How many is too many?
 

This question might upset some people, how do you feel about the number of sex partners your potential relationship has had in the past?

I've always tried to be open minded as possible but to be honest, when someone tells me they've had 20, 30, 40+ partners, I have a hard time not feeling a little uneasy.

So yeah, how many is too many?

Re: How many is too many?
 

Well, I guess that depends on how many sex partners you have had before you met your potential partner. This should include all the MLs and FLs that you have had.

If you have been chionging a lot prior to your relationship, then you should not be expecting your partner to be less active.

Just my 2 cents worth.

Re: How many is too many?
 

When people tell you they had 20, 30, 40 you got hard? Then you PCC?

Re: How many is too many?
 

Really depend who you are talking about.
For my GF or wife, having 5 different cocks penetrated
in her mouth or pussy is already too much for me.
max i can accept is 3 before i feel uncomfortable.
ONS or fling, more better as more experience and
way more easier to fuck. but how much is too much?
i once had a 17yr gal who told me i was her 35th.
she was only my 2nd sex partner , i felt so little boy
in bed with her. but enjoy lah. make her my GF? no way
she's like public toilet. for the record, she lost her virginity
at 13 when she was in NPCC. And slept with 9 rugby
boys in my JC team then !

Re: How many is too many?
 

Bro i beg to diff, it sounds really bastard but the truth is
when a guy have had 50 sex partners, he is legend
but when a girl has slept with 50 men, she is just a slut.
sorry if i offended anyone.

Re: How many is too many?
 

Yeah like the saying goes, "A good key is a key that can open many locks but a lock is bad when it can be opened by many keys" :D

Re: How many is too many?
 

Why you bother so much? At the point in time when you have sex with her, it's only 1 penis (yours) entering 1 vagina (hers) right? All the people she has slept with or will be sleeping with has nothing to do with that point in time. Why let it bother you? Just enjoy the sex.

Similarly, what if she is your 35th partner while you are her 2nd? Will you feel like a public toilet? Unlikely right? You only care about enjoying the sex you are having at that moment in time.

TS, how many is too many? Too many is when you know you will not remember this person you are having sex with. A, B, C, D cups all see and hold before. All types of nipples explored until sian. Pussy tight or not all ty before. All sorts of moaning and facial expressions roughly see before. Nothing new anymore. Bedding this additional person doesn't matter as much anymore because you will not remember much of her in time to come. That is when it is too many.

Re: How many is too many?
 

Personally for me..don’t ask, don’t know, don’t bother. Past is the past, just keep it there. Maybe it’s an ego thing, when I was younger, I started keeping a ‘little black book’ in Excel, detailing my conquests, age, cup size, race, even rate the sex on a scale of 1-10. I know exactly how many girls I slept with, how many times we fucked, where, dates etc, felt good as the list grows….

When I hit 50 this year, I deleted the list and removed all traces of it….no need for such info to be in existence to feed an ego that don’t exists anymore. I think with age, comes wisdom…. Some info, we bring with us to the grave, this is one of them.

Re: How many is too many?
 

exactly! you only fucking that one person at that time what. so what if she has fucked 1000 guys before you? you mean you will feel like you're fucking 1000 guys?

Re: How many is too many?
 

She may have low self esteem. Maybe she is using her body to feel wanted, to feel popular. Even if people are gossiping about her, at least people notice her. She was still so young then. Thinking have not matured.

Just another joke, don't mind ah bro. Can you imagine yourself cuddling with her after sex and asking her 我算老几? and she replies 你算Lousy...:D:p Possible right since she is just your 2nd girl. 老几 sounds like Lousy right?

Re: How many is too many?
 

Personally, if there's no more after me, that's good enough

Re: How many is too many?
 

indeed bro, it a lugubrious thought that a young gal would resort to barter trade for attention.
i did vaguely remember she has some family issue there and then with a drunkard father but
frankly that was never my polestar compare to her C cup breast. ( she was known to have the best tits in sch )
老几 or Lousy? sigh.... i probably still am :D

Re: How many is too many?
 

Many can boast their many counts. Hope they can accept the partners also boast more men count.

Re: How many is too many?
 

well said bro.