wify in this pandemic
 

Currently due to this pandemic, always stay at home and do the house chore. I always cook the dinner for my wife and have it together after she backs from the work.

Just then, she tells me she does not like this and feels I am sissy to do this, in return, she reluctant to have sex with me for one reason that I am not man enough.

Any bro has similar experience?

Re: wify in this pandemic
 

That sounds odd. I thought women appreciated that. At least all those I’ve dated appreciated it.

Re: wify in this pandemic
 

Bro, similar situation... wife rather spend time watch drama series.. ( korean / china) then want to spend time have sex with us... furthermore everynight when ask, they will say tired la etc.. got scolded somemore... always say "ur brain nothing better to think of huh always think of sex" wah lau... :eek:
somemore now their body also big size, big fat ass, big legs... even pussy very hairy like bush.. never maintain at all.. worst still now all WFH no more wear nice beautiful cloths... sometimes i will open her wardrobe drawer saw she wear those untie kind of underwear... all make no more mood to do anything... :(

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Drop some hints to your MIL, about the situation. Seriously. Older women usually understand, that self neglect and neglecting the husband's need for sex is the surest way to have him "eat outside". Unless that is what your wife wants.

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well for me i got caught 2 years ago and since then been dry until now, i got what i deserved i guess!

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Sounds damn BS to me. when a partner/spouse has changed, everything oso not right. Don't want to have sex or dont want to have sex with you?
all rubbish excuses. You are not man enough to fuck her then who has been fucking her these while?
Dont be surprise one fine day she will tell you that you are making too much noise drinking water. A buddy of mine kena these nonsense and eventually led to their separation.

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sorry to hear that bro, but doesnt that makes you nothing more than
a provider in your family ? what's the point. unless you take this as your redemption.

Re: wify in this pandemic
 

your wife is different from other girls

Re: wify in this pandemic
 

need to give them some support to change their aunty style

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They have 1001 reasons not to have sex!

Re: wify in this pandemic
 

Agreed. Or maybe it's the method of presentation? When I cook, I always try to make it a special occasion with special care. So later the girl also appreciate me.

Maybe during wfh it became so mundane that ts wife took it for granted already.

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She doesn't love you and also lost the respect for you.

She may hv someone outside or she totally contempt with you

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Quite different.
His wife works and bring the money back but your wife is watching drama.

Since you said she is out of shape and wear aunty clothing, why still want to have sex with her?

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No, the wife looked down on him. Probably she is making the money and he is not.

Nothing to do with presentation, she is tired of seeing the husband being a house husband bcos man is suppose to go out n work. She has lost her respect on him

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Perhaps one day you should "man up" and not cook dinner. Get her to cook right after she's back instead, and tell her not to forget the dishes too!

Hopefully this suggestion helps her to see the man in you! :mad: