. Assuming your intentions are what you say they are :D

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I beg to differ.

I don't find the post pretentious at all. Not every guy is looking for sex here. I know I am not. If I am looking for sex partner (like SB for example), I would state so. Some times you just want people to talk to you and have dinner or whatnots.

And TS is entitled to post what he wanted and there is no need to state what he can offer.

Re: Companion
 

Yeah.. not all of us seek sex.. sometimes companionship in our old age helps with the loneliness !
But the intro was pretty lame though!
Can do better! :D

Re: Companion
 

Indeed, we have very differing viewpoints, which is important I believe for both of us professionally.

I really have no problems with men seeking women for sex, or no sex. And whatever guys are looking for, I really wish them well.

And TS is looking primarily for sex if you read between the lines. No male who doesn’t want sex goes out of his way to emphasize that ‘I’m not after sex but I’m okay if you offer it!’ No offence to TS, you know deep in your heart what you’re after. Recognising it will help you attain it.

He certainly is entitled to post what he seeks. It’s the anonymous internet, there are no repercussions.

But we all know that for somebody to take the bait, something must be offered. It could be money, looks, personality, wit or ideally a combination of all of it.

As bro Jab put it, his intro is somewhat lame. And therein lies the issue: too many focus so much on what they want, and not what they can offer. And women are all after something.

Not always money. Frequently far from it. But a man who wants to attract women must have something to offer them, and this post, like so many go on and on about what they want, and not what they can offer.

No prizes for guessing the outcome of most of these sort of posts.

Re: Companion
 

Surprisingly CW wasn’t here yet!

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Wow.. come to sex forum not looking for sex....hmm...

Re: Companion
 

Was here n there :D

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I don't think there is a need to openly say what we can offer - if no one takes the bait, then TS will adjust accordingly. But it doesn't mean if we don't offer anything explicitly, we gets nothing. Who are we to teach him how to "bait"? How you know others are not successful in "baiting"?

Re: Companion
 

I am a successful masturbater

Re: Companion
 

Thanks everyone for your feedback. Again, I don't see a need to explain myself but since so many took interest in my post, allow me to clarify. I don't think there's a need to read between the lines. No need to second guess. Maybe the post wasn't well thought out, wasn't well articulated. And I apologize for the confusion it brings to some. Regarding the nature of this forum, I do think there are people who do order salads at a fast food joint, coke in a pub; I think you get the drift.