Cannot Cum
 

Hi Brothers out there

A bit paiseh to ask but i guess have too.

I got this problem of my "little bro" that dun wan to cum.

I have this prob with all FL and gals that i tried. even after 30 mins or the whole session wanna finish, no cum. but still have hard-on

Or worse half way true, it decided to go soft. Any ideas why and any method to force it to cum.
:confused:

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Too gan cheong?
Having sex but thinking of ur gf?

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If use force not shiok oledi. U sure u didnt tarek? Don hold 2 long leh, over e mark n tats it.Try ask e gal 2 play ur most sensitive spot with position u r most comfortable with n relax enjoy. Mayb u need certain stimulations 2 make u cum? Experiment experiment.

Can u cum during masturbation? If yes, take note how n wer u like it best. Do u prefer stereo sound loud loud or demure heavy panting?

Sex make enjoyable depends on e mood u hav tat moment, e type of gal u prefer bonking, visual n audio preference n e atmosphere u r in.

Hop helps n happy cheonging. Juz my nengzhiamzee.;)

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Actually i faced the same problem as TS..

I have no problems when i pcc.. But when i do the real thing, i take a long time to shoot sometimes can't even shoot must resort to pcc, and i din tarek.. I try to release while doing it, but can't leh..

Then there's once i try to go FL, once i fit on the CD, my bro just go limp.. cant penetrate.. When i don't wear CD with gf, then no problems..

Could it be due to excessive pcc, that is causing delayed ejaculation? I'm still in my early 20s, and i fear this may be a hindering obstacle if i wanna let my wife conceive in the future.. Or am i worrying too much? :o

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Heh you just need more practise bro~ Guess u r too used to doing it raw with yr GF. Sometimes the mind plays a big part and yr bro simply refuses to perform once u cap it.

:D

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Dear bros, I too have encountered such experiences as you... ... after much thought and worries, found my prob and resolved now... ... hope the under-mentioned advice will be of help to you... ...

1. Stress level - When I'm too stressed up, encounter such prob... ...

2. Excitement - Being excessively excited can cause bro to suddenly fall asleep

3. Fear - Afraid Wife or GF find out or police dash in(prefer to drive further, pay a bit more and make myself comfortable)

4. Guilt - Towards your other half(we are humans after all, especially if they treat us very well)

5. Too used to service more than being serviced - I realise when I service the gal and listen to her moans, it excites me(hardens)... ... the moment she service me... ... haiz soft... ...

6. Food you eat - maybe more oysters and eggs will help... ...

Just my 2 cents worth of thoughts... ... don't zap me hor... ... counter the above to see if it helps... ... :cool:

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Only kena become soft doing 1/2 way.
4 my case, it's due to work stress or tired as my gf has good stamina as she dont want me to stop so soon.

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It means that you're a person who needs to be stimulated mentally for continual arousal. The moment your brain decides that nothing is new anymore, it stops sending blood to your dick.

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Maybe you're just too worried about it or too 'hard-working' there.

Relax, enjoy, try to find out which position feels best for you. Make sure you enjoy that position, let your imaginations and your mood flow. Be a bit selfish (do not hurt the lady, of course!).

If you worry abt her feelings while seeking your release: Just make sure she got your due attention before and is sextified already. Like that she'll most probably enjoy whatever you do on your way to the top.

Cheers
mz

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Think its generally mental. I suffer from this as well, if the gal isn't that hot, and a dead fish, i can go long till its softens half way. quite embaressing for both parties.

However, if the gal's my kind of looks n bod, i can almost feel the sperm reaching the dickhead upon penetration. Mostly can't last more than 5mins. :p

Lastly, i'm totally into frenching, so if i meet one that's not so into, i'll feel alittle demoralised. Condoms as well, tight condoms makes my dick go soft as soon as its worn. dunno why too. :confused:

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Ah...that serves as a balance for FL who are dead fish on bed! So better work it up or else suffers from prolonged session.

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Hi Man

I used to have something similar to your problem. And it took me a while to figure out what's wrong and I was in my early 20s then.

It's basically all in the head. Stress, repetitiveness, turn off due to paying a professional or simply a desire to want more will affect your ability to cum.

I discovered that I had no problem at all after I dated and fuck a girl that I like. There was even once when I dated a girl that was a 5/10 but the sex was great cos we did lotsa funny stuff like making out in a public park, soft bondage and erotic massages. But when I tried a Pro, I end up with the same situation and the inability to cum on certain ocassions.

If due to some reason you can only fuck a Pro, one suggestion is to reduce the amount of time you spend on porn and PCC. A man needs approximately 3 days of rest to fully recover from a successful cum so ample rest is good too.

Or if you have the budget, hire a FL and do something fanciful like soft bondage or something.

Hope that helps

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Thank you Bro

Will try to all your suggestions. i thought I'm finished liao. Only one FL managed to make me cum. It feel good.

Thks again bros.

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Thanks for all the advises bros..

Maybe my problem also partly becos i seldom do it with gf.. Mostly petting and finish off with pcc... Then on usual days, i'll just pcc relieve myself..

Then i'm afraid might be due to the excessive pcc, causing my performance to decrease during sex.. and also perhaps i'm too used to my pcc position, if i'm nt in that position, i find it hard to cum.. :o

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Well at least you're open about it and willing to discuss it, not afraid that it might hurt your pride or something. Its a common problem we all have la.