Dear Agony Uncles....
 

its been a few months since i bonked with my wife liao... wat with the kid and work and blah blah blah....

so past few months i've got my regular fix at either capital of singapore or with FLs...

today morning suddenly after sending son to school my wife got mood and jio me to bonk... but dunno why pump halfway like bo mood then buay stand....

my missus not exactly model pretty but is buay pai kua one lor, but dunno why bo mood means bo mood, cannot up means cannot up....

die... isit too much cheonging already? a case of body getting weaker or losing interest with wife already? any bros experiencing this problem?

how do u solve it?

Re: Dear Agony Uncles....
 

hey bro,

tis happen to me last time wen wif my ex

always kana rejected till i dun ask anymore

then one day she happy happy ask for it, but no matter how hard she try to seduce me, didi cant stand fully.

wat i suggest, have a good rest, dun PCC oso. Set a nice ambience then do more foreplay before enter

Re: Dear Agony Uncles....
 

rest i tink got enuff lah cos the last time i bonked an fl was 2 days back and yesterday bo pcc....

initially we do stil ok but halfway thru dunno why suddenly feel like bo mood to carry on like that then my little bro jus drained off power faster than cryptonite on superman....

wah siao like tat how to bonk until wrinkled botak head and teeth drop....

Re: Dear Agony Uncles....
 

nope no medication.... the problem is i got no such problem wif fls.... haiz...

Re: Dear Agony Uncles....
 

I can understand yr concern bro. May i suggest that both of you try to freshen things up in the bedroom by wearing sexy lingerie and you boxer shorts? Then dim the lights and light up some scented candles. You can even have some massage oil on standby. I believe its all in yr mind and you just have to get thru that barrier, thats all. Cheers and good luck.

Re: Dear Agony Uncles....
 

no lah bro think is normal,might be ur attactment role wif ur wife,some times we might be too engross in our daily routine and reponsiblies wif work and family and etc.,having a nice break wif ur wife and family might fix the bill.:):D:p:)

Re: Dear Agony Uncles....
 

Sound like you getting bored of your wife. Quite common problem among married couples . Cos always same style same procedure....etc. Maybe you should try something to spice things, up like watch xxxx movies together, tell her frankly what you actually like and ask what she actually like . Have an open conversation to each other. Well it works for me and my partner. Hope will be useful tips for your. Cheers

Note : Great sex is always DIRTY !:D ( My philosophy )

Re: Dear Agony Uncles....
 

This is interesting, lol

Re: Dear Agony Uncles....
 

I think after a few tries and failures during the first week or so, you more or less train yourself to stop co-relating your wife with sex. The problem probably deepens after you have your own alternatives, which already formed a regular lifestyle. I mean, if a man seeks sex from FL, they habitually lose interest in having only one partner or having only THE partner.

But I think FL can never replace something which wives can give, that is the willingness to have sex with you, becos they love you. Hope you can find a solution from that angle.

Re: Dear Agony Uncles....
 

bro

first and foremost, you are not a machine. You can't just change the batteries every night to get your dick working. You're not a virgin, 18 year old, any girl ask you ai mai siao gan. at that age u will confirm rise to the occasion. You are experienced, you still need to be turned on.

How long have you and your wife not been intimate? I'm not talking about sex, i mean hugging, kissing and simple show of affection.

after marriage and kids, alot of couples neglect intimacy. Try to get someone to take care of your kid, go out and do something, just the two of you. Just like the things you did, when you were dating. (movie, walks, shopping, dinner, drinks, hot sex like bunnies somewhere discreet, make love to her)

when you are chionging, you are fucking to get off.

but for your wife, you make love.

I suppose she realized that the two of you have not been intimate for some time, so she initiated. Sex is a form of communication, if the sex sucks or becomes non-existent, generally the relationship is deteriorating.

one of the biggest mistakes married couples make is to stop doing things that brought the two together in the first place

I suggest you start going out on dates, foot massage or going for a massage together, spend some quality time together, go somewhere, play some nice music, light some nice scented candles. and go for it ;)

Re: Dear Agony Uncles....
 

Hi Bro,

I think the above 2 sentences sums it all. Prob after the few months you din do it with your wife, lost the mood to make love (not fuck and go FL mood).

Hopefully you and your wife will be on the 'right track' soon. :D

Re: Dear Agony Uncles....
 

You should try not to fall into this situation.... try resolving it ... make it a point next time to at least do it with wife once a fortnight ... at least ... it is natural to find FL more desirable as they can be young and beautiful as compared to wife ...

Re: Dear Agony Uncles....
 

Knowing by saying got kid or busy work and so for is some sort of excuses.
Is is true occasionally after work you may get extremely tired and no mood to have sex for enjoyment and can't really concentration. Fair enough.

Put yourself in your wife's shoe. If she is those very caring and observe type, who else can give sexation to her?? Only you..

The tireness of your didi has result the half way stop.

Nobody could help you except yourself. Go for regular exercise (20-30mins) and lesser outside sessions.

FL - short time enjoyment.
Wife & family - long time enjoyment.

Re: Dear Agony Uncles....
 

Dear Bro,

you are seeing red, do you know that? It is because of the
timely rejection and subsequencely you found alternative.
Stop all your ECA and start to spend more time with your
wife, like bringing her out and create some feel. I was like
you before, totally lost interest in my most loved one.

Please come back to senses. Nobody beat the one at home.

Re: Dear Agony Uncles....
 

Sometimes its not just the wives who give all sorts of reasons to don't sexercise... I have met husbands who have all sorts of reasons. Be it too many activities, hobbies etc..

There was this guy, his wife is consider pretty hottie.. after marriage and have a kid, they just didn't make out for months...

Wife is a sexaholic... always hungry for sex but in this senario, what can you say about this husband??