Advice from married bros
 

Hey guys. So..there's just something I hope can learn from married bros here.

For me, I'm 31, and single. Previous relationship with fiancé failed and then I was like fuck it already. Just play...

so it's been 3 years of playing, fucking other girls, but I hope to also settle down, find my 1 partner, and have kids. I like kids, as much as the process of making one..

Was wondering when I'd stop playing. Sometimes when the music stops, I just have a feeling that all the girls im with right now are temporary and won't really stay at my side in the long run.

Career doing quite ok for now.

What was your journey and perspective like? Any advice for me would be appreciated..

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Let me look into my crystal ball for you…
You will still be a player even after you have found the one and settle down and eventually have kids.. once a player, always a player. Sometimes also need to eat out if not life gets too boring..

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Only when you get tired of playing around then you will be able to see more clearly, and get the right one. After which, everything will fall into place naturally, so don't worry.

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it is finding that lady that can go thru thick and thin and that someone u are comfortable with.U should not rushed into marriage until u are ready and sure.

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TS, from a soon to be divorcee, here's a song dedicated to you...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5VB1ea37fKA

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People want good advice to settle down and yet you go and tell him to continue to eat out even after settling down...:confused::confused::confused:

If everyone thinks like you, either Sinkie will be a very big orgy party OR very high divorce rates already...

:D:cool::confused:

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nice bro :D

sorry to hear abt the dvrce. hope it works out well for you and all involve.

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thanks bro, appreciate it. yeah maybe I don't worry so much for now. haha.

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that is quite a shitty advice..:(:(

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There are push and pull factors.

Push factors: mindset change from within, perhaps one day you may feel that all the fooling around is meaningless and you'll want something more stable. Maybe not something as big as a family with kids, but a stable committed relationship with the right partner.

Pull factor: the right person changes your views mindset on the world, makes you see everything in a more mature and different light.

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Sometimes we go through diff stages in life. If you have feelings of them not being permanent, the chances are it won't be permanent.

If you do hope to settle down with a potential partner, I think the simplest thing to do is find someone you like and start and have the mindset of settling down rather than just having fun.

The feelings of this person is temp will still be there if its temp because u are not in love and more importantly, you don't find yourself wanting to commit.
When you are willing and ready to commit. I think the "fun" girls will likely to appeal less to you.

like oooo fun girl, nah. pass. kinda feeling.
Hope it helps :cool:

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My philosophy for married life is : You can milk other cows in the wild, don't ever bring the cow back home. Your married life will be colourful and fun n yet blissful.:)

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Best answer right here.

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“need to drink milk no need to bring a cow home”
Happy wife happy life…😅😅😅

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Most important thing is the wife must not know of the cow's existence :D